Abhir Abhimanyu Birla - Page 15

I don't know if this has already been discussed but what was the significance of Abhir coming to the court and tying the dhaaga on Akshara's hand then?

Usually by ITV fundas, jiske haath mein dhaaga baandha jaata hai, woh jeet jaata hai.....lol so are they trying to say that Abhi's win is temporary and Abhir will go back to Akshara? Or was it to indicate that when Abhir says "Mama Papa ke saath rehna hai", he is invariably wishing for his real Mama Papa to come together so that he can stay with both of them at the same time?

Right now Abhir looks at Abhi as Docman...so is the next step to somehow show him accepting Docman as Papa and that will fulfill his wish of being with his Mama and Papa?

The way the court managed to reinstate Abhi's fatherly rights today did feel like a step towards undoing the image Akshara created of Nav being the only rightful father of Abhir.....the first piece of the mirage was broken there....now it remains to be seen if Abhi can win back his rightful spot despite all these obstacles in his path created by Akshara's impulsive decision to set up an identity crisis for her kid.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don't know if this has already been discussed but what was the significance of Abhir coming to the court and tying the dhaaga on Akshara's hand then?

Usually by ITV fundas, jiske haath mein dhaaga baanda jaata hai, woh jeet jaata hai.....lol so are they trying to say that Abhi's win is temporary and Abhir will go back to Akshara? Or was it to indicate that when Abhir says "Mama Papa ke saath rehna hai", he is invariably wishing for his real Mama Papa to come together so that he can stay with both of them at the same time?

Right now Abhir looks at Abhi as Docman...so is the next step to somehow show him accepting Docman as Papa and that will fulfill his wish of being with his Mama and Papa?

The way the court managed to reinstate Abhi's fatherly rights today did feel like a step towards undoing the image Akshara created of Nav being the only rightful father of Abhir.....the first piece of the mirage was broken there....now it remains to be seen if Abhi can win back his rightful spot despite all these obstacles in his path created by Akshara's impulsive decision to set up an identity crisis for her kid.

I feel it's like she will not be able to get Abhir with the help of Abhinav. As when he tied daga abhinav was with her. so it fell down.

And when he tied again it was Abhi who was in front. If Abhim gives up his right then only she can win. That's what gonna happen. Abhim will give up his right to maker her happy again and may consider it as compensation for what he did 6 years ago.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I feel it's like she will not be able to get Abhir with the help of Abhinav. As when he tied daga abhinav was with her. so it fell down.

And when he tied again it was Abhi who was in front. If Abhim gives up his right then only she can win. That's what gonna happen. Abhim will give up his right to maker her happy again and may consider it as compensation for what he did 6 years ago.

I know we are all expecting Abhi to give up his rights given how much he is the only one showing empathy for the other set of parents......woh baat aur hai ki they never bothered about his emotions and were busy planning their happy life ahead after winning custody.

But I would rather prefer that something happens before Abhi can give up his rights....cuz Akshara is too selfish to appreciate his sacrifices at this point....she will remain only focused on herself and her delusional obsessions. The only way Abhi gets anything in this story is if he doesn't give up and stays the course....if he gives up on his son, these people will happily return to their world and never bother to look back towards him.....so I'm hoping something else happens to compel Akshara to realize that there cannot be any rightful family without Abhi as Abhir's father. She has already done a huge injustice by snatching away 6 years of fatherhood from him and now setting up an identity crisis for her kid ki jisko maine baap banaya, use maano. So if something bigger happens to give her the clarity that Abhi is the rightful father, that would be better.

Nav frankly is looking even more like a third wheel....no one is discounting he gave good upbringing to Abhir but he has been a placeholder all this while....a child will bond with whoever gives them pure and unconditional love. Abhi has proven himself as a father by giving that kind of love to Abhir too the moment he got a chance to be around him....so simply cuz Akshara chose to drag Nav into her life as father to Abhir doesn't make him so. Love is love no matter who gives it but father toh Abhi hi rahega. Nav has set himself up for this pain by stepping into a title that was never his. He can role play as father but the title belongs to Abhi and he has proven himself every chance he's gotten to.

I personally want this to happen. Abhimanyu asks Abhir if he knows Abhir wants to stay with his family. But if he goes back there is no guarantee that Akshara will let him meet him. So he asks abhir to spend some time with him like 15 days challenge in anupama😆

But here abhi just wanted to spend some time he did not had any intention to keep him. Abhir agrees. in these 15 days abhir sees how good abhim is as a dad. He also understands how badly abhim wanted to spend his life with his son. when he shows his toys and all and some camp video when akshu was pregnant and abhir also sees akshu is changed.

After 15 days abhimanyu with heavy heart decides to drop abhir to kasauli. and akshara and abhinav feels happy seeing him. Abhimanyu leaves without speaking anything.

Akshara starts speaking again saying main tumhe kahi jaane nahi doongi aur tumhe mujse koi door nahi kar payega. main jaanthi thi abhimanyu kabhi tumhara baap nahi bann payega kyun ki abhinav hi tumhare papa hai. something which is very harsh and wrong. which make abhir realize docman is the right place and he runs and jumps and decides to go back with abhim saying maa docman waisa nahi hai jaisa aap sochthi hai ❤️

The precap was again a study in contrasts parenting-wise.....

Abhi was shown calmly telling the truth to Ruhi and she was calmly responding back with her POV.....I was getting a flashback to how well Abhi has managed Ruhi through her various tantrums also and never snapped at her in any way.....humesha pyar se samjhaa ke he has won her over again.

On the other side, we saw Akshnav trying to tell Abhir the truth and when Abhir threw a tantrum, Nav is shown snapping and just shouting out ki "Tujhe JAANA padega unke ghar".....what way is this to talk to a kid and handle a tantrum?

If this is about going through tough emotions, heck Abhimanyu has been going through all kinds of versions of this since many months....he has faced kids hating on him, throwing tantrums in front of him too and he has still handled it all gracefully without ever snapping at the kids.....so what is up with Nav losing it at so easily now just cuz he's stress about losing his kid?

As a parent, don't you have to rise above all this given that your kid is going through tougher emotions than you right now?

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I personally want this to happen. Abhimanyu asks Abhir if he knows Abhir wants to stay with his family. But if he goes back there is no guarantee that Akshara will let him meet him. So he asks abhir to spend some time with him like 15 days challenge in anupama😆

But here abhi just wanted to spend some time he did not had any intention to keep him. Abhir agrees. in these 15 days abhir sees how good abhim is as a dad. He also understands how badly abhim wanted to spend his life with his son. when he shows his toys and all and some camp video when akshu was pregnant and abhir also sees akshu is changed.

After 15 days abhimanyu with heavy heart decides to drop abhir to kasauli. and akshara and abhinav feels happy seeing him. Abhimanyu leaves without speaking anything.

Akshara starts speaking again saying main tumhe kahi jaane nahi doongi aur tumhe mujse koi door nahi kar payega. main jaanthi thi abhimanyu kabhi tumhara baap nahi bann payega kyun ki abhinav hi tumhare papa hai. something which is very harsh and wrong. which make abhir realize docman is the right place and he runs and jumps and decides to go back with abhim saying maa docman waisa nahi hai jaisa aap sochthi hai ❤️

LOL they will never show a scenario in which Abhir chooses one parent over the other😆.....least of all choosing someone else over his Mom.

It may just be that he realizes that Docman loves him like a Papa and just as much as his Mom does....he may realize both his parents love him equally but he will never choose one over the other.

At the most, they may show Abhir comparing Nav and Abhi as fathers in some way but apni Maa ke upar toh nahin choose karega kisi ko kabhi😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL they will never show a scenario in which Abhir chooses one parent over the other😆.....least of all choosing someone else over his Mom.

It may just be that he realizes that Docman loves him like a Papa and just as much as his Mom does....he may realize both his parents love him equally but he will never choose one over the other.

At the most, they may show Abhir comparing Nav and Abhi as fathers in some way but apni Maa ke upar toh nahin choose karega kisi ko kabhi😆

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

i know ye custody verdict ne mere expectation badha diya hai😆

Lol control kar lo expectation. Makers ne birth certificate correction de diya woh bhi badi baat hai for now. Lol aage kuch bhi mile woh bonus 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol control kar lo expectation. Makers ne birth certificate correction de diya woh bhi badi baat hai for now. Lol aage kuch bhi mile woh bonus 😆

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