Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 19 Nov 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 4

Originally posted by: Hell2

She already thinks she lost her baby and now she’s getting judged for not reacting the way people expect. Its so messed up. Abhira is really coming off as selfish here. She’s so focused on her own stuff that she’s not even thinking about what Ruhi’s going through. Ruhi’s grieving, and Abhira just expects her to help like it’s nothing. how could she even expect her to feed the baby? Could’ve had a private convo but no, asked in front of everyone.

In the episode I saw on hotstar, Abhira is the only person who understands Ruhi's pain! Also, she didn't ask Ruhi to feed her baby before the Dr. suggested so! And I am pretty sure by the look of Ruhi, she would have done so had it not been Abhira's baby! Her decision to not feed the baby was not because of her pain, it was because of Abhira!

And I don't think anyone in her place would be so primp and proper to arrange a private meeting in this situation! After Ruhi said no, she didn't force her again! She fed the baby formula milk!

Whatever happening with Ruhi is not correct! But Abhira is the last person you should blame! Yes, it's her stupidity that she thought Ruhi will try to forget her pain seeing Abhira's baby! But that's a stupidity, not a crime! And the constant flashbacks, dialogues of Ruhi kinda say that more than her baby, she is sad about the fact that Abhira has a baby while she doesn't! I know she is sad for her baby, but her grief over Abhira is kinda bigger! I hope I am wrong but all her flashbacks and her convos say that!

Originally posted by: ambika02

As a mother I can say that a real mother would never see any other baby in pain. Let alone grieving, having lost her own baby. I’d do everything in my capacity to give anything to save that tiny life if I can! Heck we have real stories of bishnoi women feeding babies of deer who need feeding. So yes, Ruhi is a heartless and selfish woman who is able to sit while a defenseless child is dying of hunger. No sympathy for such a person

Very irresponsible statement to suggest that mothers can't feel pain, just because they are mothers their feelings are secondary, about time we wake up and read about post partum depression, mothers end up hating their own lives and kids, they go through millions of changes post pregnancies, how difficult it is for people to give someone the time they need to heal and grieve the loss?

Originally posted by: ambika02

As a mother I can say that a real mother would never see any other baby in pain. Let alone grieving, having lost her own baby. I’d do everything in my capacity to give anything to save that tiny life if I can! Heck we have real stories of bishnoi women feeding babies of deer who need feeding. So yes, Ruhi is a heartless and selfish woman who is able to sit while a defenseless child is dying of hunger. No sympathy for such a person

See I get her resentment, I do. I even understand her nit feeding the kid, as many would not be able to do such a thing, especially if they're in depression which looks like Ruhi is suffering from.

But yes, wishing another's baby wasn't there - that is in no way justified, even if you lost yours.

Also MG saying Kairav helped keep taal mel b/w Arohi & Akshara - has that man seen Gen 3. Looks like he requires a refresher as he definitely has forgotten what happened the previous gen

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Inke kuch intentions nahi hai batane ke. Wapas palne wala vs paida karne wala timepass chalne wala hai kya?

Mujhe bhi ehi laag raha hai! I don't think there is any intentions of telling the truth regarding the baby!

Originally posted by: Pinecone

She asked because the foolish ITV universe doc literally said that was the solution.

Abhira asked because doc suggested breast milk is superior to formula

When Ruhi refused, Abhira gave formula- done.

I dont think Abhira is selfish. She only followed doc advice. as a new mom its reasonable that she was afraid to give formula until she asked doc and when doc said breast milk is a better option than formula and apparently it was also the solution to Ruhis issue of having too much lactation

It was the doc who was insensitive and suggested this solution in front of all, not Abhira. Was it necessary to give such a cringe and pointless scene- NO.

But in the context of the scene, I only saw Abhira as a new mom who is scared about every decision regarding baby, guilty about not being able to feed properly.

she understands Ruhi's grief and doesnt hold anything against her.

If roles were reversed, 100% Ruhi would be screeching at Abhira and feeling entitled and if Abhira had refused like Ruhi, she'd be guilt tripping her for not obliging her etc.

exactly!!! ruhi can just enter abhira ka room when no one is there to do jasoosi....and with no sorry...shame to door ki baat....to rote hue baby ko, if any one would have said no, to ruhi to abhira se cheen hi leti.....😂

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Inke kuch intentions nahi hai batane ke. Wapas palne wala vs paida karne wala timepass chalne wala hai kya?

Abhi toh lagta hain bachha graduation tak pahuch jayenga but yeh nikkame log mouh na kholenge. Only Phuphasa PPT can spare me 🙏🏾

Yrkkh4 makers have expertise in writing rubbish.

medical aspects mein toh PhD in writing rubbish

I am actually just glad Doc suggested formula varna I would not put it past these dumbass writers to write some stuff about no option other than breast milk and showing Abhira beg every new mom in the hospital to share breast milk for her crying baby

There is medication available for aiding lactation and for stopping it but ofc doc had no suggestion for that either.

There are breast pumps available if the issue is to do with baby latching on

But we cannot expect these makers to do even a google search on things to write a decent script that actually discusses all these things in a factual way to spread awareness so that new moms arent judged.

The worst part is they have a woman on the writing team.

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

Very irresponsible statement to suggest that mothers can't feel pain, just because they are mothers their feelings are secondary, about time we wake up and read about post partum depression, mothers end up hating their own lives and kids, they go through millions of changes post pregnancies, how difficult it is for people to give someone the time they need to heal and grieve the loss?

Don’t put words in my mouth. Show me where I have said ‘Mothers can’t feel pain’?

And yes, it IS about time we read about postpartum depression as well as human empathy!

Baby is crying since night for milk, baby's mother is crying for her baby

But only one who matters is baby queen who can't handle that her complicated pregnancy resulted in her losing her child

Both Rohit and Armaan are there to judge Ruhi after stealing her baby, they don't even care about the baby