21 Sept, 2023 - Synopsis Hub - Page 14

Originally posted by: iheartChai

That's the million dollar question. Did she simply had enough and couldn't take any more of the truth? Did it make her feel uncomfortable because she was fine with the way things were and with this confession the equation changed again? Was she upset he thought she had changed? Was she upset that she thought he had chnaged but he admitted he had not? But she wanted the changed Abhi?

We may never really know because writers will never clearly give Akshara her point of view. So we are always left to assume things about her.

Agree Grace, writers will never show AK's pov because that proves the last 9 months and cameo's were unnecessary,

Need your EK theories today. Who do you think gets hurt in the shooting?

- AB saving both Abhir and AK, prompting Abhir to call him dadda? or

- AK trying to be wonder woman again and AB doing butter knife surgery? or

- Abhir and him taking a promise from Abhira that they will be a happy family?

I dont want AB to accept marriage of convenience if AK is the one to initiate it. For a change it would be good for him to reject it.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

First this is a wonderful POV for Ak, but I don't see it.

I don't really think its possible for Abhi to forgive her or forget her mistakes, if she doesn't even acknowledge them or say sorry for them. Each of the instances you have mentioned, Ak has not apologized for any of them, or given token apology at best. His love is what always overpowers him, more than his anger. In his love he tries to forget her mistakes, or move on from them or whatever, but then when she makes yet another mistake, it is hard to forget the past and everything does come rushing back.

Cause Ak from her end never really resolves anything. She wants him to understand her, which he often does, but even with understanding one needs that apology and acknowledgement. They made a mistake and will try not to make that mistake in the future.

Ofcourse she never understood him before the divorce also. Because she always took his love for granted, and then got astonished at his anger. Now there is no anger and she is still not okie with this Abhi. Cause the problem never was his anger, but her understanding of his love. Her problem with hot and cool, was more about how it is impacting her, not about how its impacting Abhir. Cause there is no real impact on Abhir. Her issue is that he is hiding his feelings from her and she cannot accept that. Her issue with the jacket is also stupid because somewhere she also knows what he is trying to say, but she doesn't want to accept that he loves her, so she is just getting mad instead.

And love isn't about wanting some preferred personality in the person. Its about loving all of their personalities and how they evolve. People do change overtime. Even this Abhi the one that exists now, will not remain same person. He may also change based on what triggers his life gives him. If you tell someone you only want one version of them, you are keeping them trapped. Abhi on the other had has loved and accepted each and every version of Ak. From the good to the bad. From the pretty to the ugly (personality wise). But Ak wants Abhi a particular way and if he deviates from that, she gets mad and gaslights him.

This. Thank you

I’m at a loss for where this imagined grief of Ak is coming from cuz there is nothing in the scenes onscreen to indicate any of this. She is just a blindly irritated and immature person who could never articulate or express her own immature understanding of love and relationships….could never understand Abhi’s love for her and still continues to gaslight him cuz she is frustrated that destiny never frees her of him and so she has to spin a zillion false narratives to lay all blame on him for everything rather than ever acknowledging her own mistakes 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Oh interesting....I didn't think there was still scope for that....lol but you're right, it's possible they may use this incident to transition Abhir over to calling Abhi Papa and that is when Ak will be jolted into realizing that Abhir has moved on to accepting Abhi as his Papa.

Waise bhi kuch dino se they aren't showing any clear shot of Nav ki photo.....aaj bhi when Abhir was trying to put together pictures of Docman with Mama Betu, Nav ki photo in the background was out of focus

Now she cannot use Abhir against Abhi

Ulta Abhir will leave him

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

shooter PArth ke liye

per goli kon khayega ...Hamara Abhimaniyu

This time upgraded version of bh fire accident by 2rs gunda 🤪to random shooter who is in search with a photo in his hand like a hit man...kuch bhi to get them closer ..

Originally posted by: Pr1yanka

I actually liked the episode…abhimanyu ki jhunjhalahat ki complain karney waali akshara zyada jhunjhalayi hui lag rahi thi …no prizes for guessing why 😂😂😂😂

and then of course the outburst at dining table that she won’t go to the hospital …what are you afraid of akshara? Tgat your heart will give in to your true feelings you have safely hidddn behind the facade that you are happy

abhimanyu again proved to be a much superior character than akshara …the confession actually didn’t look odd like how it was in precap cause it was not truly a confession…it was more of an explanation which akshara was demanding the whole day n just wouldn’t let go …what does that denote? Maturity ? Don’t think so …😂😂 kis haq sey woh itna demand karti hai jab khud accept kar rahi hai that she has moved on …aisey demands sirf wives n girlfriends karti hain…anyways ab abhir ki wajah sey reunite ho ya khud ki wajah sey narrative moving forward in that direction …what will happen if this time akshara says let’s marry fir abhir n abhi says no n says I’ll explain to junior …akshara kaise react karegi? Any guesses? 😅😅😅😅

Because all her move on steps, her decision, her thinking got failed today with Abhi tellign he has not moved on...While madam moved on

Hoping she is feeling guilty to give Dhokha to both Abhi and Sharma

The nonsense she had spoken...makes her going either way looks so bad

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Picture hugging karti to aur hi insult hota

Because she is not getting any flashback of Sharma

All her past memories are with Abhi only

her staying in memories and all,no need to move on are all her dialogues only ,no flash backs her all flashbacks ,they are showing are of Abhira,sometimes old one or some times new ones,so it seems akshara is still deliberately trying to put up a that shw loves her husband and will not move on from him

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Bingo.....it is not like the previous Abhi confessions where he confessed on his own without her demanding anything from him. This time she literally forced him to tell her what's in his heart and he finally did. Baaki ofcourse went exactly as he predicted that she will get upset....lol but she didn't care....usko apni zidd puri karni thi toh kar li.....and as usual sach handle nahin hua madam se

Abhi told her that he knows she loves Sharma

Now She has to clarify whether she really loved or not

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Abhi told her that he knows she loves Sharma

Now She has to clarify whether she really loved or not

Now she gives lame excuses that she also tried to move on,as she thought he had moved on 🤣🤪..probably joke of the show...

Originally posted by: lagjagale

First this is a wonderful POV for Ak, but I don't see it.

I don't really think its possible for Abhi to forgive her or forget her mistakes, if she doesn't even acknowledge them or say sorry for them. Each of the instances you have mentioned, Ak has not apologized for any of them, or given token apology at best. His love is what always overpowers him, more than his anger. In his love he tries to forget her mistakes, or move on from them or whatever, but then when she makes yet another mistake, it is hard to forget the past and everything does come rushing back.

Cause Ak from her end never really resolves anything. She wants him to understand her, which he often does, but even with understanding one needs that apology and acknowledgement. They made a mistake and will try not to make that mistake in the future.

Ofcourse she never understood him before the divorce also. Because she always took his love for granted, and then got astonished at his anger. Now there is no anger and she is still not okie with this Abhi. Cause the problem never was his anger, but her understanding of his love. Her problem with hot and cool, was more about how it is impacting her, not about how its impacting Abhir. Cause there is no real impact on Abhir. Her issue is that he is hiding his feelings from her and she cannot accept that. Her issue with the jacket is also stupid because somewhere she also knows what he is trying to say, but she doesn't want to accept that he loves her, so she is just getting mad instead.

And love isn't about wanting some preferred personality in the person. Its about loving all of their personalities and how they evolve. People do change overtime. Even this Abhi the one that exists now, will not remain same person. He may also change based on what triggers his life gives him. If you tell someone you only want one version of them, you are keeping them trapped. Abhi on the other had has loved and accepted each and every version of Ak. From the good to the bad. From the pretty to the ugly (personality wise). But Ak wants Abhi a particular way and if he deviates from that, she gets mad and gaslights him.

That's okay. See, I am trying very hard to not impose what I feel should be done with what Ak is trying to do. I am trying to understand why she is doing it even if I don't necessarily agree she is right.

If Abhi doesn't forget or forgive her then will they ever have proper love story. You pointed out correctly that love should be loving all of the personalities, both good and bad and evolve together. but it was Abhi who couldn't accept her ability to commit mistakes. She on the other hand accepted his anger right from the start of the marriage. His anger on the consequences of Ak's mistakes was justified, even I agree. and he only succumbed to it when it involved his sister or brother both of which were traumatic. But why divorce your wife for this? I still believe that even after saying all that in the bedroom, if he had just walked out she would not left they she did. She would have at least gone to BP. But he just ended everything which made her walk out. I know they will fix this point in future episodes but I am saying this is what the events are indicating.

Both are faulty characters but this entire leap is clearly about the karmic justice that Abhi had to suffer for surrendering to his anger. they have not even started on redemption for Ak. the only redemption we got to see was Ak losing her custody before she hid Abhir's parentage. That was wrong and she was punished, otherwise who loses custody just on the basis on finances. It's clear what the makers were trying to say that it was wrong. But she also did other mistakes mainly not getting the grief of what Abhi lost. he lost abhir's childhood. Ak can get her love or marriage back but Abhi can never hold the baby Abhir to his heart. I think she will get it when they will have the baby girl and a proper apology will come from her.

You also raised a point on Ak not apologising. I think she did many times. But the other times, Abhi was equally guilty of downplaying it. Like at the Mandir when Ar questioned what you are doing with my fiancee blah blah. it's Abhi who jumped in and I will tell you why as if he completely understood it. If you rewatch the scene, you will see Ak's surprise that he understood it and it only made her love him more. To turn around and say you did to me and actually punish her for it was bad IMO. That is why she is refusing to listen to him now and observed him clearly rather than going by what he is saying. She wants him to say what his problem is so knows what she is dealing with.

About Ak taking Abhi's love for granted. I don't think she did. I think she felt entitled to it, a very subtle difference but something that destroyed her. She believed she was his whole world and his everything. Whereas she always gave him a balanced view that sometimes we have to let go for family. Abhi put her on a pedestal and taking her higher and higher and then threw her down. This has broken her. Nothing can fix that, not even Abhir. Even though Abhir managed to heal her, it's only Abhi's love that will fix her.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

No, she didn't get any FBs in the car as far as I recall....it was a very short scene anyways before they switched to showing Goenka house and Ak landing up at the door there.

She got FBs of the thela confession at the breakfast table later I think when Abhir was insisting he wants to visit Docman.

Hilarious thing today was makers showing Ak claiming that Abhir will get trauma from Abhi ke mood swings but as per the writers, the same Abhir won't get any trauma from his mom doing things like refusing to come for his school meetings in order to make him feel alone and punish him

lol, Ak has superiority complex, anything she does is right and justified.

Abhi hasn’t snapped on Abhir in his mood swings unlike her, he knows how to behave with kids, he is samajhdhar enough to compartmentalise his feelings and behaviour. Unlike her who just projects herself, her emotions on the kid without filter, without a thought for his well being or perspective. She did the same when Abhir got to know the truth with “apko yeah wale Papa pasand nahin hai” 😜🙄 and then during custody by making him feel unwanted and then again now by punishing him by not going to PTA and snapping at him on breakfast table. If Abhir will have trauma, it will be because of all these, and not what Abhimanyu has done.

So none of her concern filled dialogues for Abhir’s upbringing and trauma made any sense. It just shows Akshara lives in her perceived world than in reality 🤦🏻‍♀️😡

Run Abhimanyu Run, run away from her, ab bhi mauka hai 😜