ar will not give ruhi princess treatment any day. She knows that he always choses family. It's her wish to be his wife even after knowing what he can do if his wife goes against family. So she will be careful in that. Abhira is good one she had no myl in heart nor filter in mouth because her personality is that. If her traits are turned ad calm and accepting dadis methods she won't be a fl. Ruhis ways to fill ar ears against abhira are not supported as audience by us. But why did ar listen or act because he is that only A duffer. He is not a great hero for him his family is imp and whoever family wishes he will marry and strive to be good there. There will be people who are like this I have a school friend he is same till now his wife adjusts there his daughter gets that priority, his wife gets everything in house but she is calm and does what they want. It's a sort of adjustment in life. Ruhi herself got divorce papers and ar didn't say anything much , even Vidya brushed it easily. What all ruhi did is taken as for family ka peace no fights for dadi vs abhira. If they kept abhira as strong and opposing person to egoistic dadi there is a reason in keeping those characters that way. Either dadi has to change totally leave her busbusbus or abhira has to adjust and take calmer life. Abhira supported for charus career or love did charu hold career or dev sir now. So she stood for a useless girl .if she kept calm not caring this family people went in her career or studies saying I am here for an yr only as guest she could not have humiliated this much nor hurt nor heart break. Ar khaands are that which are dangerous. Now he started another one immediately after divorce Done where will it go and hit need to be seen. And I don't trust ar any day as he has no pov said clearly it's all his conditions and his convenience.Originally posted by: Solitudelover
Ab character also has flows.. She needs to learn ways of the world and how to get things done in joint family without going the rebellion route.. And I think she would have as well if the family had been more acceptable of her... Plus there are instances when it is clash of egos.. But she can learn and change and infact is shown to be changing.. Remember Ar dialogue to her in car with Krish like how come you are dealing with things calmly nowBut dont agree with Ruhi family person tag with what makers have shown audience.. If not raising voice against Dadi is the parameter, then Kajal not raising a voice against Sanjay as her kids or she herself is abt to be slapped would be characteristic of good wife.. If Vidya had slapped her wrong, she should have resisted.. Instead she went to fill Armaans ears against Abhira... Once she wins Armaan if tomorrow she feel Ar is prioritising someone else and she is not getting princess treatment with her characteristic shown so far, she will manipulate Ar against that personAr reason for rejecting Maanav was correct.. She needs someone for whom she is the only priority.. Way she has done with Goenkas.. And Armaan then said he is also not right for her since family is important for him...
Can the writers please move on already? Another dream coming tomorrow, where she is hugging Arman and crying 
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