YRKKH: BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread # 22 |DT NOTE P.35, 54 - Page 82

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

what a couple ..one has .5 expressions ..the other is always doing facial yoga

Kal wale episode mein combo milega with sindoor drama... Hopefully memes bhi honghe😀

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Originally posted by: Sera-high123

https://x.com/kinzouelmire/status/1809648075469697377?t=bfLIkw344J9coPqBaRE4-A&s=19

Originally posted by: Naya_31

according to this oldie, Abhira’s life is less important than Madhav lol why can’t this old sky find her own donor lol what exactly has she done except sitting on an establish business empire lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 gold digger runs in her blood lol she is the biggest gold digger lol her daughter is the same as well.

100% agree…All big dialogues… I used like her kaminapaan with swag and true to her thinking without flipping.. but now I yawn listening to her crap…

she is becoming 2 nd class villain

Originally posted by: Fortnight

subah se outdoor shoot ho raha hai inka. Kahi sach mein sadak pe toh nahi aa gaye

serve them right… all their life they made other miserable..

Originally posted by: leafy2022

serve them right… all their life they made other miserable..

Originally posted by: Fortnight

but if this happens then they're gonna end up at PH.

Let’s not give the writers idea. They can go to Abhira’s guest house.

Originally posted by: leafy2022

100% agree…All big dialogues… I used like her kaminapaan with swag and true to her thinking without flipping.. but now I yawn listening to her crap…

she is becoming 2 nd class villain

Originally posted by: Nephy1

I feel sad for armaan...

The way the one thing that made abhira different was the right he used to feel about her...

But the way today he was all scare to even call her and than the way he start talking by speech of how guilty he feels to destroy her life and he knows she is strong and don't need his help...

I mean isn't you guys feel same way his talks used to dadi and vidya...

Thats how he talk to them na...

Ki he is sorry that they had to suffer so much becoz of him....

I felt sad, that he fell in love with exact replica of hus dadi and maa...

Sorry to barge in here, my friend.

I didn't know if what is mentioned here is real or sarcasmIf it is sarcasm, please ignore this free ka gyaan. If it is real, and you really like Ruhi and this is how you see Abhira, Armaan equation, I apologize in advance and let you have your opinion

But hear me out if I may......... I felt that the writers were totally off yesterday to have Ruhi come and give some gyaan to Abhira. The one who only a couple of days ago threw Armaan (her gehra pyaar) under the bus and expected to kill Armaan, Abhira relationship forever. She felt that she can't bend and twist Armaan anymore as he stood his ground at the mandapand so hoped Abhira will do what she wanted. The one who is irritated, peeved and salty that Abhira didn't fall for her machinations and returned to PH. She was giving the lecture as an elder sister to a wayward younger sister spoiling her life. OK, I will move on and make peace with it. May be her P naanu's kwhaish poori ho gayi, for sadbuddhi to both Ruhi and Armaan.

The above mentioning of Armaan- Abhira and how Armaan is now scared/guilty of what he has done to Abhira and somehow that killed the vibe of the relationship and Abhira= Daadi and Vidya bothered me.

I am all for having unconditional relationships. While Armaan did have a free and comfortable relationship with Abhira, a lot of that stemmed from the fact that she didn't need to be appeased by him, she is dependent on him. He treated her as his ward, somebody who is less worldly wise, insolent person tagged to him. I may not be too fair when I say that, as we saw him being affectionate with her, doing things for her. But, emotionally speaking he had set very clear boundaries with her when it came to his personal matters- RuhiHe didn't tolerate even small miscommunications with his family- daadi, maa or Rohit. So, he took all liberties with Abhira to know choti-badi baatein, not that she minded and gave everything whole heartedly without any conditions.He also took liberties to erupt on her and took out all kinds of frustrations on her, very freely. But, when it came for him giving back to her, that was not the case, that is if we agree that a relationship is a give and takeFrom his side, what he gave Abhira is very conditional(I am not talking about money etc., strictly speaking emotions only)

So, if he feels guilty now for how he treated her, that is what a nice person with a conscience should feel like, right? He can have his freedom with her, where he is not vying for anything, but to get there, he should also be able to give freely. For that to happen, she needs to be trusting him. I think this is where they are now. He is trying to convince her about his integrity(which by the way is completely uprooted by himself) and sincerity about his relationship with Abhira.

We also need to remember that Abhira is very aware of his mind set and dynamics with his family, his sense of misplaced guilt. With his personality, he would have been immensely guilty for Abhira's mother's death too, had she even harped a bit about that. Despite knowing his personality and his weakness, she never used it to her advantage. Not even when he threw her out of the house, knowing she has nowhere to go, means of survival, she didn't once bring up the topic. If I remember right, she even mentioned that it is entirely her mom's decision to intervene and fate took its course and him being there is a coincidence in the cruel khel of kismet. This attribute of hers where she lets him be without any conditions, is what made him have the relationship he had with herNow it is his turn to provide the same comfortable space with him to her

I don't want to even go there at how Ruhi, daadi and Vidya used that weakness, we all witnessed it in great detailHe now broke free of daadi's clutches, Vidya seemed to have turned around and Ruhi doesn't have that influence over him anymore to twist him against AbhiraFinally, Armaan Poddar had come of ageand it is a good thing

I am now tired of the lawyer black and white outfits. Can we see something else please?

Please ignore if this is not what you meant at all

Originally posted by: mili9

Sorry to barge in here, my friend.

I didn't know if what is mentioned here is real or sarcasmIf it is sarcasm, please ignore this free ka gyaan. If it is real, and you really like Ruhi and this is how you see Abhira, Armaan equation, I apologize in advance and let you have your opinion

But hear me out if I may......... I felt that the writers were totally off yesterday to have Ruhi come and give some gyaan to Abhira. The one who only a couple of days ago threw Armaan (her gehra pyaar) under the bus and expected to kill Armaan, Abhira relationship forever. She felt that she can't bend and twist Armaan anymore as he stood his ground at the mandapand so hoped Abhira will do what she wanted. The one who is irritated, peeved and salty that Abhira didn't fall for her machinations and returned to PH. She was giving the lecture as an elder sister to a wayward younger sister spoiling her life. OK, I will move on and make peace with it. May be her P naanu's kwhaish poori ho gayi, for sadbuddhi to both Ruhi and Armaan.

The above mentioning of Armaan- Abhira and how Armaan is now scared/guilty of what he has done to Abhira and somehow that killed the vibe of the relationship and Abhira= Daadi and Vidya bothered me.

I am all for having unconditional relationships. While Armaan did have a free and comfortable relationship with Abhira, a lot of that stemmed from the fact that she didn't need to be appeased by him, she is dependent on him. He treated her as his ward, somebody who is less worldly wise, insolent person tagged to him. I may not be too fair when I say that, as we saw him being affectionate with her, doing things for her. But, emotionally speaking he had set very clear boundaries with her when it came to his personal matters- RuhiHe didn't tolerate even small miscommunications with his family- daadi, maa or Rohit. So, he took all liberties with Abhira to know choti-badi baatein, not that she minded and gave everything whole heartedly without any conditions.He also took liberties to erupt on her and took out all kinds of frustrations on her, very freely. But, when it came for him giving back to her, that was not the case, that is if we agree that a relationship is a give and takeFrom his side, what he gave Abhira is very conditional(I am not talking about money etc., strictly speaking emotions only)

So, if he feels guilty now for how he treated her, that is what a nice person with a conscience should feel like, right? He can have his freedom with her, where he is not vying for anything, but to get there, he should also be able to give freely. For that to happen, she needs to be trusting him. I think this is where they are now. He is trying to convince her about his integrity(which by the way is completely uprooted by himself) and sincerity about his relationship with Abhira.

We also need to remember that Abhira is very aware of his mind set and dynamics with his family, his sense of misplaced guilt. With his personality, he would have been immensely guilty for Abhira's mother's death too, had she even harped a bit about that. Despite knowing his personality and his weakness, she never used it to her advantage. Not even when he threw her out of the house, knowing she has nowhere to go, means of survival, she didn't once bring up the topic. If I remember right, she even mentioned that it is entirely her mom's decision to intervene and fate took its course and him being there is a coincidence in the cruel khel of kismet. This attribute of hers where she lets him be without any conditions, is what made him have the relationship he had with herNow it is his turn to provide the same comfortable space with him to her

I don't want to even go there at how Ruhi, daadi and Vidya used that weakness, we all witnessed it in great detailHe now broke free of daadi's clutches, Vidya seemed to have turned around and Ruhi doesn't have that influence over him anymore to twist him against AbhiraFinally, Armaan Poddar had come of ageand it is a good thing

Please ignore if this is not what you meant at all

Had ho gyi yeh toh..

If someone finding mistake in abhira than that person is ruhi fan..

By jaruri nahi ki kisi ko congress pasand nhi toh automatically bjp pasand hai..(just using as an example)

Kya hai logic hai yeh that if you find issue swith abhira you are a ruhi fan..

Let me clear.

I am no ruhi fan no armaan fan no abhura fan...

This is a show and only show for me....

Mein yahn kisi ki fan banane nhi ayi mein..

Mein sirf apni fan hoon yah apne maa-papa ki bas..

Aur logon ki fan nhi bna jata mujhse..

Above all fictional character ki...

And regarding your post...

Neither I appreciated armaan's action than nor do I now..

He was very wrong at ruhi's time...

And regarding the relationship of having right...

It was the comfort he used to feel with abhira which is definetely went out of the window now, and its not due to his own.mustakes but abhura's comtinous guilt tripping

But just becoz armaan was wrong doesn't make abhira's wrongs right...

Agar ek bnda kisi ka khoon kar de toh vo bhi galat aur palat ke ghar ka koi uska khoon kar de toh bhai vo bhi galat..

Jo galat hai vo galat hi rahega..

Ab toh fir ek hi tareeka bcha hai dkp bnao.armaan ko bhikhari aur mangavo usse bheekh..

Kyunki barabari toh fir ab tabhi hogi..

Humein kahan galat sahi ki pdi hai humein toh bas barbari karni hai...

Aur kya karna hai yes abhira pls bring a guy and start taking liberties with him..

Armaan barred physicality tum 2 kadam age badho...

Include intimacy also..

I mean now when you just want to get back at him for all that rather than dealing with real.issue..

So do it with interest. .

Ache se badla le.lo..

Koi kasar mat chodna..

Real issues ki baat kyun hi karni hai..

Tum toh barabari karo armaan ki galatiyon ki.

But mind it.

Armaan galat tha toh meine use galat kaha tha.

And if abhira is wrong I will say she is wrong...

And pls come out of this mindset that if someone finds problem.with abhra than that person is ruhi fan...