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Posted: 2 years ago
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Mr and Mrs. Sharma had a supposedly calm life in Kasuali, they got along well with each other, ran the household together by dividing their chores and duties, had light hearted moments with their child.

But is that enough for happy life. If we look closely and dig deeper into this picture - over the 6 years, Akshara fought with demons of her past all alone, did not bother to share any of it with Abhinav, neither Abhinav bothered to find out or help her with that struggle. (I say this not from my imagination but because even though it was not explicitly shown it was mentioned during various conversations between Abhinav and Akshara). She never visited her mayka in all that time and her partner did not bother with that too.

Is that what happily married couples or for that matter two people who care about each other do? I understand sometimes you have to give space and time to another person, but isn’t 6 years of living together under a same roof enough space and time.

So what was their relationship and life really like? Does fulfilling household duties, chores and taking care of with child together constitute a happy life, irrespective of how troubled someone is individually. Having an outwardly superficial happy life but crying alone and struggling to deal with past alone considered happy and sukoon ki life for Akshara? And the person credited to providing that sukoon wali life to Akshara was infact oblivious to her inner struggles and had no hand in easing them.


So why is this Kasuali life of Sharmas regarded as having positive vibes and full of happiness?

Just because they smiled and put up a happy family image for the kid and society while brushing their inner demons under the rug so that no one sees them? That is what Akshara’s life in Kasuali was. Is that happy, sukoon wali life?


“Peace is not an absence of war, it is a virtue, a state of mind.”

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Even i wanted to know. If Kasauli life was so much peaceful and gave happy family vibes, no saas or nanand interference, not even the Goenkas and Birlas bothered about their existence. 😜

So, exactly what prevented Akshara who was already married to Abhinav did not think of potentially having a child with him 🤷🏻‍♀️ why did Mrs. Sharma wait for Abhimanyu to find her accidentally to do the "move on" drama. Am aware, pregnancy immediately after a difficult twin pregnancy could have been presumably harmful to her health, but 2 years down the line, kya hua, Abhimanyu found out onky after a full 6 years of her "happy family" .

I wanted the Writers of DKP to answer this question 😆😂


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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: vijisridhar

Even i wanted to know. If Kasauli life was so much peaceful and gave happy family vibes, no saas or nanand interference, not even the Goenkas and Birlas bothered about their existence. 😜

So, exactly what prevented Akshara who was already married to Abhinav did not think of potentially having a child with him 🤷🏻‍♀️ why did Mrs. Sharma wait for Abhimanyu to find her accidentally to do the "move on" drama. Am aware, pregnancy immediately after a difficult twin pregnancy could have been presumably harmful to her health, but 2 years down the line, kya hua, Abhimanyu found out onky after a full 6 years of her "happy family" .

I wanted the Writers of DKP to answer this question 😆😂


Viji

Lol, exactly. If she had such sukoon wali happy life in Kasuali tho move on kyun nahin kiya 6 saal sath rahke 😂 married tag tho already tha!! pregnancy aur child tho baad ki bhaat hai 😂

Posted: 2 years ago
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Abhinav and Akshara have been married for 6 years. Recently, they have begun to love eachother as well. For Abhir, they will always be his parents. Now that the cat is out of the bag, they can live in Udaipur with their dear Goenkas and turn a new leaf. But no.



Kasauli, for Akshara, is a drama-free fantasy land! She is always eager to run back to it cause she doesn’t like facing reality. She thinks that if she is in Kasauli, her past will not have any effect on her present or future. But the facade didn’t last for long.

She ran away 6 years ago after the miscarriage and divorce, thinking that she will forget Abhimanyu and he will never get to know about his son.

She ran away after Abhir’s surgery, thinking that she will be able to keep her son away from his father.

She ran away after her visitation rights were revoked, thinking that she will be able to move on from not being able to see her son.

But each time, reality hit her, and super hard at that!

Abhinav, being an orphan, did not know what having a family felt like. So when presented with the opportunity, he jumped at it. Kasauli, for him, is a place where he gets to be the only father to his Nikkeji.

Abhir was conditioned to love Kasauli. Cause he doesn’t know of any other place. He never knew of the extended family back in Udaipur. Now, especially after all the stress that came with the real father revelation, he, like Akshara, wants to run back to Kasauli where things were simple and normal.

Akshara loves the family she has created. She is worried that if she doesn’t have Kasauli, then she will lose the family vibe that she has created too.

Even now, she is super eager to go back to Kasauli, so that she can forget her reality and return to happily living behind a facade.

But clearly, life has other plans for her. 😆

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

Mr and Mrs. Sharma had a supposedly calm life in Kasuali, they got along well with each other, ran the household together by dividing their chores and duties, had light hearted moments with their child.

But is that enough for happy life. If we look closely and dig deeper into this picture - over the 6 years, Akshara fought with demons of her past all alone, did not bother to share any of it with Abhinav, neither Abhinav bothered to find out or help her with that struggle. (I say this not from my imagination but because even though it was not explicitly shown it was mentioned during various conversations between Abhinav and Akshara). She never visited her mayka in all that time and her partner did not bother with that too.

Is that what happily married couples or for that matter two people who care about each other do? I understand sometimes you have to give space and time to another person, but isn’t 6 years of living together under a same roof enough space and time.

So what was their relationship and life really like? Does fulfilling household duties, chores and taking care of with child together constitute a happy life, irrespective of how troubled someone is individually. Having an outwardly superficial happy life but crying alone and struggling to deal with past alone considered happy and sukoon ki life for Akshara? And the person credited to providing that sukoon wali life to Akshara was infact oblivious to her inner struggles and had no hand in easing them.


So why is this Kasuali life of Sharmas regarded as having positive vibes and full of happiness?

Just because they smiled and put up a happy family image for the kid and society while brushing their inner demons under the rug so that no one sees them? That is what Akshara’s life in Kasuali was. Is that happy, sukoon wali life?


“Peace is not an absence of war, it is a virtue, a state of mind.”


Abhinav wasn't aware that Akshara can sing. Till date he has no idea what Music meant to Akshara.

She never told Abhinav who is the father of Abhir and why did they separate. He figured it out on his own.

I wonder if he is even aware how their life was, what happened that day. He didn't even seemed bothered to find out if AbhiM is so keen on being a part of Abhir's life, he can see AbhiM still loves Akshara why did they separate. Clearly cause that idea doesn't benefit him.


I completely agree with your each point. That's not what a content life is. Also, let's not forget the constant struggle of meeting ends. In real life we all know how the lack of financial stability is a struggle for a family, for individuals.


Though it's all going to be a facade now as RS said what's this story is and what it will be.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

Mr and Mrs. Sharma had a supposedly calm life in Kasuali, they got along well with each other, ran the household together by dividing their chores and duties, had light hearted moments with their child.

But is that enough for happy life. If we look closely and dig deeper into this picture - over the 6 years, Akshara fought with demons of her past all alone, did not bother to share any of it with Abhinav, neither Abhinav bothered to find out or help her with that struggle. (I say this not from my imagination but because even though it was not explicitly shown it was mentioned during various conversations between Abhinav and Akshara). She never visited her mayka in all that time and her partner did not bother with that too.

Is that what happily married couples or for that matter two people who care about each other do? I understand sometimes you have to give space and time to another person, but isn’t 6 years of living together under a same roof enough space and time.

So what was their relationship and life really like? Does fulfilling household duties, chores and taking care of with child together constitute a happy life, irrespective of how troubled someone is individually. Having an outwardly superficial happy life but crying alone and struggling to deal with past alone considered happy and sukoon ki life for Akshara? And the person credited to providing that sukoon wali life to Akshara was infact oblivious to her inner struggles and had no hand in easing them.


So why is this Kasuali life of Sharmas regarded as having positive vibes and full of happiness?

Just because they smiled and put up a happy family image for the kid and society while brushing their inner demons under the rug so that no one sees them? That is what Akshara’s life in Kasuali was. Is that happy, sukoon wali life?


“Peace is not an absence of war, it is a virtue, a state of mind.”

Totally agree! I too felt that Abhinav is a good guy until they forced him as the best husband to the audience. He had been helpful to Akshara no doubt but their equation was more of friends/flatmates. So if your flatmate has been kind and helpful does it mean that you both are in love? Just because you pretend to be a couple in front of others for 6 years - it doesn’t really make you one! Abhinav as a character was enjoyable many times but the entire story around how he came and got married Akshara doesn’t make sense to me. I don’t understand which century the script is from. Akshara-Abhinav’s story lacked any emotional depth or connection and it was shown suddenly - it hadn’t been there since the initial Kasauli days after leap. The only thing going for them was that Abhinav was not Abhimanyu - and its to show her moving on from Abhimanyu - sad!
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: vijisridhar

Even i wanted to know. If Kasauli life was so much peaceful and gave happy family vibes, no saas or nanand interference, not even the Goenkas and Birlas bothered about their existence. 😜

So, exactly what prevented Akshara who was already married to Abhinav did not think of potentially having a child with him 🤷🏻‍♀️ why did Mrs. Sharma wait for Abhimanyu to find her accidentally to do the "move on" drama. Am aware, pregnancy immediately after a difficult twin pregnancy could have been presumably harmful to her health, but 2 years down the line, kya hua, Abhimanyu found out onky after a full 6 years of her "happy family" .

I wanted the Writers of DKP to answer this question 😆😂


Viji

Very well said 👏


AK’s 1st pregnancy with twins itself was a risky one.


What if she did HIDE the Truth from her acha aadmi Patidev that if she were to have his kids, she’ll make her alive child Abhir orphan as she’ll either die or miscarry again due to her advanced age. 😲😲


What’s more, she doesn’t have any ounce of grief or guilt of her dead twin child. 😕 Her Patidev doesn’t even know that she had twins or that she miscarried one of them due to her bravado to save strangers.


In real life, all parents cry.. every now and then.. for their dead child irrespective of the said child’s age.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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She missed the divorce paper in Kasauli life which is the essence of her soulmate love

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

Lol, exactly. If she had such sukoon wali happy life in Kasuali tho move on kyun nahin kiya 6 saal sath rahke 😂 married tag tho already tha!! pregnancy aur child tho baad ki bhaat hai 😂


She was studying law yaar.... That law she used for making jam....


She realized she needs to move on only after seeing Abhimanyu....

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Posted: 2 years ago
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A relationship full of gratitude is not a relationship of equals, one was grateful because he didn't have a family and another one was escaping her life, living with him for 6 years thinking about her ex enough to feel her ex when she got his muffler through her son, what relationship is this where there's no emotional dependency? Physical relationship is on aspect of it, has Ak been loyal to her husband emotionally, if she was she wouldn't feel all that she did when she met her ex husband. She doesn't want to go back to her ex because there is a lot of bad blood between them, the question is would she even look at Abhinav if there was no communication gap between the two? A relationship between siblings is different, it works when you have 2 or 8 siblings, there's no difference but a relationship between husband and wife doesn't work on basis of constant comparison between current husband with ex husband. Ak living with Abhinav or Ak living with a friend for those 6 years had no difference. Your expectations from your friends aren't same as your expectations from your husband, Abhi let her down, no doubt about it, but it doesn't make the other relationship better. Relationship between a husband and wife is probably the most demanding and most intimate relationship of all, what was there between Ak and Abhinav? Nothing. Add families on both sides and you have conflicts in the relationship. Abhinav got a different version of Ak than Abhi did, she was an equal of Abhi that's why both would fight with each other, Abhi had outbursts so did Ak, Abhinav got an Ak who was grateful to him for anything, she wouldn't fight with him because she was always under his debt, this is a 6 years long burden, not a relationship, comparing it with what Abhi and Ak shared is unfair towards both relationships.

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