Originally posted by: sharadrocks
I have a basic question ..Abhira may not consider it any of her business but won’t she at least wonder who this man is that Ruhi is supposedly in love with ..she has hardly left Poddar house nor has she met anyone since she married Rohit ..so it is highly unlikely that he is someone she has met recently ..given this, it had to be someone she knew from before ..if so, why did she not marry him and is it this truth that drove Rohit away ..besides she knows or believes that Armaan and Ruhi are best friends ..why isn’t she asking Armaan if he knows who this person is and if they can do anything to make things work for Ruhi..if she can feel enough for Ruhi to enable her to perform the ritual, surely this is just one step forward ..i am not liking Abhira being so clueless ..they want to dumb her down to make the heart break seem even more painful but somewhere, I am not able to understand why Abhira is flat out refusing to even think about certain things that are right in front of her ..she need not connect it to Armaan but she can surely think ..this is contrived writing at its best ..whatever I just hope they get on with the story and don’t prolong this la la phase for too long. More of this and I’ll feel like finding a way to enter the TV screen and shaking sense into Abhira ..I don’t want to talk about Armaan and Ruhi because the former is too guilt stricken to take any clear stand and is hoping for providential intervention all the time ..on Ruhi I have nothing to say ..she stands right next to Abhira, who has enabled her to perform the ritual, and says in her baby voice that her thoughts are pure …yeah right babe ..I just want Rohit to walk into Poddar House soon and unmask both Armaan and Ruhi ..actually, I am liking Dev-Phupha sa tashan better now ..they can make that the lead story till the end of IPL and I might still watch it ..spare me Ruhi’s crocodile tears and her insistence on being the victim all the time ..I mean this close to thirty year old woman is flat out refusing to take any responsibility for her words and actions and I am supposed to root for their fake sisterhood and feminism ..my foot 
Let me tell you Abhira Akshara Sharma Poddar, is character I never seen on ITV
believe me I've seen them all and this one here is alien.
Abhira had a abt opportunity hide in a corner like normal women

to see chitwalia face but nope, walked away respecting Armaan wishes 
Abhira listens if you tell her to stay out of your business, she doesn't ask questions
and doesn't even do jassoo. You remember she used to badger the hell out of Armaan even snoop
a little but once he told her, you're not the reason for me and chitwalia break up and from now
please stay out of my business, the girl stop asking or snooping. Abhira used to tell Armaan
your relationship with Ruhi looks inappropriate, he said Ruhi been through a lot and you're
adding to her grief she's my best friend and you never had a friend so stop questioning, the girl stops
After a lot of arguing with Ruhi and sometime blatant rudeness like when Ruhi yell at Abhira in front of
the entire family to stay away from P-nanu, after his heart attack and even Armaan told her told many
times stay out of Ruhi business, so how can she now ask that same Armaan to help unite long lost
love or find out who he could be. Not that Alien call Abhira
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