Originally posted by: LoveHC
I have a very differing opinion from u on this. Firstly I don’t think Abhimanyu’s love is infatuation. Because it fades over time. And his love has only had more depth with time.
When he didn’t meet her her voice attracted him but eventually it was her personality. Her giving nature, love for all, innocence, docile being, singing reminded him of Manjiri. And he fell in love. I too loved those qualities in her.
His love has always been 1000x superior to hers and I agree with u - he shouldn’t have let her off the hook for Manjiri’s accident, Neil’s and 1 twins death. But if we keep that apart, his love is just infinite. Abundant. Ever growing with time. He has no specific reason to love her but his entire being is just to love her. It has an unwordly quality to it - it won’t fade with death it’ll live beyond many lives
Infatuation for a person sometimes lasts for 3 years and even longer. It can even happen for a tv actor whom one doesn't even get to meet .
Innocence, giving nature , docile being are high virtues which aren't a variable of outer beauty. Innocence means moral righteousness, purity , having conscience high enough to always do the right thing .
A police man can be innocent even after he killed someone , provided that the person whom he killed was some wanted criminal who deserved to die. Innocence is all about righteousness. Ak was never innocent, because she is never morally right .
I always found it distasteful when the Fl is shown tolerating worst of the worst behavior of male lead in other serials , the plight of abhimanyu is the same except that he is Ml.
According to me love doesn't mean setting aside one's own self respect, integrity, blood relations to cater the ego of the romantic interest . Abhimanyu has been shown running behind his fumingly toxic ex who has been extensively inhumane with him and his family , insensitive to the extent that she didn't mind abhimanyu on death bed , not even considering to tell him about his child .
Abhimanyu's behavior for me doesn't qualify as love , because for that I would have to change my opinion regarding each of those serials which romanticise abuse in the name of love.
Edited by LadooCandy - 2 years ago
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