I did include Ak apologising in T1, and thats a personal opinion but I feel Abhim’s wrongs lead him to where he stands today. Yes, Ak hid Abhir, but that was because of the phone call where Abhim told her he has nothing to talk about with her, be it about her or the kids. The 6 years could have been saved if he had at least tried listening while she tried telling him. Another why Abhim says sorry more is because the story is about Ak going to trauma so she is not in the state of mind to do anything at that time. She apologises post getting better. In T2 again she does not have any memory for her to apologise so there was no scope there. By T3, honestly I was just exhausted typing and was trying to somehow niptao the theory😂. Another reason why I feel Abhim’s guilt would be shown more is because the writers have decided on Abhim to be the bad guy here and that’s why we get Ak sandwiched between 2 guys instead of Abhim between 2 girls. They are doing the opposite of s1, where Ak was more at fault while Abhim was stuck between 2 girls. It was more pov vs how now it more of hers. Abhim’s sufferings were there, but so were Ak’s suffering. She was literally living a lie until very recently once she actually started moving on with Abhinav. She did not hide the truth from Abhim out of revenge, she was obviously heartbroken too by his indifference, and at that point Abhim leaving her made her lose all the trust too, so she definitely did not want to trust him or the Birlas with her kid. Later on too, she kept things hidden out of fear, first that he will take the kid away, and then of fear that what reason will she give the kid for keeping him away from Abhim. She said in yesterday’s episode as well that she can trust Manjari or Abhim again. So her pov is perfectly clear. Yes, Neil died because of the stupid decisions they made, but it was they, not her alone. It was his decision too. Abhim would have done the same too, as we have seen him thoughtlessly fighting goons for Ak, and both situations are equally dangerous. So why does he blame her for something he has done too in the past? He acted out in haste, pushed her away from him, kicked her out when he knew she miscarried, did not have the courage to face her again so did not bother searching her either, when she contacted him to tell about their son totally ignored her. So yes, this leap, he is more at fault than her, and thats a very personal opinion of mine. She has reasons to apologise too, and I tried including those as much in T1 as I could, T2 did not give me much scope to add those, while T3 I just rafa dafad the story there🤭
I understand typing in forum format can be a bit tiring 😂 while I agree to most of ur points, @Bold are clearly excuses and reasons. While I hated Assmanyu for handling out divorce notices and ignoring AK, I hate Ak for never giving the closer to AbhiM. I feel AbhiN actions are dictated based on AK and her side of story. I don’t think anyone hates AbhN stand-alone but becos of AK and her many idiocies(including fighting goons in highrisk pregnancy excluding Neil fighting goons)
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