If she is happy what's the problem? - Page 5

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

I know this is typo but surely feels like that listening at Manjiri 😆

BP was actually talking on behalf of his family..Akshara and Arohi. He clearly said he wont let Manjiri's delusions ruin their happiness.

The same way Manjiri decided for Akshara and had the audacity to ask her husband to leave his family and son for her son. Manjiri tried to decide for her, Manish gave back and decided for Abhimanyu.

@bold Hmmm... Sounds strange!!! BP and Goenka's talking about family. The same family saw Abhir for the first time in UD. Abhi was already Abhir's Docman by then!!!!

The family who never bothered to meet their own grandson for 6 years is taking decision for him!!! LOL!!! Good joke🤣

Manjari did not decide anything, she just put a thought in Abhinav's mind. If he was confident about his relationship with Akshara and Abhir, he wouldn't be crying over it at the first place.

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

Ok so a husband throws his wife out of the house in a vulnerable state when she just miscarried & also blames her for his brother’s death, gives divorce & tells her to never show her face.. when wife finds out she’s pregnant, she contacts him multiple times and tries to tell him what he of their baby is alive but he refuses to even listen or acknowledges her.. what is she supposed to do? Seriously. How come Abhimanyu isn’t at fault here. He’s 100% in the wrong here.. he wasn’t kept away. He was tried to told multiple times and he refused to even listen or acknowledge so it’s his fault for being so egoist and angry that he lost all his senses. Abhimanyu loosing his son is entirely his fault. No one else. Abhimanyu and Majari aren’t victims here.

I have two responses for this:

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Originally posted by: YoungHeart

Ok so a husband throws his wife out of the house in a vulnerable state when she just miscarried & also blames her for his brother’s death, gives divorce & tells her to never show her face.. when wife finds out she’s pregnant, she contacts him multiple times and tries to tell him what he of their baby is alive but he refuses to even listen or acknowledges her.. what is she supposed to do? Seriously. How come Abhimanyu isn’t at fault here. He’s 100% in the wrong here.. he wasn’t kept away. He was tried to told multiple times and he refused to even listen or acknowledge so it’s his fault for being so egoist and angry that he lost all his senses. Abhimanyu loosing his son is entirely his fault. No one else. Abhimanyu and Majari aren’t victims here.

Second response this comment same thread.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/163563047

I missed that part in the episode, but I did see Manish "protecting" his new son-in-law rights over a child that isn't his lol. He made the decision for everyone and she reacted.

@bold And she would be right lol. Unless Abhi signed documents signing away his rights or allowed Abhinav to adopt Abhir legally. Birla house is his home and his place is with his father. She was wrong to tell Abhinav to leave his wife. It's ironic that two families are telling her son to leave the son was hidden from him for six years too lol.

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

Why? Cause Dida, that's why 😆

She isn't for coparenting even though all the 3 parents agreed and were moments away from telling Abhir about his biological father.

According to her, Abhir's real jagah is the Birla house. Now since Akshara is the mom, she should just leave Abhinav and be with Abhimanyu again to be his wife instead, be the perfect family. Just divorced parents coparenting? What's that 😳

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Maybe that's why fans are demanding his khoon now.

I am more like yes please forget the complications your wife had make a baby and give Abhir to Abhimanyu 😎

Lol!!! 😂😂

When people have accepted Akshara's drunken confession, hand hold as love and 2 second love confession in yesterday's episode, why can't they accept Abhinav's confession of "muh bola baap" 🤔🤔

Originally posted by: yellomellow

All valid points.

One minute it's like nothing before six years happened, but she is traumatized. The next minute the past is all that motivates her, but she is happy. Honestly, I would be embarrassed if I was Abhinav after her speech. He was an afterthought. She was speaking as if she would immediately go back to Abhi if she got her idea of "trust" from him. So much for Abhinav's love healing her from all her pain lol.

@bold. This is the most horrible part about the track. All the characters are acting as if Abhi gave Abhir up for adoption then changed his mind six years later. His child was hidden from him. The entire leap two families are doing everything possible to keep away from his son with no shame or guilt. No ITV viewer is going to accept this,ever. A real and father son's relationship is being hindered to coddle a grown man.

The custody battle will be interesting if it's centered around the leads and their child. That's how ITV works. Last time the makers tried the custody track it was about Abhinav's situational poverty and insecurities. Let's hope they learned something from before.

I seriously hope this custody track at least is just focused on AB & AK - BOTH their mistakes has to be out, BOTH should realize at some point they have done wrong with each other, I hope this track again doesn’t show Nav as insecure and she instead of fighting for son, sit and wipes grown 2yr old tears….it’s high time they just focus on abhira.

AKs delusional world will not break and she will not come out of it w/o a jhatka and I hope AB winning the custody is wat that is going to be. As you all have stated (loved each and every comment) - AB deserves Abhir’s custody (full custody) just for the fact how he is being treated by everyone- how can Manish decide that AB will be wiped from Abhir’s life 😣😣 only when AK goes and stands in-front of AB for visiting rights, she will understand how much she has ill treated him, wat all she said comparing AB to Nav…even now she thinks AB acts impulsively when again and again he has proven that he is considering everyone’s feelings….don’t even get me started on the precap 😡 is that how u start a conversation abt custody battle??!! That too infront of AB?! 😣 I’m full on Team AB - dude, go get ur son..💕 - it’s high time you stop worrying abt other people’s feelings and start focusing on ur son.

this is the exact reason TRP is just stuck at 2.1, most of the ITV audience will sympathize with AB (since his redemption is already shown and now scenes are in favor of him not AK, her scenes esp baby sitting a grown man is only making people disconnect from her) - unless the track focus on AB/AK/Abhir it’s not going to improve….

Let's be honest, she had no intention of telling Abhir anything despite Manjiri's delusions lol. Even before she even what happened she wasn't interested in telling Abhir anything about Abhi because Abhinav's feelings were a priority. That much was very clear.

Completely agree with you about Manjiri, but she is no different from Akshara. It's wrong to toss others aside, but it's equally wrong to remove a father from a child's existence. Both make decisions for others and expect to applauded when things go badly. Also, isn't delusional on the part of the Goenkas and Sharmas to think that Abhi will give up his son and live in the shadows? His son was hidden from for six years.

@bold I'm assuming for the same reason Akshara didn't speak up when Manish made all the decisions for them. It was for the custody battle to start lol.

Originally posted by: Sana_a

I think the problem is Manjari’s delusion about AKs perfect family with AbhiM. Her problem is that she thinks she can toss everyone aside and get her grown up son what he, or rather, she wants. She wants to make decisions for everyone and only perceive her thoughts to be correct. Without even asking her own son first. And why didn’t the real papa spoke up when she was going on and on about “mujhe aur abhiM ko ap ki shart manzoor hai!”

But yes, neither of the three parents were against co parenting. The elders escalated the situation and made it worse. Only the step father spoke up and that too in regards to his concern for the child.
AK and both Abhimanyu should’ve spoken up and stopped their elders from making that decision on their behalf.

Originally posted by: yellomellow

You didn't answer the question lol.

If Manjiri's words have that much power over her then she was never happy lol. Six years of family bliss shouldn't be altered by her ex-saas words or feelings. If she doesn't give a damn then why the reaction?

Excellent question 👍🏼😆.....I'm also wondering if Akshara doesn't give a damn, why did this "not a damn" need a whole speech recounting each grudge she has against Manjiri? 😆

Originally posted by: yellomellow

All valid points.

One minute it's like nothing before six years happened, but she is traumatized. The next minute the past is all that motivates her, but she is happy. Honestly, I would be embarrassed if I was Abhinav after her speech. He was an afterthought. She was speaking as if she would immediately go back to Abhi if she got her idea of "trust" from him. So much for Abhinav's love healing her from all her pain lol.

@bold. This is the most horrible part about the track. All the characters are acting as if Abhi gave Abhir up for adoption then changed his mind six years later. His child was hidden from him. The entire leap two families are doing everything possible to keep away from his son with no shame or guilt. No ITV viewer is going to accept this,ever. A real and father son's relationship is being hindered to coddle a grown man.

The custody battle will be interesting if it's centered around the leads and their child. That's how ITV works. Last time the makers tried the custody track it was about Abhinav's situational poverty and insecurities. Let's hope they learned something from before.

@bold: 🤣🤣🤣.....I'm sure he would feel embarrassed if he was capable of understanding what she just did there....I don't think he is😆

Nav's love is all healing when it is convenient for the narrative of "fully moved on" but then all of a sudden, that same "love" becomes pointless as Akshara demonstrates she is still standing exactly where she was 6 years ago....literally nothing has changed even as she claims she is "new Akshara"😆

I don't have high hopes from this custody battle either....pretty sure there will be more rounds of Nav's situational poverty, insecurity and crying drama....but if they do take it according to the promo and Abhi wins custody, then I hope it is because Akshara's wrong actions are called out in court vis a vis erasing a father from his son's life.