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Originally posted by: India_TV

i think it takes a lot of courage to move away and out from toxicity...and akshu took that step...she is no where weak....

jab abhi ko aise divorce dene mein koi sharm/regret feel nahi hua...for 6 long years,...to i dont think ki koi pyaar tha bhi...

akshu seems to be toy for abhi...who he wanted and wants to use and throw at his will...but akshu did not let tis happen by marrying abhinav...and that made abhi and his mamma angry...😂

abhir got a wonderful childhood....apna naam yaad rahe na rahe use...apne papa abhinav ka bina soche hi bol deta hai...

Absolutely at least there were 6 normal years in life of Akshara and Abhir in kasauli which they never got in Udaipur... Yes even in Goenkas Akshara was never at peace or she could had normal happy childhood after sirats death

Originally posted by: Sherlockian

Akshara would have become another Manjari aided and abetted by Abhimanyu and the real Manjari. It’s a blessing in disguise for Akshara that it never came to mind of Abhimanyu to seek out how she was doing in seclusion, otherwise her life would have become living hell.

Honestly and sadly yes, I sometimes really feel Manjri being a victim herself why did she do what she did with Akshara?

Originally posted by: Deluna

She'd have no agency to speak for Abhir and would have to live as a third-party in her own child's life. Also, Abhir would become another Abhimanyu.

The main issue with AbhiM is his I me myself chant and victim mentality. Before first leap, 'mera pyaar, meri Ma, meri family, when he sent divorce papers first time and Akshara accepted it..he went into self victimization mode. Even in pregnancy issue, it was mostly about what'll happen to him if Akshu is gone. It was pathetic to see Akshu begging him and him taking her for abortion against her wish. After kicking her out he didn't think once what might happen to her. She was in her lowest physically, mentally. Anything could happen to her. Even after all this, she called him. Heck, she was calling for him in pain in the hospital too. She practically fought every damn thing to give a life to Abhir, nurture him in her best possible way. I like Abhinav and Abhir bond more but no one can refute that Abhir is Akshara's life. She lived for him after all those things. And he has snatched that life now. Again in his I, me, myself mode. He doesn't have the capability to understand that a 6 year old child cannot live without his mother. He expects Abhir to understand that his 40 year biological father cannot live without his mother and family, so he'll have to uproot his life now. It's beyond pathetic at this point.

Yes I saw that and it was worse and it made me loose all the respect for Abhimanyu completely..

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

You know something,

I think main issue in general is Akshara moving on with a so-called stranger, whom btw, Akshara knew more than Abhimanyu before marriage.

Had she been single mom like Sai or Naira, she would have probably be hailed.

I think it's no secret that Birla house environment isn't favorable for child's growth. But it would have been worse had Akshu returned to Birla house after knowing about her pregnancy.

Yes, she would have been mistreated and only reason why Abhimanyu is now emotional about Akshara is because she has moved on! He didn't care for her for past six years, never tried finding out about her and her well being. He continued being lonely (no doubt) but he had his family, he had Manjiri and her birthday, he had opportunity to be by Arohi during her pregnancy and all. But it was wrong... Very wrong for Akshara to trust a stranger when her own family deserted her. Abhimanyu was probably heartbroken on knowing Akshara has remarried and he was miserable on realizing she is has a family - that's when it seemed he had realized he lost her. Tab tak he didn't care for those months.

What was worst is that when he saw her truly very happy with Abhinav and Abhir, Manjiri and Abhimanyu couldn't just take it. He went on to propose to her and demand she be back with him.

All that happened only and only because she was happily married and had a family. Had it not been the case, she may still be treated horribly and blamed for Neil's and child's death!

Abhimanyu has this stubbornness in him initially till it was harmless I liked it but now it's not healthy at all

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

She would be like Manjhiri..dari dari,sirf baccho ko paalne ke liye.. everyone would've hated her in she was living with them..arohi for loosing neil and seeing the culprit (according to them) Infront of her everyday.Manjhiri would've hated her an along with her chele chapate.. Abhimanyu would've been indifferent to her, always make her feel guilty..they would've look down upon her, she's not a doctor too..abhir would've seen all this and start hating Abhimanyu like abhi hated harsh.. minus the physical violence,her condition would've been same.. in short,Akshara saved Abhir from a damaged, dysfunctional,toxic family..Gave him a happy, healthy childhood.. whatever she did,she did it for her baby.. and she was never wrong.. a man who couldn't protect his dead baby's mother and ill treated her, don't deserve the baby's love

Exactly I'm just glad that it didn't happen that way. She became string, independent and truly moved on with Abhinav and Abhir

Akshu would have been a sec manjari . And abhir would have been sec Abhimanyu or a spoilt brat who do not respect his mom as he always got overpampered by his dad namaste dida.

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

Till Abhinav does spider man stunts he is stranger to Akshara

akshu will not value those superficial things now...air hearts...that monkey proposal...😂

she has experienced the peace care and trust in a relationship with abhinav....

Originally posted by: Peacelover15

Absolutely at least there were 6 normal years in life of Akshara and Abhir in kasauli which they never got in Udaipur... Yes even in Goenkas Akshara was never at peace or she could had normal happy childhood after sirats death

i find that akshu taking a decision to be away from gorillas was the wisest decison...it take courage to move away at that stage...but then she had lost everything....

the goenkas had always been biased towards arohi...even when she returned after 6 years for Mimi's bday...makers had made it clear how akshu was shouted at by manjari...and how goenkas and abhi were mum.....

staying at birla house after divorce was not possible....and if akshu stayed at geonkas...most likely she would not have had abhir with her....she would had miscarried....the trauma that she was in....

Originally posted by: Peacelover15

Abhimanyu has this stubbornness in him initially till it was harmless I liked it but now it's not healthy at all

for me, the day he proposed arohi and then started the jija act and the normal abnormal act, the character was gone...socha tha ki sudhar jaayega...that would be the story.....but then the divorce papers to akshu and playing a victim was too much...and white day ne to use pura black hi bana diya...😂