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Posted: 2 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Krinya

@bold. Yes he did it no? But the thing is, he alone can't decide that...marriage is between 2 people so aksharas wish was also important ... Her feelings were also important...this wasn't a talaq talaq talaq case ...such decisions are not taken in a jiffy that's why court prolongs the process so that people don't take marriage as a joke...



What akshara did was also wrong , the bc thing, but she's not wrong to move on, give abhir a safe secure happy environment , or shield abhir from hard truths..more than that she's wrong to keep abhim out of abhirs life after he re entered their life..So everyone will face the consequences of their actions.


Bold 2 , completely agree..


I stopped caring abhira actions long back. How easily they took decisions and thought others will follow behind them.


What I hate and feel for the most is abhir only abhir now. That kid wasn't prepared for anything. All of a sudden kid who knows only about his maa baap nana nani mamu has to be thrown in front of sudden masi who had electric shock, then sudden docman who is his relative that kid doesn't know in kasauli only in mimi bday now the same docman is his real father. What does a 5 year old know about real father, step father, legitimate birth, illegitimate birth.


This is why in real life most of the woman think much before marrying again as to create more confusion in already confused kid head. Other hand I can really understand why she married immediately to give kid full family.


Fact is any of the situations didn't give her a gate pass to happy life. Her past pulls her badly as abhir is the connect between ak past and present life.


I hate all for making a kid where he is today.


Both of their decisions flipped everyone life. All has to run behind these two choices always. 😤😤😤😤

Edited by hari15 - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
#42

I agree with your POV and found ppl supporting akshnav relationship to be gaslighting ppl expressing any of your below mentioned valid points.

They only talk about never existing DV of abhi, abuse of akshu by abhi, but they never talk about emotional manipulation of Akshu since beginning, AA and his OTT too good to be true Acchaai

Leave aside the dangerous mother akshu being the cause of trauma for the lill kid abhir, she's again chosen to manipulate abhir over making him agree to go to the Birla's.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

We got a musical custody case, a first in ITV. usually court drama is a trp grosser n DKP could have easily stretched court-scenes for a week. They had so much matter.

Akshara could have tried to portray a bad picture of Abhimanyu- how short tempered he is. quick to judge. never listens. she called but he didnt take her calls.

How he reached Kasauli n didnt pay them for a week although he ate in their house.

How during mimi's party he declared that he will marry her sister n widow of his younger brother.


While AB's lawyer can defend that he called back n whoever picked talked nonsense n never told him that AK was in hospital. How she had cramps but went to save kids n he lost a brother. How she never takes care of herself even though doctors warned.

They could have had witnesses from Picnic when she got lost., police from girl's kidnapping scene. They could have involved neighbours who witnessed how Mj was hysterical but Ak never listened to anyone until Aarohi blamed her for death.

Birla neighbor could be witness that Ak disappeared 1yr after marriage but they dnt know why? Anisha's death and Kv running as a fugitive etc. should have been taken into acc. that he was finally proven innocent by Abhimanyu who went against his taiji to retain the evidence for innocence.

Their 1st divorce reasons n 2nd chance attempt- and the subsequent, anger and temper tantrum by Abhimanyu. That can be argued from both sides.

He divorced Ak in moments of anger n outrage but instead of going to her paternal family she took a bus n reached PK n in spite of BP rushing to bring her back she refused to come back.

Court should have had witness from PK police that Abhinav said she was his wife but he gave a fake name n called her Anchal.

That instead of having friends she stayed with Abhinav a tourist guide at the time and later after premature birth of Abhir they got married. And she wrote nav name on documents.

In 6yrs they lived only as parents of Abhir as she confessed infront of Gfam n MJ.

When Abhir got sick nav sold everything for his treatment that the extent of his love for Abhir should get a justifies glorification. but also be countered that ultimately it was DR.Abhimanyu Birla who sanctioned n qualified Abhir as a charity case.

Lawyers should have presented that their relationship grew organically n Abhir used to call Docman secretly to talk abt his illness and took advices about things that he never told his parents.

That Abhir was always worried about financial condition of his parents n so curbed all his wishes.

Gfam could have been brought in to speak for Ak n Nav-

And AB's lawyer should have presented that He brought doctors from US because Abhir shud nt travel in his delicate condition. That he fell from nav's shoulder and that could be a condition that next day he fainted while playing hide n seek n got trapped inside trunk. Abhir being smart kid kept cloth to keep air passage clear which saved his life. He is Abhimanyu Birla's genes!

Abhimanyu did successful op. on Abhir but when he was on a medico camp- Ak travelled back to kasauli with a post op recovering Abhir after 4-5days of op.

Are these not seen as relevant documentation for a proper case?

Makers could have easily build a whole week of court drama, family drama and three of them sitting together and tell the truth to Abhir.


Akshara, Abhimanyu Birla's Background is important we should have got nav's background too since he is the step-father n accomplice in forgery of Abhir's birth documents.

there could have been so detailed cross examining of all family n witness also Abhir could have been interviewed by the magistrate or judge in his pvt chamber instead of in courtroom.

Even with all of this Abhimanyu Birla would have won but the uncertainty on both sides or the overconfidence at times would have created tension n curiosity.

I feel so let down- Can we expect one proper track. This gen has been dealt a shortchange by DKP. How do we tell them to give importance to event instead of rona dhona. We need a balance of emotions, drama n events that take story forward.


Please pour in your thoughts. I know this got too long. If you read till the end thank you.❤️

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Posted: 2 years ago
#43

nav is a sly man. He was penniless n Ak cleaned up storeroom to start homestay n booking got cancelled n Abhimanyu paid to stay. nav didnt listen to Ak n insisted bhaiji stays with them.. he hasnt been listening to Ak or have much discussions with her since he put sindoor n ms on her. They have some arguments n crying where nav is the winner as usual. He does what he feels is right and when he dsnt get his way he puffs up his face n Ak comes running behind him. Yes, I see what you mean by Ak's character growth.👏

And please keep your focus on Abhimanyu stable charac for the longest time. Keep me posted abt it.

Originally posted by: BlissfulDays

I'll complain about the lack of character arc when i see no growth. Akshara character arc is seperate from Abhimanyu or Abhinav. The latter had character arc and growth. She had reasons for writing Abhinav name and while she may not be aware of the legal repercussions back then she showed growth allowing Abhimanyu some place. It would've been better if Akshnav wouldn't be so kind to let him stay at kasauli to bond. He sure doesn't deserve any

Edited by Illuminatus. - 2 years ago
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Team Abhimanyu (Gen 3)

Posted: 2 years ago
#44

Supporting character is fine. But saying whatever decision akshu made is wise is really pathetic.

Goenka's were not abusive. They did not plotted that they will sell akshu's kid once it's born. They did not say i will murder akshu so that they can get her property.

Naira left her home but as far as i know she never chose someone on top of her ppl. But akshu showed to the world that her realtions are fake. Where as it was not. Yes i agree goenkas are biased but they were not bad.

No way anyone can justify why akshu chose a stranger over her own ppl to the extent that she got married to him.

After doing all this why to showcase this fake relationship infront of world to say my family is greatest. Where as no matter even if ghey show celebration functions now it will just look so fake.

Akshara just proved that family only comes together when it's celebration time. Dukh dard main koi nahi hotha. This is really bad example to show it to the world.

I hope teenagers or kids who watch this show don't get influenced by such show which shows it's okay to risk yourself and your child to become mahaan. You may find your anuj kapadia on roads. In reality it's too scary for women even to travel with random strangers in bus.

Trust them more than her own family.

Edited by firewings_diya - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

A girl who is already just came out of a bad marriage just decided to marry again without even thinking twice. Yeah such a realistic story.

If she would have married for love it makes sense if she would have married after family doing some back ground checks still fine.

She married in hurry. Without informing anyone that itself speaks volume she just married to give father name in marriage certificate.


This show is anything but realistic. It's even weird from fiction standard. Half of the time I feel who are the people they are writing as a target audience.

Posted: 2 years ago
#46

Exactly I agree to all of your points👍🏼 but sadly abuse, violence, trauma, PTSD are the oftly used words by the said supporters and they even get into personal accusations on individuals opposing their POV, doing the same thing they are talking against🤣

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Supporting character is fine. But saying whatever decision akshu made is wise is really pathetic.

Goenka's were not abusive. They did not plotted that they will sell akshu's kid once it's born. They did not say i will murder akshu so that they can get her property.

Naira left her home but as far as i know she never chose someone on top of her ppl. But akshu showed to the world that her realtions are fake. Where as it was not. Yes i agree goenkas are biased but they were not bad.

No way anyone can justify why akshu chose a stranger over her own ppl to the extent that she got married to him.

After doing all this why to showcase this fake relationship infront of world to say my family is greatest. Where as no matter even if ghey show celebration functions now it will just look so fake.

Akshara just proved that family only comes together when it's celebration time. Dukh dard main koi nahi hotha. This is really bad example to show it to the world.

I hope teenagers or kids who watch this show don't get influenced by such show which shows it's okay to risk yourself and your child to become mahaan. You may find your anuj kapadia on roads. In reality it's too scary for women even to travel with random strangers in bus.

Trust them more than her own family.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: Neerasi29


This show is anything but realistic. It's even weird from fiction standard. Half of the time I feel who are the people they are writing as a target audience.

I guess they are showing how a women can make series of bad decisions 😆 and can put everything into risk.

What akshu gained out of her decisions she took 7 yrs ago.

1. Abhir is confused where as with abhi roohi is sorted and composed.

2. Abhinav is heart broken as she assured him constantly this is your kid but reality was different.

3. When abhinav saw her 6 years ago he must have thought how bad akshu's husband is. But after meeting abhimanyu he himself calls him as accha aadmi. So somewhere even he knows ppl were not bad situation was.

4. Abhi lost his precious days with his father and granny which each child craves. Theek hai chalo manjari is bad person but she never let goenka's to meet abhir too.

5. Now the kid is made aware of he being burden on them. Which mother does that. He was relying on them and now his world is shattered as he made to believe he was being selfish to ask for anything from his parents.

Posted: 2 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I guess they are showing how a women can make series of bad decisions 😆 and can put everything into risk.

What akshu gained out of her decisions she took 7 yrs ago.

1. Abhir is confused where as with abhi roohi is sorted and composed.

2. Abhinav is heart broken as she assured him constantly this is your kid but reality was different.

3. When abhinav saw her 6 years ago he must have thought how bad akshu's husband is. But after meeting abhimanyu he himself calls him as accha aadmi. So somewhere even he knows ppl were not bad situation was.

4. Abhi lost his precious days with his father and granny which each child craves. Theek hai chalo manjari is bad person but she never let goenka's to meet abhir too.

5. Now the kid is made aware of he being burden on them. Which mother does that. He was relying on them and now his world is shattered as he made to believe he was being selfish to ask for anything from his parents.


U know if u do try to apply some logic to this stupid show..which I just feel as series of unrelated episodes put together just to show at least 7 days per week. The decision Akshara took..they were so devoid of any logic...trusting Stanger..leaving comfort of family and in such critical condition choosing self inflicted poverty ...her stunts with those Goons leading to miscarriage..the rainy day the kind of position she was in it was miracle Abhir is alive. And she will blame Abhi without having any self realisation of what she did. this could easily be an episode of crime show..it could backfire soooo bad...it's scary to even think. She was just incredibly unrealistically lucky as how things turn out. This is a lession of what a girl shouldn't ever do. If anyone does take this serial seriously. She takes decisions absolutely logicless bordering on stupid..has absolutely no self realisation..when someone does talk logic she acts so defensive ..gives absolutely baseless arguments to defend herself. Her useless family doesn't put some sense in her head..I feel like they secretly hate her these Goenkas. She runs after people who doesn't love her..like her Aaroo jao.. worthless Goenkas family. Mayank as kairav I felt truly cared for her..this new kairav guy ..I think didn't even know what previous character was..he acts in his own zone. I really feel for Abhi ..he wasted his love on this person who I don't think ever valued his pure love at all. I feel sad I was so invested in Abhira. They were my happy place at that time.I feel sad for Abhis intense love wasted on people who don't value it..Akshara has messed things so bad that even writers dont know how to solve this mess.

Posted: 2 years ago
#49

Could you kindly Practice what you preach (IN BOLD) your words(IN BOLD RED) I wish mods help us from such respectful words

Originally posted by: BlissfulDays

Good Right that's also growth. They know how to get customers . I'm sure their business will take off, Hardwork pays. Abhinav has conversations with Akshara he listens says his part and both mutually decide. That's what is beautiful about that couple

@bold

I will keep my focus wherever I want , if you can see character growth in Abhimanyu good for you I see none , respect opinions that are different from you nd don't act oversmart with me

Edited by Rsrockz - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: Neerasi29


U know if u do try to apply some logic to this stupid show..which I just feel as series of unrelated episodes put together just to show at least 7 days per week. The decision Akshara took..they were so devoid of any logic...trusting Stanger..leaving comfort of family and in such critical condition choosing self inflicted poverty ...her stunts with those Goons leading to miscarriage..the rainy day the kind of position she was in it was miracle Abhir is alive. And she will blame Abhi without having any self realisation of what she did. this could easily be an episode of crime show..it could backfire soooo bad...it's scary to even think. She was just incredibly unrealistically lucky as how things turn out. This is a lession of what a girl shouldn't ever do. If anyone does take this serial seriously. She takes decisions absolutely logicless bordering on stupid..has absolutely no self realisation..when someone does talk logic she acts so defensive ..gives absolutely baseless arguments to defend herself. Her useless family doesn't put some sense in her head..I feel like they secretly hate her these Goenkas. She runs after people who doesn't love her..like her Aaroo jao.. worthless Goenkas family. Mayank as kairav I felt truly cared for her..this new kairav guy ..I think didn't even know what previous character was..he acts in his own zone. I really feel for Abhi ..he wasted his love on this person who I don't think ever valued his pure love at all. I feel sad I was so invested in Abhira. They were my happy place at that time.I feel sad for Abhis intense love wasted on people who don't value it..Akshara has messed things so bad that even writers dont know how to solve this mess.

And why do we have centers which exclusively work for women empowerment. Ye naya marriage angle laane se accha they could have showed a women helping akshu which could have been krishna her lost sister. But Writers wanted to show. Dekho viewers.

1. Only men can help. That man will not help all orphans but only those who look beautiful. If he was really a person who had good intention of helping other why his house don't even have some one whom he got home as it's not just akshu who is roaming on road. there are so many ppl who roams on street every day.

I remember watching one show where ml bought few ppl from street as he was an orphan that looks realistic as he just not helped one person he has been helping many ppl and akshu is just one of them.


2. women lacks empathy: Why suvarna, mahima,mimi or shefali did not even think about miscarried akshu. Are they not women characters? What exactly writers wants to convey only a random stranger can help you not your family.

3. Father's name is important : Writers wanted to convery a child can not be born without father's name. we are in the centuary where actors are announcing their pregnancy before even disclosing who is the father of child but akshu is still living in 90's and naira also did not feel like she need a man in life to raise her child. Naira was a fighter akshu is a dissappointment.


PS: Mods i am not demeaning anyone. I am just putting writer's perspective here.

Edited by firewings_diya - 2 years ago

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