Abhinav’s POV? - Page 2

In normal families, olders are more sane and mature than younger and women have more emotional perspective and empathy but in yrkkh world,

1) more the age passes = less the brain works.

Let me tell you why, oldie generation,mimi. Supposed to be respected the most and should be giving good advices.

G family,after watching with their own eye how the life of the younger daughter get destroyed in b house ,still wanting to marry their daughter with the very same man. Even told ak to be away from abhimanyu. Like all the man of world are dead for you guys ( don't come whose fault was there or not but even if there would be fight between me and someone else and even I will be in wrong,still after seeing my bad condition my family will never let that person to even set their foot in my house)

Again 3parents were co-parenting and suddenly manju mata nd bade papa came to cause blast. Like you guys are elderly. Instead of this chillam -chilli you guys should be one telling them to calm down and having a nice talk. But here opposite was happening. The parents, by the way who were supposed to be having most problems, priority issues ( cause sometimes those who are out there can analyse situations better than those who are facing it. That's why we talk things out with our family or friends so that they can give better opinion ) they were ok having conversation and talking things out but these oldies had to fire. Sometimes I think they don't have much masala in their life , that's why knowingly they are creating troubles in their child's life to have fun watching these dramas and enjoy popcorn.

Also why the hell when abhimanyu told that the restraning order can be taken back, they were not calling ak and abhinav. Also why the hell they weren't telling abhimanyu,that ak has left for kasauli. Jab abhi ko dur rakhna tha ,tab bera bera karte the or jab wo such me khud ko change karna chahta h aur sab sahi karna chahta hai to muh me dahi jam gayi h.

Let me write in order:

Most sane character

Abhir and ruhi

Then in next gen. Abhinav as most sane parent then Abhimanyu as now he is trying to talk things out,then aarohi being in shitty house but atleast is vocal for ruhi ,then mad man ak

Next gen: idk sab ek se bad ke ek paagal but manju mata and bade papa me se who is more mad that is debatable .

Also stop blaming abhimanyu and ak . Where such families exist, its already good that their kids(ak and abhi) are not terrorist or drug addicts. Best childhood is enjoyed by abhinav. Idk why he calls himself orphan and being sad ,it was much better than being in g family and birla house.

2) Manjiri who is mom should be understanding the pain of another mom ak,but here madam is busy doing planning and plotting against her.

Also ak who is a women and a mother should have emotions. She should more than anyone else be understanding of abhi pain of having lost his child's childhood because whatever they had once, that was not only wd. Before also they together would have weaved so many dreams about that child and she should be feeling that whatever happened, let's be a bigger person and have abhi space in abhirs life. This would have made abhirs, abhinav as well as Abhimanyu's and hers life also much better.

A question at the end , please answer if anyone knows': madam ak choti choti baato par was grabbing abhi's collar and that too when she had visitation rights for abhir without thinking about the consequences but now when she has nothing to loose why can't she go and shout at abhimanyu that why the hell you threw restraning orders, you are this that blah blah blah. Atleast instead of her shit family abhi would have told her that her mataji had done that and he will take back the orders and is sorry for whatever happened. This would have made even ak understand that abhi is nit trying to threw her away from abhirs life and then some communication could have done. When you have to keep quiet or to talk things out, and when actually you have to open your mouth why the hell you keep mum???

DT Notes

Post edited for removing portions flouting IF COC. (Abusive)

Goenka’s are not sane they r stupid too but not worse n toxic like Birla’s , Mimi advices are good most of the times liked her advice to muskan on her job ! Yeah even I want to know why except Kv no one said stopped Ar T from getting engaged to AbM, when they know what AbM did to Ak! BP also said he treated AbM as his son even after kicking his grand daughter out of the house , so may be he wants Ak to be kicked out too. May be he wants to take revenge on Ar😆

Lol! AbM became sane in just a day 😂! He will be back to his own self and thank his mom for keeping his son with him and cancelling visitation rights to Ak just like he did the other day !
Ak wanted to inform AbM after she found one of her kid is alive but he said he doesn’t care about her or bacha! So let’s not get into that,that will be never ending !

I have already said that Mj n BP should be sent on for a vacation ,so everyone can stay happy!

Coming to the end part , Ak wanted to go and fight for her rights but no one in Goenka’s including Abhinav allowed her to do so ! I wonder which court gives the orders so fast within minutes and that too on the orders of Mj? When the court gave the custody to AbM, did AbM transfer his rights to his mom ? No one can be compared to insane ,Hoon Manju! She is one evil women!

But even before abhinav told her not to fight with with bhaiji but she still did anyway. Then why not this time lol? Or her anger just work as per convenience ( read as when not actually needed)

Please read my para carefully,I did said that I understood why she lied for six years or even after that and doesn't wanted to give that dad position to abhi but after abhi getting custody why she was still all rilled up and saying abhi as outsider was wrong. Whatever happened in past, atleast she should be a bigger person and had thought that whatever happened atleast he is abhir bio dad and I should now forget the past and judge him from his current actions. Atleast she should have shown a little maturity now. But no, madam is all in nav jap.

Lol,goenka and not toxic. Trust me , somehow I feel Manjiri is better than bade papa(I can't believe I am comparing worse and worsen) but atleast she priorities her kid more than others but goenkas are the last family who one can ask for. They even left her daughter on her own(matlab what I can say about abhi ,he was atleast still someone whom ak meet not long ago but her family was with her from start. How can a family let her daughter who has just miscarriaged and divorced be on her own in a far of place without even meeting them.

PS: atleast manju is toxic for others ( for her own son too) but atleast she thinks about him whereas goenkas ,they just become family on convenience (and even then destroyed their daughters life)

I think you haven't seen s2 that's why you think mimi as sane person. She was one of the most toxic character of s2 and about job,naira from heaven is watching all this😅😅

Well. What is edited in my above post, looks same to me. Can anyone tell what I have written wrong so that I won't be using that word.

Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

The only point that made sense to me ws that Abhir will never try to be happy wid AbhiM or the Birlas if his parents are around. The kid literally waits for chances to meet his parents to smile or be happy.

But while that is true.....Goin away from a child who is having abandonment issues ryt now ....is a very bad decision. And why should the burden of the solution of this fall on Akshara or Abhinav ? They should have left it on AbhiM ....let him make efforts to make it ryt for Abhir. If they wanted to stay away fr the sake of it , they should hv stayed in the city only but tried not making contact wid Abhir.

As much as I like Abhinav , this was absolutely ridiculous on his part. You dnt leave ur child and go away.

I believe at this point abhinav and abhimanyu have more understanding than anyone else. Only if both of them come out from their family and give visitation rights just exclusively to Akshara,all would be fine lol 😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

Well. What is edited in my above post, looks same to me. Can anyone tell what I have written wrong so that I won't be using that word.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Abhir can never be happy without his mamma and papa! But we cannot ignore that AbM deserves a place too in his life, he can do that by visiting Abhir or bringing Abhir on weekends and spending time with him ! That way kid would be more happy and accepted AbM too ,but he is still ignoring Abhir’s pain knowingly! So someone has to give up for Abhir’s happiness, though I didn’t like how they all forced Ak to leave UD!

This part was 💔
https://twitter.com/I_talkHere/status/1682589943271665665?s=20

Agreed

But AbhiM is hell bent on proving.....he is Abhir's father and so Abhir is bound to be happy wid me !

He is ryt dt he cant build the same bond in 6 days which Abhinav built in 6 years . But should dt mean Abhir should suffer for most of those 6 yrs ??? I wish AbhiM understood this part.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

The problem is that this would push the kid further into depression. He is clearly not cool with staying at Birlas, only time he was happy was after he got to meet Ak. In such times, rather than being their for the kid, they are tearing him further, by letting him be by himself. This was a very stupid move I feel. Instead of all this the three parents should have come to a settlement. Abhim needs to take some time away from Manjari, she has been unapologetically interfering. Akshnav, rather than constantly running away from issues or pushing Abhir away, should handle the child better. All 3 parents are doing really poor in managing stuff

Totally. As I said I get the pov but its absolutely ridiculous what they are doin to the kid.

The 3 parents should discuss and do things for the betterment of the kid. Infact what they should do is include Abhir is some of it too. Yes he is a kid but he needs to know the situation. This way he is feel8ng abandoned by his parents and growing detached from his new dad.None of their actions are helping the kid.

Abhinav should’ve asked both the biological parents to let Abhir go with him on a mini vacation while they sort out their issues and he brings Abhir back to normal 😂

Jab Akshara, Abhimanyu, and Manjari lar lar ke thak jaate, they would’ve came back lol.

FYI, with the current court order, it doesn’t really matter if they are in UD, Kasauli, or Birlas neighbors, they can’t see Abhir. However, Abhir finding out they left for Kasauli without him is going to break his heart further into pieces and this is what they could’ve avoided.