21 Sept, 2023 - Synopsis Hub - Page 13

Originally posted by: Emeralues

I am late to watching the episode and late to the party 😃.

I am glad someone touched on this point of what Ak was actually doing with this outburst. She got triggered by Abhir's comment and annoyed that Abhi was blowing hot and cold, that's fine. But I felt her issue was something else and it connects with what happened on the WD.

On WD, Abhi pointed out every single incident that caused an issue between, he didn't leave a single one out. Ak rejection of him coz Ar, interfering in family matters, leaving him for his hand, telling Neil about Al's fake pregnancy and concluded that Ar was right about Sirat. And all that time Ak thought they had resolved those issues and moved on. Hence her comment today that this is your old problem, you say you forgot but expect everybody else to forget. So basically he never forgived her mistakes and punished her on WD, but wants Ak to forget what happened to her (he wasn't asking her that but I am trying to highlight Ak's mindset here).

She said you know why I am giving so much gyaan bcoz you want to remain like the old Abhi (who caused her lot of pain and tried to control her). But she is not the old ak who will always try to calm him down, she has become bitter and argumentative. So they should never forget their responsibilities. and that means they will end up fighting. So when Harsh and MJ fought or whatever problems, who suffered the trauma of it - it was Abhi. and what happened to him. He had so much anger that he unleashed it on his loved ones. This is the trauma she is referring to.

and she raised another amazing point, she drew an analogy between the smelly jacket, and said one minute you care about me so much and another minute you don't even want to see my face. Which is exactly what happened on WD.

This is why she pressed him to reveal his issue because she does not want to make any assumptions on what is troubling him. She used to think she understood him before divorce but she realised that she never did as he always had issues with her. Now Abhir is involved so she cannot make assumptions as they cannot keep fighting.

Also, the old Abhi surrenders to his anger but new Abhi does not. So why will she want to the old Abhi. That means he can do the same thing, lose his self in anger and repent later. But who will bear the consequences. I think she wants the new Abhi. But Abhi's point is that his love was always there. I think they both misunderstand each other here.

Such important points, this warranted a proper discussion whereas I am not even sure if Abhi understood her. I think he did that is why he said the truth and was honest with her. he gets her grief but he has no opportunity to set it right.

Very nicely written. Your observation and break down of her whole speech is correct and proper.

Originally posted by: Emeralues

I am late to watching the episode and late to the party 😃.

I am glad someone touched on this point of what Ak was actually doing with this outburst. She got triggered by Abhir's comment and annoyed that Abhi was blowing hot and cold, that's fine. But I felt her issue was something else and it connects with what happened on the WD.

On WD, Abhi pointed out every single incident that caused an issue between, he didn't leave a single one out. Ak rejection of him coz Ar, interfering in family matters, leaving him for his hand, telling Neil about Al's fake pregnancy and concluded that Ar was right about Sirat. And all that time Ak thought they had resolved those issues and moved on. Hence her comment today that this is your old problem, you say you forgot but expect everybody else to forget. So basically he never forgived her mistakes and punished her on WD, but wants Ak to forget what happened to her (he wasn't asking her that but I am trying to highlight Ak's mindset here).

She said you know why I am giving so much gyaan bcoz you want to remain like the old Abhi (who caused her lot of pain and tried to control her). But she is not the old ak who will always try to calm him down, she has become bitter and argumentative. So they should never forget their responsibilities. and that means they will end up fighting. So when Harsh and MJ fought or whatever problems, who suffered the trauma of it - it was Abhi. and what happened to him. He had so much anger that he unleashed it on his loved ones. This is the trauma she is referring to.

and she raised another amazing point, she drew an analogy between the smelly jacket, and said one minute you care about me so much and another minute you don't even want to see my face. Which is exactly what happened on WD.

This is why she pressed him to reveal his issue because she does not want to make any assumptions on what is troubling him. She used to think she understood him before divorce but she realised that she never did as he always had issues with her. Now Abhir is involved so she cannot make assumptions as they cannot keep fighting.

Also, the old Abhi surrenders to his anger but new Abhi does not. So why will she want to the old Abhi. That means he can do the same thing, lose his self in anger and repent later. But who will bear the consequences. I think she wants the new Abhi. But Abhi's point is that his love was always there. I think they both misunderstand each other here.

Such important points, this warranted a proper discussion whereas I am not even sure if Abhi understood her. I think he did that is why he said the truth and was honest with her. he gets her grief but he has no opportunity to set it right.

That is an interesting point of view. But again we are left to assume this is what she ment as we still are never given a proper point of view from her by the writers. Last time we had anything from her was when she said her prayer to Lord Krishna saying from this point on I will only think practically and no longer think from my heart. Is it so wrong to give someone false hope?

And I think Abhi has changed but the Abhi that Abhi is referring to is the one who always loved Akshara no matter what. That has not changed in him.

Muskaan has no self respect whatsoever.

Originally posted by: Emeralues

I am late to watching the episode and late to the party 😃.

I am glad someone touched on this point of what Ak was actually doing with this outburst. She got triggered by Abhir's comment and annoyed that Abhi was blowing hot and cold, that's fine. But I felt her issue was something else and it connects with what happened on the WD.

On WD, Abhi pointed out every single incident that caused an issue between, he didn't leave a single one out. Ak rejection of him coz Ar, interfering in family matters, leaving him for his hand, telling Neil about Al's fake pregnancy and concluded that Ar was right about Sirat. And all that time Ak thought they had resolved those issues and moved on. Hence her comment today that this is your old problem, you say you forgot but expect everybody else to forget. So basically he never forgived her mistakes and punished her on WD, but wants Ak to forget what happened to her (he wasn't asking her that but I am trying to highlight Ak's mindset here).

She said you know why I am giving so much gyaan bcoz you want to remain like the old Abhi (who caused her lot of pain and tried to control her). But she is not the old ak who will always try to calm him down, she has become bitter and argumentative. So they should never forget their responsibilities. and that means they will end up fighting. So when Harsh and MJ fought or whatever problems, who suffered the trauma of it - it was Abhi. and what happened to him. He had so much anger that he unleashed it on his loved ones. This is the trauma she is referring to.

and she raised another amazing point, she drew an analogy between the smelly jacket, and said one minute you care about me so much and another minute you don't even want to see my face. Which is exactly what happened on WD.

This is why she pressed him to reveal his issue because she does not want to make any assumptions on what is troubling him. She used to think she understood him before divorce but she realised that she never did as he always had issues with her. Now Abhir is involved so she cannot make assumptions as they cannot keep fighting.

Also, the old Abhi surrenders to his anger but new Abhi does not. So why will she want to the old Abhi. That means he can do the same thing, lose his self in anger and repent later. But who will bear the consequences. I think she wants the new Abhi. But Abhi's point is that his love was always there. I think they both misunderstand each other here.

Such important points, this warranted a proper discussion whereas I am not even sure if Abhi understood her. I think he did that is why he said the truth and was honest with her. he gets her grief but he has no opportunity to set it right.

First this is a wonderful POV for Ak, but I don't see it.

I don't really think its possible for Abhi to forgive her or forget her mistakes, if she doesn't even acknowledge them or say sorry for them. Each of the instances you have mentioned, Ak has not apologized for any of them, or given token apology at best. His love is what always overpowers him, more than his anger. In his love he tries to forget her mistakes, or move on from them or whatever, but then when she makes yet another mistake, it is hard to forget the past and everything does come rushing back.

Cause Ak from her end never really resolves anything. She wants him to understand her, which he often does, but even with understanding one needs that apology and acknowledgement. They made a mistake and will try not to make that mistake in the future.

Ofcourse she never understood him before the divorce also. Because she always took his love for granted, and then got astonished at his anger. Now there is no anger and she is still not okie with this Abhi. Cause the problem never was his anger, but her understanding of his love. Her problem with hot and cool, was more about how it is impacting her, not about how its impacting Abhir. Cause there is no real impact on Abhir. Her issue is that he is hiding his feelings from her and she cannot accept that. Her issue with the jacket is also stupid because somewhere she also knows what he is trying to say, but she doesn't want to accept that he loves her, so she is just getting mad instead.

And love isn't about wanting some preferred personality in the person. Its about loving all of their personalities and how they evolve. People do change overtime. Even this Abhi the one that exists now, will not remain same person. He may also change based on what triggers his life gives him. If you tell someone you only want one version of them, you are keeping them trapped. Abhi on the other had has loved and accepted each and every version of Ak. From the good to the bad. From the pretty to the ugly (personality wise). But Ak wants Abhi a particular way and if he deviates from that, she gets mad and gaslights him.

Originally posted by: Avanti30

I sometimes feel perplexed to see the patience in you guys . U , lagjagale and Areyaar....with each and every detail u serve the entire episode on a golden plate. Post which I decide which one to be watched and which one to be FF.

Hats off to your patience and the way u take your time to sketch what you write .

Anyways I got to see X app clips of confession.

Chopda Sahab ❤️

You are the soul of the show .

thank you, honestly episodes are watchable as long as you selectively tune out in parts.

100% agree, HC was his brilliant self again with the confession, the teary eyes and voice modulation. Not many who can pull off such scenes. He is definitely one of the reasons the character has remained somewhat relatable and lovable

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

Thank you for explaining Akshara’s side. I also liked that Abhi told her what’s going on in his heart but also backed it up by saying my feelings are my responsibility, not yours and I will make sure they don’t cause issues for us. I don’t want to lose your trust as a friend, I already lost it as a failed husband. Like he didn’t blame her for his feelings, when old Abhi would always ask her what should I do about these feelings, and try to hurt her so she can feel the pain of his rejection also. This Abhi knows that his feelings are his own to deal with, Akshara is not responsible for it.

Exactly...this is the beauty of Abhi's intelligence. The way he said it made so much sense. You are spot on that he owns up to his feelings and doesn't resort to blaming her now. So much development. But there has to be proper situation with Ak to set it right. Maybe putting them in a marriage even if it is a compromise means he will get the opportunity to set it right. So now I don't feel bad that Ak will marry Abhi for Abhir. Previously I didn't want that but now I am okay with it.

Both Ak and Abhir need to be with Abhi for the conflicts to be resolved. If Abhir gets to know how Abhi divorced Ak, he may reject him again but if they are already a family by then, then Abhi can fix that issue with beta. Abhi is great with children.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

They stuffed a lot into this epi beyond the thela confession

A Sanam song (Humein tumse pyar kitna) was played on Abhira after ages....well mainly on Abhi getting FBs about Ak. He was trying his best to maintain a distance and still offer her help like a blanket and all but Ak ko major wala DAURA pad gaya

5 minutes of Ak just spewing total nonsense in the name of claiming that Abhi gets mood swings. All this triggered simply by Abhir saying on the phone that he's happy she's with Docman.....after that she literally behaved like a psycho shouting nonsense at Abhi while claiming that he's the one with all the personality and behavioral issues. The amount of topic switches and bullshit excuses that Ak made in those 5 minutes....lol at one point literally claiming that his moods swings will affect Abhir and that is why they all need to maintain distance now.....matlab kuch bhi ka bhi kuch bhi bakwaas kiya madam ne.....all in the name of claiming she won't listen to him until he tells her the truth about what's got him upset

Anyways, finally we got to the thela confession ....Ak came running over to fuss at him when he fell upside down on the thela....he got FBs of the OG confession and finally gave up the battle to suppress the truth - let it out with a simple "I love you, Akshara". For those wondering if Ak remembers the OG confession - she got a FB when he confessed too. The dialogues after this were good in terms of how Abhi differentiated this confession from the previous ones.....he candidly confessed that this is the truth he was trying to hide from her....that he will always love only her....and he knows this is his problem alone, that she loves Sharmaji, he knows that.....he again stressed that this won't impact their current equation....that he understands she is a different Akshara but he is still the same old Abhimanyu...and that is the point at which she cut him off with a "ruko" and ran off to a taxi that conveniently showed up there

She got home in a bit of a daze but is hiding from her family that she has some issue with Abhi......then next morning she initially claimed she won't go to the hospital to help with the case but later on flipped and took Abhir along cuz he wanted to see Docman.

Oh shocking thing in all this was no scene of Ak hugging Nav ki haar waali photo today

Instead, Abhira came face to face next morning in the hospital and when Abhi asked her why can't they move on from this incident, she again taunted him ki mujhe lagaa tum move on kar chuke the but as usual main galat thi

Rest of the epi was dedicated to Abhir repeating his yearning for wanting a complete family and end mein random scene of him saying ki Papa nahin honge toh Mama Betu akele reh jaayenge and mujhe happy ending chahiye.....looks like Abhir ke liye hi yes bolegi Ak shaadi ko

Precap mein some shootout drama at the hospital....lol I guess Abhi will save Abhir from the gun toting guy and uske baad Abhi bhi SuperPapa ban jaayenge

thank u for the update

Just saw the clip of this scene. Seriously, this scene works only because of HC 🥰

I am glad for what he said and I wouldn’t expect anything else from Abhimanyu. This is why I love his character, sheedi dil se bhaat, no bakwas, no pretence.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL woh toh humein pata hi hai he is already a super se bhi upar Papa......but Kasauli waalon ko aise hi samajh aata hai toh yet another round of Abhi saving Abhir is loading probably

double faced Sharmaji and his intentions

Jab surgery karwani hai to ...Bhaiji apka beta

surgery ke baad...mera beta

Now...saving life..Abhi is super dad..uske baad palti mari to not surprised

Ak ka daar.....Abhir Sharmaji ko bhul Jayega

Woh kahani sunai thi ak ne...toofani raat

Yahan shayad live demo mil jaye bete ko...that his dad is Super Dad...

Papa word is contaminated

Agar aisa dikhaya to ek teer se do sikar ho jayenge...

BEta bhi ghayal..maa bhi ghayal by Abhi

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

I’m so so glad picture hugging didn’t happen - thank god for small mercies!!!

Picture hugging karti to aur hi insult hota

Because she is not getting any flashback of Sharma

All her past memories are with Abhi only

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Lol!!!

She has become so annoying, abhir will be traumatized with her behaviour, not Abhi!!!

So this is not actually a confession, she forced him to tell the truth and he did!!!

https://tenor.com/dBegRqo33Js.gif

Jaisi karni wasi bhari...interest ke saath

This chalak egoistic lady first stimulates his feelings from her actions ..then forces him to express...then runs away, rejects

But destiny and Mahadev gets back to her...now tomorrow if Abhi gets bullet, she will be forced to express her feelings