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Originally posted by: dotheDrama

Btw, did anyone notice some new Goenka rishtedaar, Kusum asked to bring the aarti plate today? Not the writers inserting random relatives and guests to make this seem like a grand shaadi!

Grand shaadi and equally grand drama...they need people to act scandalised ..they are just gathering those 4 log who will comment of Akshara

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

Do only I feel is what she is feeling is very natural...it might be suddenly meaning how different saying things and reality would be..what being a wife actually means..like Surekha said kehna alag baat hai and actual me hona alag baat hai..yes execution is really patchy and not organic but there might be normal cold feet..you will be in same room ..vicinity all the time..I mean it's very normal

If you view this as general pre-wedding jitters, then sure it can be called natural to get cold feet before marriage first time, maybe even second time.....this is Ak's THIRD time, man

And that too after she herself claimed she has really thought this through before making the decision, she justified her decision firmly to everyone around and she was the one to propose shaadi to Abhi too - he didn't coerce her for anything.....so to now suddenly show her acting this way just makes her words ring hollow yet again and makers don't seem to realize that they can't treat a third shaadi the same as a first and second shaadi

Anyways this is Surekha and Muskaan's presumption right now that Ak is rethinking the shaadi....as per the precap, Ak is repeating again that she still wants to go through with the shaadi....so we have to wait to see what reason she's giving for this sudden extra awkwardness and whatever she wants to tell Abhi about Nav.

Also it's funny that Ak only kept calling Abhi's phone after leaving the haldi....it never occurred to her to call anyone else? lol makers showing silly stuff to build up MUs as usual

Originally posted by: Needhi.A

You can not get married to someone and discuss your ex with them during shaadi functions. There is no justification for such actions!!

Why not? I don't think there needs to be a restriction on discussing the ex - that defeats the whole purpose of claiming this is now a friendship between Abhira and they can share whatever they are feeling with each other.....the fact that Ak feels comfortable enough to talk through things with Abhi is progress and anyday better than stewing with presumptions inside and lashing out at him over that.

If they want to show people as human beings, everyone comes with baggage - past and present....Ak has baggage related to both Abhi and Nav now - she can't just forget all that overnight just cuz shaadi ki rasmein chal rahi hain.....this isn't a normal wedding by any stretch no matter how much Goenkas and Birlas are trying to act that way by doing rasams happily

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

Grand shaadi and equally grand drama...they need people to act scandalised ..they are just gathering those 4 log who will comment of Akshara

Instead of wasting money on sideys get some real meat in the story!

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Why not? I don't think there needs to be a restriction on discussing the ex - that defeats the whole purpose of claiming this is now a friendship between Abhira and they can share whatever they are feeling with each other.....the fact that Ak feels comfortable enough to talk through things with Abhi is progress and anyday better than stewing with presumptions inside and lashing out at him over that.

If they want to show people as human beings, everyone comes with baggage - past and present....Ak has baggage related to both Abhi and Nav now - she can't just forget all that overnight just cuz shaadi ki rasmein chal rahi hain.....this isn't a normal wedding by any stretch no matter how much Goenkas and Birlas are trying to act that way by doing rasams happily

No one is expecting her to forget anything or not discuss its just the timing and way of discussing.

Originally posted by: dotheDrama

Btw, did anyone notice some new Goenka rishtedaar, Kusum asked to bring the aarti plate today? Not the writers inserting random relatives and guests to make this seem like a grand shaadi!

Originally posted by: Needhi.A

No one is expecting her to forget anything or not discuss its just the timing and way of discussing.

If it's a real friendship as they both keep claiming, then there cannot be a timing restriction for when she can/cannot bring up Nav. The fact that she felt the need to only discuss it with Abhi first and didn't involve the family is also progress IMO.

It is Surekha and Muskaan who are lagaaoing mirch masala to all this but I don't think Abhi has any issue with her bringing up Nav.....he has literally watched her flaunt her happy family in his face for 8 months....yeh toh she's just talking about Nav, not trying to rub anything in Abhi's face

Originally posted by: Criticiser

Yeah, don’t bother bringing back actual family members like Naksh, Kirti, Krish Bhabhimaa, Devyani, Gayu, Vatsal, Vansh, AG, Luv, Kush, Mansi etc just bring these random folks who have no connection to the show at all Kuch bhi!!

Exactly chalo Birlas ka thik hai unke relatives we dont know many but Goenkas ka sab khandaan pata hai including some maasiji who is Mimi's sister and Samar who is Manish's cousin or Ak's Mama Naksh or her Maasis Gayu or Mishti or Ananya. Surekha is here par uska poora family MIA hai. What is all this?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

If you view this as general pre-wedding jitters, then sure it can be called natural to get cold feet before marriage first time, maybe even second time.....this is Ak's THIRD time, man

And that too after she herself claimed she has really thought this through before making the decision, she justified her decision firmly to everyone around and she was the one to propose shaadi to Abhi too - he didn't coerce her for anything.....so to now suddenly show her acting this way just makes her words ring hollow yet again and makers don't seem to realize that they can't treat a third shaadi the same as a first and second shaadi

Anyways this is Surekha and Muskaan's presumption right now that Ak is rethinking the shaadi....as per the precap, Ak is repeating again that she still wants to go through with the shaadi....so we have to wait to see what reason she's giving for this sudden extra awkwardness and whatever she wants to tell Abhi about Nav.

Also it's funny that Ak only kept calling Abhi's phone after leaving the haldi....it never occurred to her to call anyone else? lol makers showing silly stuff to build up MUs as usual

With Akshara it's impossible to figure out what she thinks esp postleap writers keep it open to viewers discretion...try to make some sense out of it I think they haven't shown that shift in her organic...like she literally couldn't remember happy memories with Abhi and boom one song and everything is back..but for my sanity I am taking it is as something in them has shifted from being friends to more..she must be getting deja vu of good and bad things coz they still haven't sat down and talked about their relationship..why it broke...if it's pregnancy track to may be 3 months story wise Nav ki death ko ..and her mind must be full of so many emotions...getting back in a failed relationship with loads of baggage that is still unresolved is huge thing..so her being spooked is natural but execution wise its poor

Originally posted by: AreYaar

If it's a real friendship as they both keep claiming, then there cannot be a timing restriction for when she can/cannot bring up Nav. The fact that she felt the need to only discuss it with Abhi first and didn't involve the family is also progress IMO.

It is Surekha and Muskaan who are lagaaoing mirch masala to all this but I don't think Abhi has any issue with her bringing up Nav.....he has literally watched her flaunt her happy family in his face for 8 months....yeh toh she's just talking about Nav, not trying to rub anything in Abhi's face

According to me she knows the dynamics of the families so she shouldnt have gone without informing. She could have made some bahana or spoke to Abhi before the rasam if it was that urgent. Like Mahima said ki koi emergency thi toh batake chali jaati.

She should have told BM or BP ki emergency hai jaana padega. Or the least she could do was drop a text.

Reason being knows the family dynamics. Chalo Muski she doesnt know how she behaves in Ak's absence but Surekha she very well knows and also knows Manju's hyper behaviour.

Although I still feel it is not Mj's place to speak to her. At the most she can talk to her son. But I guess because Ak calls her maa she went to talk to her. Just like Muski can directly misbehaves with her and Ak goes aadhi raatko to talk to her so Mj must have thought she is entitled to do so too.