Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 19 Nov 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 7

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Also MG saying Kairav helped keep taal mel b/w Arohi & Akshara - has that man seen Gen 3. Looks like he requires a refresher as he definitely has forgotten what happened the previous gen

He needs to ask garam sitara subscription from his bestie

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

Baby is crying since night for milk, baby's mother is crying for her baby

But only one who matters is baby queen who can't handle that her complicated pregnancy resulted in her losing her child

Both Rohit and Armaan are there to judge Ruhi after stealing her baby, they don't even care about the baby

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

Very irresponsible statement to suggest that mothers can't feel pain, just because they are mothers their feelings are secondary, about time we wake up and read about post partum depression, mothers end up hating their own lives and kids, they go through millions of changes post pregnancies, how difficult it is for people to give someone the time they need to heal and grieve the loss?

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Everyone has a different grieving process and coping mechanism. Being a mother doesn’t mean you get to be the selfless person every time and not choose yourself. That’s a wrong message. To Ruhi, her child died. Simple. Let her grieve, let her lactate more or less, let her cry, but let her do it. Why choose it for her and when she doesn’t wish to, judge her?? Pretty sure if the situations were reversed, everyone would have jumped at Ruhi’s throat for even suggesting it including both the poddar brothers.. ! It’s sad we are judging a grieving person.

I am not judging a grieving person, but judging the ability to sit and let a baby die when you can save it. Sorry but can’t ever say it is ok. A mother would save any baby’s life if she can, irrespective of their enmity, gender, friend, or whatever! A baby is innocent and needs to be protected if it’s in your hands.

See PPD (post partum depression) comes in many ways and requires a lot of support - from families & doctors alike. Situations can go worse to the point where yes, one can think of harming ones baby just so that they can stop this overwhelming feeling they get.

Taking care of a child is as frustrating as it is rewarding. You sometimes really want to shut your child's mouth coz the crying is getting to you and other times you want to murder someone for even looking at your child wrong. There is a reason why it's said that after delivering a child, a woman goes through a rebirth of sorts, coz you are never really the same after a child is born.

But yes, coming to today's situation, the problem here is not Ruhi thinking badly of a random kid. It's her wishing that Abhira's kid should never have been born coz she lost hers. It's like she wants to even the scales in some form. That is not grief. That is being a small human being who cannot let go of a fictional resentment (coz Abhira was not responsible for her Matashree's demise, no matter what people convince me of) and instead wants to wish that a baby never existed just coz she feels she lost hers. It that mentality of if I am not happy, how dare she be happy - that is not PPD, that is being a horrible person. (Also this was when the baby was not where bear her and wasn't even crying, for her to be triggered and say such nonsense)

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

👏👏👏👏 thank you 🙏🏻

Grieving and Healing is not at all easy journey and doesn’t happen overnight too. You need your husband’s emotional support and warmth to endure this pain and here Rohit has closed his eyes when it comes to his wife’s pain.

Husband, family and basically everyone but mental health is such a taboo topic, especially in 3rd world nations and societies where women and their health don't matter at all.

Both Abhira and Ruhi have had difficult pregnancies, say if one of them didn't want to breastfeed not out of a medical reason but out of simple reason of not wanting to do it, for one it would be praised as a choice and another an act of cruelty

Similar issues were in Anupamaa, where she boasted about doing everything on her own, being Superwoman was the only way to be a good woman and good mother, everyone else was bad

Formulas are available everywhere, many mothers don't breastfeed out of choice

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

Read about Post-partum depression, mothers have issues and they fail to bond with their kids, depression is reality

Edited out mocking

Inke bachcha donation pe Kitne episodes aise hi nikal liye. This is not stopping anytime soon.

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

Many irresponsible statements, when there are reported cases of mothers refusing to breastfeed their own baby when they are suffering, your experiences are not universal. You don't make others feel bad for suffering, those who are suffering need help, not a manual in mahanta

Again, refusing to feed ones own baby and actively wishing someone else's baby not being born are 2 very different things.

And unless you yourself have not gone through it, you really cannot comment what is justified and what isn't in any case.

And yes. No one expects mahanta from her - Ruhi said no, Abhira moved on. But I stand by my statement - Ruhi wishing that baby had never been born is wrong, and no matter how much she is suffering, that statement is never justified.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Kitna shameful baat hai na! Baccha bhukha ro raha tha, bacche ki maa zinda bacche ki maut ka maatam mana rahi thi and Rohit Armaan baccha churane ke baad bhi abhira ko kaisa feel ho raha hai ruhi ke reaction se issi mai atke pade hai 🤮

Thieves stole everything from someone then they judge them for not being kind to others