14 Oct 2023 - Synopsis Hub & other discussions. - Page 19

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Look. The fact is that Abhi has always supported whatever he considered right and Manjari is heavily influenced by her emotions in which she sometimes goes too far. Suggesting abortion here is going too far and that is all Abhi is against.

Plus he is not only marrying for Abhir. He also wants to marry because he loves Ak. His relationship with her is extremely unbalanced and all of that is true. But he loves her and wants to take care of her. He wants to make up for his past mistakes of not taking care of her. It's impossible to look at this from his perspective cause yes, why would you keep loving someone who has given you soo much pain. But he does and this is what his love is.

He is not accusing Manjari because he is keeping his love over her though. He is accusing her because in this case she is wrong. Abortion is not the correct path here. Abhi has never chosen sides in conflicts between Manjari and Ak, and has always just tried to do the right thing. It's not about loyalty here, he loves them both.

Look. The fact is Manjari isn't capable to impose her will and enforce akshara to abort the child. Neighter Akshara is that much of an oppressed person to do as others order.

And by the way she merely offered Ak a choice , eighter chose abhiM or the baby. Akshara is free to leave abhiM and keep the baby. Manjari and the Birla's aren't obliged to upbring this akshara's and her soul lover abhinav's kid. Especially Manjari at this age doesn't need more headache in her life alongwith having a worthless lover boy as her son.

It's not like Manjari is forcefully dragging akshara to terminate the pregnancy. It's her opinion and a viewpoint after considering the primary interests of birlas as a whole , and there's nothing wrong about it. Again Manjari has her own opinion, but she didn't enforce anything on ak , instead gave her a choice.

Not everything can be criticized under the guise of pseudo intellectualism.

And regarding abhimanyu's so called love , no one cares. The audience of yrkkh doesn't solely exist to see abhiM love gathaa. He is overlooking his own mother for an outsider and is consequently being kicked by the same outsider. Karma .

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

Look. The fact is Manjari isn't capable to impose her will and enforce akshara to abort the child. Neighter Akshara is that much of an oppressed person to do as others order.

And by the way she merely offered Ak a choice , eighter chose abhiM or the baby. Akshara is free to leave abhiM and keep the baby. Manjari and the Birla's aren't obliged to upbring this akshara's and her soul lover abhinav's kid. Especially Manjari at this age doesn't need more headache in her life alongwith having a worthless lover boy as her son.

It's not like Manjari is forcefully dragging akshara to terminate the pregnancy. It's her opinion and a viewpoint after considering the primary interests of birlas as a whole , and there's nothing wrong about it. Again Manjari has her own opinion, but she didn't enforce anything on ak , instead gave her a choice.

Not everything can be criticized under the guise of pseudo intellectualism.

And regarding abhimanyu's so called love , no one cares. The audience of yrkkh doesn't solely exist to see abhiM love gathaa. He is overlooking his own mother for an outsider and is consequently being kicked by the same outsider. Karma .

I agree that Manjari isn't forcing or anything, but she is wrong in making this be the basis of Abhira's new relationship. Obviously Ak can choose to do whatever she wants, but Abhir is also now pushing for that. Its a hard position to be in and it needs to be resolved properly.

As for Abhi and his love, I am atleast only watching for that, nothing else in the story is worth watching, except for Abhi and his eternal love. I don't think he is overlooking his own mother for this. He explained things to her also calmly only. Infact right now Abhi is explaining things to everyone in his perspective but no one is listening to him including Manjari. Why does he have to choose between his mother and Ak and his family and all of that? I don't understand bashing Abhi because he himself is not concerned about his long term happiness. Like its his life, he can make all the mistakes he wants to.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I agree that Manjari isn't forcing or anything, but she is wrong in making this be the basis of Abhira's new relationship. Obviously Ak can choose to do whatever she wants, but Abhir is also now pushing for that. Its a hard position to be in and it needs to be resolved properly.

As for Abhi and his love, I am atleast only watching for that, nothing else in the story is worth watching, except for Abhi and his eternal love. I don't think he is overlooking his own mother for this. He explained things to her also calmly only. Infact right now Abhi is explaining things to everyone in his perspective but no one is listening to him including Manjari. Why does he have to choose between his mother and Ak and his family and all of that? I don't understand bashing Abhi because he himself is not concerned about his long term happiness. Like its his life, he can make all the mistakes he wants to.

Manjari can't be expected to be indifferent and unaffected by abhimanyu's plight.

In this supposed marriage , Birlas would come out to be the primary sufferers as abhimanyu's plight would directly affect their peace , harmony and emotional stability , akin to what happened in the first short-lived abhira marriage. Especially Manjari would faint the most. No matter how much undeserving abhimanyu is , manjari would still care if her son inevitably suffers at the hands of akshara.

Marriage isn't just a function , it's about a lifetime presence and company of a person in household, how is a family obliged and bound to accept a woman who throws tantrums at each and every other thing.

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

Manjari can't be expected to be indifferent and unaffected by abhimanyu's plight.

In this supposed marriage , Birlas would come out to be the primary sufferers as abhimanyu's plight would directly affect their peace , harmony and emotional harmony , akin to what happened in the first short-lived abhira marriage. Especially Manjari would faint the most. No matter how much undeserving abhimanyu is , manjari would still care if her son inevitably suffers at the hands of akshara.

Marriage isn't just a function , it's about a lifetime presence and company of a person in household, how is a family obliged and bound to accept a woman who throws tantrums at each and every other thing.

I get all of this and I understand Manjari's POV, its just that she cannot put such a condition on Akshara or anyone really. She can talk to her own son and ask him not to marry her, but she also knows he won't back down from his own downfall.

I do feel bad for the Birlas in this way. I mean Abhi also felt the same way when he divorced her. Both times, he was affected by his family's plight whose direct or indirect reason was Ak. And both times he blamed himself for bring her into their lives. So all of this is not lost on Abhi either. But he doesn't consider her responsible anymore. He thinks that was just fate and things can be better if they give it another chance, if he puts in more effort, if he is not angry, if he explains things better, if he gives her more space etc.

Plus, I don't think the Birlas have any issues with accepting Ak back. Manjari herself had no issues before this pregnancy was announced. She was happy for Abhi getting what he wanted and getting married. The rest of the Birlas also seem to like/support Ak in various instances. So I don't think its about fitting into their family anymore. Its more about Manjari being worried about her son's happiness. And only in the sense that he won't get rights as a husband and he will have to remain a one sided lover all his life. But he is choosing this, so I don't think she can do much about it.