Abhinav as Abhir Father's

About Precap:

The question i have need no other premise for usse phele and baad. Hence, can discuss further.

What does Abhinav means that woh Abhir ka pita nahi raha?

Is he not now demeaning his relationship with Abhir to mere papers?

Was he not aware of the fact that legally he was never Abhir's father.

In case Abhir have decided okay I will not call you papa will not talk to you I would have understood his pain but for admission forms.

I am sorry but Abhinav has from start was aware of the fact that legally Abhir is someone else son but he accepted and loved him like his own. His one sentence is off putting honestly and then why backlash when the other party only highlights the things he himself says.

Abhinav has always been a very surface-level character; hence it's impossible to connect to him. His relationship with Ak is the same, only na. He needed the tag of wife and son for that relationship to make sense to him. Same with Muskaan and Neelamma, he also needed those tags to have those relationships make sense. He even said that he became Abhir's father to give him his name because children without the name of a father have a difficult time. His obsession with the Sharma nameplate, his obsession with being a Shrama too and having Abhir called shrama ji ka beta etc.

Abhi doesn't need any tags for pretty much any relationship. He is Ruhi's father without the tag; he is BP's son without the tag; he takes care of both families without any tags of son or son-in-law.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Abhinav has always been a very surface-level character; hence it's impossible to connect to him. His relationship with Ak is the same, only na. He needed the tag of wife and son for that relationship to make sense to him. Same with Muskaan and Neelamma, he also needed those tags to have those relationships make sense. He even said that he became Abhir's father to give him his name because children without the name of a father have a difficult time. His obsession with the Sharma nameplate, his obsession with being a Shrama too and having Abhir called shrama ji ka beta etc.

Abhi doesn't need any tags for pretty much any relationship. He is Ruhi's father without the tag; he is BP's son without the tag; he takes care of both families without any tags of son or son-in-law.

Agreed.

One of the many points I can't connect to him is his need of tags. I don't know about others but I personally am not someone who loves and be with someone for tags so it's off puting.

Moreover, this dailoughe is over a admission form. If he himself keep on saying muh bola baap and main papa nahi rha why would the audience consider him Abhir's father then when he himself terms him as Abhir's father basis the papers only

This constant need of validation i tell you

Exactly. The bio father never legally disowned his son and he was aware abhir was never his son. They had this "dil-se-dil- ka- rishta" that wasn't dependent on papers and didn't need anyone's validation.

So yes this was disspointing but muje vaise bhi usse kuch khas expectations nahi thi so it's okay I guess

His concern is how to face those neighbours who praised abhir saying sharmaji ka beta ithna hoshiyar hai 😭

Now he has to tell them abhir is not sharmaji ka beta anymore. Such a painful thing to say to nosy neighbours 😭

Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

Exactly. The bio father never legally disowned his son and he was aware abhir was never his son. They had this "dil-se-dil- ka- rishta" that wasn't dependent on papers and didn't need anyone's validation.

So yes this was disspointing but muje vaise bhi usse kuch khas expectations nahi thi so it's okay I guess

Honestly speaking mujhe atleast yeh expectation thi k Abhinav ka Abhir se rishte mein he is not insecure but chalo chodo jaane do 🤭🤣

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

His concern is how to face those neighbours who praised abhir saying sharmaji ka beta ithna hoshiyar hai 😭

Now he has to tell them abhir is not sharmaji ka beta anymore. Such a painful thing to say to nosy neighbours 😭

Bhai dekho koi kuch bhi kahe sharma ji ka beta hoshiyar toh genes k wjaah se hai 🤭

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Bhai dekho koi kuch bhi kahe sharma ji ka beta hoshiyar toh genes k wjaah se hai 🤭

Originally posted by: chaipaani

About Precap:

The question i have need no other premise for usse phele and baad. Hence, can discuss further.

What does Abhinav means that woh Abhir ka pita nahi raha?

Is he not now demeaning his relationship with Abhir to mere papers?

Was he not aware of the fact that legally he was never Abhir's father.

In case Abhir have decided okay I will not call you papa will not talk to you I would have understood his pain but for admission forms.

I am sorry but Abhinav has from start was aware of the fact that legally Abhir is someone else son but he accepted and loved him like his own. His one sentence is off putting honestly and then why backlash when the other party only highlights the things he himself says.

This is my opinion.

For the first six years of Abhir’s life, Abhinav just knew Abhir’s real father as someone who treated Akshara badly and refused to reconcile with her or her kid. So naturally, he lived in a delusional world where there would never rise a situation in which he would have to face the real father or even know that he still exists somewhere. But now that reality has hit him, and super hard at that, he is refusing to come out of that delusion. That’s when he repeatedly started calling himself muh bol baap in front of Akshara. So that she starts consoling him and that way, she can convince him that he is still Abhir’s real father. But when Akshara’s family got to know the truth and Abhir got to know half the truth, in his eyes, his position in Abhir’s life was slowly slipping away. So he started needing more assurance and not just from Akshara, but from her family as well. Akshara and her family are feeding into this delusion of his by repeatedly calling him Abhir’s real dad. All of this will only make things worse for him. I am pretty sure we will be hearing more such dialogues like this from him. This will only stop when someone from Goenka family or Akshara herself makes him understand that even though he looked after Abhir all these years as a father figure, he will never be his real dad, Abhir will always be Abhir Abhimanyu Birla. But nonetheless, Abhir still loves him. That will not change.

Also, with Abhir living with Abhimanyu now, chances are that he will slowly start accepting Abhimanyu as his real dad (unless writers choose for Abhimanyu to return Abhir to the Shamas in the next few episodes) and this will only make things worse for Abhinav without any realization.

Originally posted by: dotheDrama

This is my opinion.

For the first six years of Abhir’s life, Abhinav just knew Abhir’s real father as someone who treated Akshara badly and refused to reconcile with her or her kid. So naturally, he lived in a delusional world where there would never rise a situation in which he would have to face the real father or even know that he still exists somewhere. But now that reality has hit him, and super hard at that, he is refusing to come out of that delusion. That’s when he repeatedly started calling himself muh bol baap in front of Akshara. So that she starts consoling him and that way, she can convince him that he is still Abhir’s real father. But when Akshara’s family got to know the truth and Abhir got to know half the truth, in his eyes, his position in Abhir’s life was slowly slipping away. So he started needing more assurance and not just from Akshara, but from her family as well. Akshara and her family are feeding into this delusion of his by repeatedly calling him Abhir’s real dad. All of this will only make things worse for him. I am pretty sure we will be hearing more such dialogues like this from him. This will only stop when someone from Goenka family or Akshara herself makes him understand that even though he looked after Abhir all these years as a father figure, he will never be his real dad, Abhir will always be Abhir Abhimanyu Birla. But nonetheless, Abhir still loves him. That will not change.

Also, with Abhir living with Abhimanyu now, chances are that he will slowly start accepting Abhimanyu as his real dad (unless writers choose for Abhimanyu to return Abhir to the Shamas in the next few episodes) and this will only make things worse for Abhinav without any realization.

Agreed. It's like keh do k jhooth hai Maa wala scene and Akshara and Goenka family is like haan haan jhooth hai 🤭