Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 23rd Apr 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 17

Originally posted by: Aadi04

See his family is not disgusting… Madhav Vidya manisha and Manoj are nice folks .. even Dadisa remains annoyed with her but she cares enough when Abhira had an accident or was kidnapped

kajal has been nice to her but Abhira ‘s over involvement in her children’s life has caused distress in her family

Knowing the age difference between dev shikhawat and Charu ( 15 years ) and Charu’s father n family being so strict .. Abhira should have told Armaan about this .. or had told Vidya .. .. I would do that if I see my friend getting involved someone so much older .. I would warn her family if she’s not listening..
Abhira was her bhabhi .. she should have told Armaan .. there is no 2 ways about it let him take the call ..

in the case of lost …. Devi tai n pulkit .. situation was very dire .. there was a child involved too .. so what Sai did was very much necessary for the whole family and virat was away ..chavans were vile n evil .. Sai essentially united Devi tai to her husband n child ( ufff why why .. that horrini)
Over here it is not appropriate.. I would have told the family

I hope Abhira won't take up 'milao Daru mission' after this. It would be a colossal disaster. Sai helping Pulkit-Devi made sense.. they were already married with a daughter, Chavannis were criminals and Devi was not in a condition to fight for herself. There's no such situation here. That lying ungrateful chorni Charu is well capable of doing what she wants. Abhira don't need to waste her energy for such a useless couple.

Originally posted by: viji2111

Instead of defending charu she should have defended herself and her family.

When daadi and fufasa were scolding charu she was interrupting them by speaking in favour of her while all the family members just kept quiet.

It’s just diversionary tactics .. their daughter is involved with a much older guy and coming back late at night around 1.30 .. is it the time to tell about her parents
Yes she should tell the family when things are more easy n convenient

I don't fault Abhira for being too stunned and hurt to react today. She does not hesitate to own up to her mistakes. She always wanted Charu to speak up and she will feel bad that her action of hiding the affair- even though unintentional - caused grief to all. But she is clear she never encouraged any affair. Her personal take on Charu dev is that if the feelings are real from both sides, they should take a stand for it and family should at least listen first before doing something drastic.

Lets see what happens next.

I think its unfortunate that she's getting really attached to a family that will not hesitate to flip against her and hold her accountable for everything since she's an easy target. But I fully believe that Abhira won't be mute for too long if she is made to feel responsible for things she didn't do. For example the decision to withhold deal Shaadi truth was Armaans , not Abhiras. She has wanted to reveal it both in sober and drunk states! Similarly charu having an affair is not her fault. She didn't tell charu to have a relationship or hide it from family.

Originally posted by: janecastle

I hope Abhira won't take up 'milao Daru mission' after this. It would be a colossal disaster. Sai helping Pulkit-Devi made sense.. they were already married with a daughter, Chavannis were criminals and Devi was not in a condition to fight for herself. There's no such situation here. That lying ungrateful chorni Charu is well capable of doing what she wants. Abhira don't need to waste her energy for such a useless couple.

I totally totally agree .. Charu n dev do not need her support n help after this .. anyways it does not matter as her marriage is only for 3 months ..
so kya fadak parta hai ..
if armaan is not on love with her she can leave anytime and live peacefully.. why should we root for this couple ..

Originally posted by: Aadi04

It’s just diversionary tactics .. their daughter is involved with a much older guy and coming back late at night around 1.30 .. is it the time to tell about her parents
Yes she should tell the family when things are more easy n convenient

You are right. But I felt bad for her and her dead parents.

She should have told the family about charu by using her badbad gadbad tactics.

Originally posted by: janecastle

I hope Abhira won't take up 'milao Daru mission' after this. It would be a colossal disaster. Sai helping Pulkit-Devi made sense.. they were already married with a daughter, Chavannis were criminals and Devi was not in a condition to fight for herself. There's no such situation here. That lying ungrateful chorni Charu is well capable of doing what she wants. Abhira don't need to waste her energy for such a useless couple.

I don't think she will. She will offer moral support maybe but I dont see her helping beyond that. Abhira has never approved of hiding things. So she'll never help them elope etc. her policy is to be upfront and haq seh do whatever it is. So she will say pyaar saccha hai toh fight for it.

Originally posted by: viji2111

Instead of defending charu she should have defended herself and her family.

When daadi and fufasa were scolding charu she was interrupting them by speaking in favour of her while all the family members just kept quiet.

But why was she supporting charu and dev ?

I am curious to know if she knows about her mother's remarriage and finding love again.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

For a guy who claims family is most important, how come Armaan has absolutely no anger about how Ruhi revealed the truth. She could easily have approached him alone na. Is he really unbothered by how her reveal has created so much stress?!

Its such a load of crap that Ruhi is going without repercussions.

He reacted so much when Abhira accidentally revealed dp matter but when Ruhi is doing the same- revealing a sensitive matter to all, sab chalta hai. Rather he is asking her how to deal with Abhira. Waah. What double standards.

Charu is getting imprisoned at home, banned from work and college, talk of her forced rushed shaadi and he's not bothered what Ruhis deeds led to.

Is Abhira more to blame than Ruhi here?!

She is always cornering him to flirt and guilt trip. Why not for something actually meaningful for a change.

Exactly…. He closes his eye for dadi and ruhi…. He totally looks like a hypocrite…… ruhi tells him what he wants to hear….
This has been his pattern, he takes sbhira for granted… Thabks her in some kind of action when she dies something for his family….

He has this idea of being in love with ruhi….
tbh, I m extremely happy this happened before abhira could confess… just hope she is out of her dreamland now… starts observing ruhi and armaan ka fishy behavior….

Originally posted by: janecastle

I really wish she would just leave, even if it is for a few days. I don't get how any daughter can love these people and stay with them, even after they character assassinated her dead parents. If this is not the wake up call for Abhira, then I'm sorry to say, she's a big disappointment as a daughter.

Only fufa did and he is vile.

She's too stunned to react. Too hurt and overwhelmed by all allegations.

Lets see what follows.

She cant be kept down for long. I dont see her accepting constant insults on her parvarish for too long.

Even today she did say to dadi- parvarish apki nahi so you find fault. But fufas character assassination of her mother was completely unexpected and sudden. She was just in stunned silence and tears.

She's currently in love with Armaan- new found realization. Shes attached to him. She has expectations from him because he has shown he cares for her.

But if that shatters, she will leave very soon. She's there because she trusts Armaan and now loves him too. Ahe has fallen for him. She knows as a brother he is worried. But if he crosses lines or says something that hits her hard - she will leave.

Originally posted by: Anu234

Goenkas usko Jane nhi denge.

I just hope she gets the true picture of what they had done to her mom…. She should teach them a good lesson… and make them all rot in guilt…. Goenkas and also poddars….Just hope she has someone who is really and truly hers…