Clumsy Abhira?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Clumsy is not equivalent to Good for nothing.

It's Ok if she is a messy cook . That does not makes her useless.

Cooking and Saree draping is not the only two task in the world.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Read well you will understand what I'm trying to describe then I can't compare you to a character. I don't want to discuss anyone's life here.

I am not discussing my life, I am saying that it's ok to not cook or know how to wear a saree. This is 21 st century.

Originally posted by: priyabehera

Haan bilkul janha Tak mujhe yaad hai lakdi ki chulhe pe khana banane ki try kar rehi thi ...🤔.tab mujhe laga usse Khanna bana na aata hai lekin aaj dikhaya ki usse khana bana na hi nhi aata aur kal toh ussne kafi ache se saree pehni thi ..kal dikhane Wale hai saree pehna nhi aata ,aur inka welcome ke liye aache se dance bhi kia tha , sayad kal woh bhi dikha de usse dance bhi nhi aata ,.. ki roohimujhe lagta ko ek perfect bahu dikh ne ki koshish hai aur kuch nhi ..hai yeh sab issiliye ta

This is what happened in Ghum Kaku liked and always compared Pakhi with Sai..

Originally posted by: AuthorSneha

I am not discussing my life, I am saying that it's ok to not cook or know how to wear a saree. This is 21 st century.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I am taking it as that she is disturbed so much that she is not able to handle so many emotions and life changes and hence the more clumsiness.

Do you remember our chaiwali in Ghum?? I so hope they change it a bit here Ruhi is not evil and her husband won't die etc etc.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

They always showed Abhira to be clumsy one... Akshara was annoyed with her because of her Badbad and Gadbad... She also dropped her phone in chula, remember.....

In resort, she didn't do cooking and all, she was more like a manager...

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

You are entitled to your point of view.

I think I have not conveyed my point properly isliye aapko shayad samajh nahi aa Raha hai. I understood that you are trying to say ki abhira koi kaam nhi aata aur Roohi ko kaam aata hai dikhaake, kya Makers roohi ko glorify kar rhe hain... This is what you meant na (correct me if I m wrong)

Toh uska I gave answer ki by showing Abhira ko Ghar ka kaam nahi aata, will not make any difference to the viewers because in today's time, nobody assumes ki every women have to know household work.

I hope i could convey my thoughts

Originally posted by: AuthorSneha

I think I have not conveyed my point properly isliye aapko shayad samajh nahi aa Raha hai. I understood that you are trying to say ki abhira koi kaam nhi aata aur Roohi ko kaam aata hai dikhaake, kya Makers roohi ko glorify kar rhe hain... This is what you meant na (correct me if I m wrong)

Toh uska I gave answer ki by showing Abhira ko Ghar ka kaam nahi aata, will not make any difference to the viewers because in today's time, nobody assumes ki every women have to know household work.

I hope i could convey my thoughts

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Exactly your POV but this is what going to be the reason for Kaveri to compare her with Ruhi.

Acha you meant the characters of the show will compare? Haan voh toh karenge he ki Roohi perfect hai, abhira ko kuch nhi aata hai types because tv shows mein ladki ko Ghar ka kaam aana zaruri hai.

I thought you meant viewers. If you meant ki the elders in the show will compare, then yes you are right. That is precisely why they are showing ki Roohi ko sab aata hai to make her look like perfect bahu..

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

If you read well I said why are they trying to portray her as good for nothing is it to glorify Ruhi...Then all of us had a way to describe something or someone I was not insulting her.

Again, as far as comparison is concerned, Dadi already did brief comparison in a scene where they are meditating and we see Ruhi being perfect and Abhira clumsy.

Vs.

Continuing with same stuff...