Originally posted by: Needhi.A
You know the thing with Ruhi is that she cares about Abhi as well. He loves and she loves him too. She loves him with her whole heart. With whatever he is whatever he does. His happiness matters to her and I like how Arohi acknowledges his efforts at least in Ruhi's case. With Abhir it's like he likes Abhi because of Abhi's personality and how he helps him and all. It's like he loves him because he needs him. But with Ruhi she just loves him because he is her poppy. In Abhir's case it looks like he doesn't care about how Abhi feels. That's the whole reason why AbhiRuhi scenes are the best thing in the show. It's the only genuine bond on the show! The only reason manyubhir hits me is because of the fact that it gives satisfaction to Abhi and Abhir is in fact Abhi's DNA. Other than that it doesn't really hit me.
This is exactly it. In the beginning I thought Ruhi was spoilt and she only loved Abhi because of the attention he gave her. But then over time with how that bond has evolved it was just a wrong representation at the time and she was much younger too. Infact everything Abhi felt for Ruhi from the beginning is so true. She is the only one who loves only him - he said this after the first kasauli trip when he felt broken. She held him together through the six years. She learned how to love from him, and his endless supply of love and attention. So even when his attention shifted or was divided, she understood, she accepted Abhir as her brother and never complained for her poppy to be happy. She stood by Abhi no matter what and even felt bad for him, which is a lot more empathy than a six year old is capable of.
I love them because they both love equally and most importantly also have the same expectations from each other. When Ruhi felt like poppy wasn't giving her attention she expressed herself like a child should. But at the same time she also knows to give that same amount of love that she is expecting from poppy. I think relationships should be about giving love, but they also should be about having expectations.
Ak and Abhir's definition of love is completely different. They both want love, but the person should have no expectations from them of the same love in return. Yeh kya baat hui? and Abhir ka case is so stupid. I don't even see him as a six year old anymore because of how much they have tried to make him a "mature" kid. He hides how he feels in most cases and has no empathy when it comes to anyone but his "parents" it seems. If Ruhi can figure out how much Abhir's rejection hurt her poppy, Abhir can also figure it out. Ruhi was straight up mad at Abhir for even thinking her poppy could kill someone...as one should be. Abhi then made them friends again.
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