Decision of continuing or annulling the marriage should be undertaken solely by the couple. Others shouldn't take an active role in getting them separated or staying together. Otherwise if both partners divorce and later happen to miss each other , the blame will be on others. On the other hand if things become worse by continuing the marriage , still the blame will be on others.
Ruhi should have let kachri abheera fall during the bewdi act. Kachri vomitted so much thinking that ruhaan is Bhayanak Shraapit Panauti (BSP) and also mentally tortured ruhi. Kachri kidnapped ruhaan and planned to upbring ruhaan as bsp.
Atleast ruhi should care about her own son and keep it away from vile abheera's sight.
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