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Originally posted by: cutepigs

Ruhi is wrong for her hatred, but the story she has proof of, makes the hatred justified. She doesn't know she was driving, she only heard her maasi say she caused the accident that killed her mother. Why should we forgive anyone related to loving Akshara? Would would forgive, let alone love, someone who killed their loving parent?

Abhira didn't give baby to Ruhi because she thinks that's what Ruhi wants, she is giving him to her as a replacement saying he'll call her Matashree, that's the insensitive part. Had she approached this as you are chachi, even if you don't consider yourself maasi, he is here to be with you when you feel ready, I would have agreed she put Ruhi's needs first, but nobody in that family is doing that, nobody is asking her what she wants right now, they are all sure they know best and putting on her. Whether it's her husband who is ok with using her to pop out babies because his Bhabhi would be heartbroken or not able to have kids, whether Armaan who is ok with it because he wants his wife and his dream family, whether Abhira who is "sharing" her baby as mothers with a woman who was just told her baby is dead.

Hating abhira is actually wrong here no one is saying her to Love her but abhira in sab mei koi haat nhi hei ab the way she is calling small baby names voh b galat hei.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Kya Kare aaj Kal Abhira ko behen chaada chada hai.. All ITV FLs are like her. she even forgot Vidya easily..

Sometimes I feel in this negative world and itv full of toxic characters, it's good to see some positivity. Her character of forgiving anyone so easily makes me start thinking to let things go. Don't hold grudges but sometimes when ppl keep misusing that then we become stupid. That's what happens with Abhira. I do think when ppl hate you give them space, you don't have to be nice always. I hate her sister jaap. No she is not your Pyaari behna who will get happy that you're offering her to be mom again. And less said abt Roohi is better. Calling a baby as "Saaman" when she herself lost it was disgusting. You become mom not when you deliver but when you get pregnant. I had a miscarriage too and when you see other babies you cry , you want to pamper even if it's someone you hate but don't call them Samman. I feel one important thing we should teach our kids is even if we hate someone to core, never take it to kids. They are Gods creature's. And also they will grow up with same hatred which is not good either. I don't even know why ITV promotes such nonsense.

That was the main reason abhira went to ruhi so that unke kl ko bache aayenge unmei yeh hate na phailaye.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Makers love her tho forget it 😀😀

Makers want her for to create kalesh that's all.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Ruhi is wrong for her hatred, but the story she has proof of, makes the hatred justified. She doesn't know she was driving, she only heard her maasi say she caused the accident that killed her mother. Why should we forgive anyone related to loving Akshara? Would would forgive, let alone love, someone who killed their loving parent?

Abhira didn't give baby to Ruhi because she thinks that's what Ruhi wants, she is giving him to her as a replacement saying he'll call her Matashree, that's the insensitive part. Had she approached this as you are chachi, even if you don't consider yourself maasi, he is here to be with you when you feel ready, I would have agreed she put Ruhi's needs first, but nobody in that family is doing that, nobody is asking her what she wants right now, they are all sure they know best and putting on her. Whether it's her husband who is ok with using her to pop out babies because his Bhabhi would be heartbroken or not able to have kids, whether Armaan who is ok with it because he wants his wife and his dream family, whether Abhira who is "sharing" her baby as mothers with a woman who was just told her baby is dead.

@bold in my opinion Ruhi's hatred is not justified since it was an accident and not intentional murder. Two characters in the same show Gen 2 Naira and Naksh forgave Mansi who caused their mother's accident which resulted in her death and Mansi ran away from site of accident. Many people have opinion that Mansi was a child, no she wasn't a child but she wasn't an adult or 18 plus to get punished. After 3-4 years Mansi got married to son of Singhania family's daughter Nandini. They all forgave her.

@red that's your perspective for Abhira's character. In my perspective or what I've seen of Abhira after her remarriage, she thinks or she is made to think that way, baby is a miracle that can heal and solve all the problems (which isn't right). She in her imagination doesn't distinguish between her baby and her cousin's baby. She wished be a a co-parent to Ruhi's child, and Ruhi to be a co-parent to her child even before Ruhi's accident. I personally didn't like her idea of co-parenting from the beginning. But in joint families your chachi/maasi can love you deeply like their children it's not an unimaginable concept. So yes, Abhira could've handed over the child to Ruhi as her nephew and not as Ruhi's own child being a co-parent, that also after giving her time to grieve for her loss, but then also why hand over her baby to someone who was calling him names or wished bad for him a few days back?

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Originally posted by: Drna7

Sorry for your loss, hope everyone heals.

Disclaimer: I am talking about FICTION an ITV show, so it has no connection with real life. Different morals for fiction and reality.

Why everyone say pregnant women should be extra careful? Because there is a life inside them and whatever they'll do will directly affect that unborn.

@bold yes I agree behaviour during only pregnancy time is not the only way to judge a mother but it is a one of the parameter by society. When a pregnant lady doesn't act careful people say does she even care about baby or not.

You gave example of Ak, I wanna give one too, she is still called bad mother, kamini, chudail, killer of own child because her carelessness lead to her mc. But then according to your logic she should not be judged. (I am not a gen3 viewer, my comment is based on comments made by those fans every other day)

@ul her pregnancy was healthy no doubt but people are pointing out about the meds she skipped even after doctor advised so and her husband used to give her. And during her delivery doc said her condition is more critical coz she skipped meds. You can drive in healthy pregnancy but that doesn't mean driving at full term in anxious state that too going to visit a baba without informing any family member is ok. Also harbouring negative feelings for another mother and unborn.

Whatever happening currently is unfortunate to both mothers and Ru is also a victim. She deserves to get her son back, her husband is cruel for letting her cry for baby who's alive and deserves appropriate punishment.

@bold, but that's my point. Her being careless or careful during pregnancy doesn't make her a bad or good mother, what she does in the follow up as a mother, is that defines her. For me, she was a bad mother the minute she decided to call her child a bojh and send to Abhimanyu, essentially teaching her son to use Abhimanyu, which, let's be real, for a while Abhir did, he did use and throw Abhimanyu, something nobody ever felt bad for, they all felt bad when Abhimanyu chose his peace and walked away from the child, not when the other parents or child did that to him.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Kya Kare aaj Kal Abhira ko behen chaada chada hai.. All ITV FLs are like her. she even forgot Vidya easily..

Sometimes I feel in this negative world and itv full of toxic characters, it's good to see some positivity. Her character of forgiving anyone so easily makes me start thinking to let things go. Don't hold grudges but sometimes when ppl keep misusing that then we become stupid. That's what happens with Abhira. I do think when ppl hate you give them space, you don't have to be nice always. I hate her sister jaap. No she is not your Pyaari behna who will get happy that you're offering her to be mom again. And less said abt Roohi is better. Calling a baby as "Saaman" when she herself lost it was disgusting. You become mom not when you deliver but when you get pregnant. I had a miscarriage too and when you see other babies you cry , you want to pamper even if it's someone you hate but don't call them Samman. I feel one important thing we should teach our kids is even if we hate someone to core, never take it to kids. They are Gods creature's. And also they will grow up with same hatred which is not good either. I don't even know why ITV promotes such nonsense.

My dear dear friend 🧡

I'm that kinda person who would never like to keep grudges ..at the same time I can't deal with negativity at all ..if somebody has a problem with me , I naturally keep a distance from them..I don't try and make them fall in love with me 😆 specially the relatives/ in laws relatives . Coz these are the people our life basically revolves around..they carry the max jealousy , selfishness & animosity , whether they show it or not....I'm not generalizing , I'm not saying all are like that, but I guess one can be a pretty good judge of character around those who openly act hostile. Like ruhi does. Like vidya does.

Here we are talking about women like ruhi and vidya . Whenever I bring this up , I'm told abhira craves for a big family, she does it for arman , and now she's facing mental trauma due to bullying and she thinks it's all normal ..why can't we just say what they're showing is problematic ? every single aspect of this show is , including bhabhi jeth ema , ruhis plotting , vidyas shrap ..We're just calling it out . But who will call it out in the show ?

The moment behna tag was put on ruhi, abhira changed. If she encountered a woman like vidya in court , she would rip her apart but ghar pe ? . That's the problem..

On a side note , padosi show ki upma aunty ki life was not much different ..can we say she was under trauma or she suffered Stockholm syndrome ? Phemily phemily phemily bolke , every person around her is traumatized bec of her but she's still a victim dukhyari orat ? Aise kaise chalta hai ?

Originally posted by: cutepigs

@bold, but that's my point. Her being careless or careful during pregnancy doesn't make her a bad or good mother, what she does in the follow up as a mother, is that defines her. For me, she was a bad mother the minute she decided to call her child a bojh and send to Abhimanyu, essentially teaching her son to use Abhimanyu, which, let's be real, for a while Abhir did, he did use and throw Abhimanyu, something nobody ever felt bad for, they all felt bad when Abhimanyu chose his peace and walked away from the child, not when the other parents or child did that to him.

For that same reason ak is still called bad mom I don't know if you know that or not

Originally posted by: Krinya

My dear dear friend 🧡

I'm that kinda person who would never like to keep grudges ..at the same time I can't deal with negativity at all ..if somebody has a problem with me , I naturally keep a distance from them..I don't try and make them fall in love with me 😆 specially the relatives/ in laws relatives . Coz these are the people our life basically revolves around..they carry the max jealousy , selfishness & animosity , whether they show it or not....I'm not generalizing , I'm not saying all are like that, but I guess one can be a pretty good judge of character around those who openly act hostile. Like ruhi does. Like vidya does.

Here we are talking about women like ruhi and vidya . Whenever I bring this up , I'm told abhira craves for a big family, she does it for arman , and now she's facing mental trauma due to bullying and she thinks it's all normal ..why can't we just say what they're showing is problematic ? every single aspect of this show is , including bhabhi jeth ema , ruhis plotting , vidyas shrap ..We're just calling it out . But who will call it out in the show ?

The moment behna tag was put on ruhi, abhira changed. If she encountered a woman like vidya in court , she would rip her apart but ghar pe ? . That's the problem..

On a side note , padosi show ki upma aunty ki life was not much different ..can we say she was under trauma or she suffered Stockholm syndrome ? Phemily phemily phemily bolke , every person around her is traumatized bec of her but she's still a victim dukhyari orat ? Aise kaise chalta hai ?

Well said.....akshu went to meet the doctor as she was not feeling well...and on her way, she had to go saving the girls....tab to she is the most careless mom...and yahan ruhi goes in anger and anxiety...to find the gender of her baby...and meets with an accident...tab she is acchi mom...😂

manyu throws akshu out of the house in that delicate state...but he is ok....and akshu is bad even though after all that rubbish she called manyu...but manyu did not take the call...

she is a bad mom..as she thought about abhir...so that he settles down well...at birlas..after losing the custody...

aise to manjari was the worst..usne to manyu ko jail hi pahuncha diya tha in fraud case..😂

jab tak koi manyu se connected ho...uske har baat sahi hai...😂 jaise hi koi manyu ko aina dikha de...woh galat hai...😂...waise manyu ne ruhi ka poppy banne ki jagah akshu ka puppy banna behatar samja...koi chinta nahi thi use ruhi ki.....and ruhi bhi poppy ko yaad nahi karti hai...😂

abhira ne injection de diya...to koi badi baat nahi...ruhi ne uske baby ko khullam khulla harm pahinchanne ki koshish ki...fir bhi abhira is thinkiong about ruhi..to she is insensitive...

abhira should have snatched baby from ruhi ke haath...tab sentitive ho jaati abhira???😂