Originally posted by: Indira1211
anupama and abhira can’t be compared. Rishta heroines lives are not as pathetic as anupamas. Dkp always opens doors for his heroines..after sadness there’s always some happiness. Anupama is like Ruhi..she messes up her own life every time by not living in from the past. If she had truly accepted Anuj and choti anu and prioritised them..she would be leading a happy life and so would rahee . I think abhira is behaving this way..because she has not experienced the trauma that abhir felt..because she wasn’t there. Abhira had a happy childhood. Her mom raised her with lots of love and care., she doesn’t know Arohi , abhimanyu and even her father.. and akshara didn’t let any sad memories of them or abhir cloud abhiras childhood which was happy. So now abhira is in a happy space..she got a loving husband, baby , so she wants everyone to just be happy like her..😂 I think that’s why we’re seeing her behave this way. Because in reality if something did not impact or affect your life in any way..it’s hard to feel any extreme emotion about it..be it anger, pain, etc..
Was losing her mother in front of her eyes not enough? It's trauma as well. She didn't even get to process it because she got married to Armaan and had to adjust with Poddar clowns.
She is a happy person, no doubt. But like she said in today's episode happiness is a choice. Abhir's trauma can be excused because he was away from his family. God knows in what circumstances he was brought up and where he lived, etc. But Ruhi had a whole family in front of her. She had a career, a home for herself. Ruhi calling Abhira shallow is a new low for Ruhi as a character.
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