If she is happy what's the problem? - Page 4

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Agreed. My take on Abhimanyu will be this only he did wrong with Akshara and currently what is shown he has accepted that he lost her coz he was wrong but he never did Abhir wrong not even when he thinks Abhir as Akshnav child. He did came running back from the camp for him. He wasn't mean or petty or whatever people call him he could have said i have no appointments no time anything but he made Abhir his priority even then one coz he is always a good dr b) coz of Akshara.

Bottom line is that Abhimanyu was a husband in the PAST....he is currently NO ONE'S husband😆....he is only a FATHER....a father who was kept away from his son for 6 years.

So why can't people be on the level with him as a FATHER rather than rehashing the same tired crap about his actions as a husband? He has acknowledged he was wrong as a husband. Topic closed. Talk to him as a father now, bas.

Again, don't bring in what Manjiri is WISHING for....talk to Abhi about what he IS currently and judge him all you want by that measure. He is a father first and foremost. Baaki is just noise.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Bottom line is that Abhimanyu was a husband in the PAST....he is currently NO ONE'S husband😆....he is only a FATHER....a father who was kept away from his son for 6 years.

So why can't people be on the level with him as a FATHER rather than rehashing the same tired crap about his actions as a husband? He has acknowledged he was wrong as a husband. Topic closed. Talk to him as a father now, bas.

Again, don't bring in what Manjiri is WISHING for....talk to Abhi about what he IS currently and judge him all you want by that measure. He is a father first and foremost. Baaki is just noise.

Not kept away unaware. He knows Abhir has questions like why his rwp left him and he was unaware. He at present has accepted that it was my fault as well. I don't what else should he do.

As a father everyone in the room is doing him wrong. Period. Abhimanyu the father doesn't deserve this.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Not kept away unaware. He knows Abhir has questions like why his rwp left him and he was unaware. He at present has accepted that it was my fault as well. I don't what else should he do.

As a father everyone in the room is doing him wrong. Period. Abhimanyu the father doesn't deserve this.

He was deliberately kept unaware that he has a son and his existence as a father was also DELIBERATELY replaced by another man....so that is keeping his son away from him only.

They aren't even getting to the point of Abhir's questions....usse pehle hi logon ko topic divert karna hai baar baar from even letting Abhi be acknowledged as the dad.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

He was deliberately kept unaware that he has a son and his existence as a father was also DELIBERATELY replaced by another man....so that is keeping his son away from him only.

They aren't even getting to the point of Abhir's questions....usse pehle hi logon ko topic divert karna hai baar baar from even letting Abhi be acknowledged as the dad.

You know initially when Ruhi was throwing tantrums I made a quick judgement that he is not a good father but turns out i was wrong He is actually a better parent than the two mothers.

Not denying Abhinav is a good father too minus his crying.

But he was the one who very nicely talked to Ruhi and release her insecurities. When he wasn't even aware of Abhir's parentage still he made a place in his life, Abhir trusted him with his illness and that was not only coz he is Dr.

Even now he can easily detect if something is bothering Abhir.

People have made comments on how he is avoiding Ruhi but he hasn't he made sure to call Ruhi. Even a episode was there when Ruhi said Poppy explained on call and she understands and will be responsible for herself. That is good parenting in my view.

Honestly, that's what it looks like. There is no conflict so the makers threw Abhi and Abhir's relationship into their marriage. Abhi having a relationship with his son and her being happily married can happen at the same time lol.

Originally posted by: sweta2005

Thats the thing writers amazing story and path breaking character is not been accepted by trp audience but writer is not able to accept the truth ,audience accept 2nd love troupe only when 1st husband is serious ly abusive,not some one suddenly behaves rashly

Originally posted by: chaipaani

You know initially when Ruhi was throwing tantrums I made a quick judgement that he is not a good father but turns out i was wrong He is actually a better parent than the two mothers.

Not denying Abhinav is a good father too minus his crying.

But he was the one who very nicely talked to Ruhi and release her insecurities. When he wasn't even aware of Abhir's parentage still he made a place in his life, Abhir trusted him with his illness and that was not only coz he is Dr.

Even now he can easily detect if something is bothering Abhir.

People have made comments on how he is avoiding Ruhi but he hasn't he made sure to call Ruhi. Even a episode was there when Ruhi said Poppy explained on call and she understands and will be responsible for herself. That is good parenting in my view.

According to Nav, that might be because of khoon ka rishta between Bhaiji and Abhir😆

LOL this is reductionist thinking either way....a bond can be special regardless of a blood relation. It is not Abhimanyu's problem if despite having 6 years raising Abhir, Nav is still not able to understand his full forms or sense when Abhir is stressed about something.

Abhimanyu has had this connection with Abhir since day one even when he didn't know he was his father. You can't force a spark in a relationship - either it's there or it isn't. This father-son had that spark even after not knowing of each other's existence for 6 years....they had that ease of talking in the flow and understanding each other as if they already knew each other since many years. Now whether that is because they are blood related or its just a natural spark, that is anyone's guess.

But yes, Abhimanyu has proven himself to be a good parent in both cases....both as foster father to Ruhi as well an actual father to Abhir. In Ruhi's case, he has shown that he can navigate the challenges of handling a temperamental/insecure child and in Abhir's case, he has shown how he earns the trust of children through his sincerity and care.

Nav is a good/caring father no doubt....but the fact that he is building his fatherhood by snatching away that of the real father casts a dark shadow over his fatherhood.

You didn't answer the question lol.

If Manjiri's words have that much power over her then she was never happy lol. Six years of family bliss shouldn't be altered by her ex-saas words or feelings. If she doesn't give a damn then why the reaction?

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

She was happy and that made Manju mata mad so she wanted her back to make her sad but Ak has now donned a wise hat and don’t give a damn.

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Originally posted by: AreYaar

According to Nav, that might be because of khoon ka rishta between Bhaiji and Abhir😆

LOL this is reductionist thinking either way....a bond can be special regardless of a blood relation. It is not Abhimanyu's problem if despite having 6 years raising Abhir, Nav is still not able to understand his full forms or sense when Abhir is stressed about something.

Abhimanyu has had this connection with Abhir since day one even when he didn't know he was his father. You can't force a spark in a relationship - either it's there or it isn't. This father-son had that spark even after not knowing of each other's existence for 6 years....they had that ease of talking in the flow and understanding each other as if they already knew each other since many years. Now whether that is because they are blood related or its just a natural spark, that is anyone's guess.

But yes, Abhimanyu has proven himself to be a good parent in both cases....both as foster father to Ruhi as well an actual father to Abhir. In Ruhi's case, he has shown that he can navigate the challenges of handling a temperamental/insecure child and in Abhir's case, he has shown how he earns the trust of children through his sincerity and care.

Nav is a good/caring father no doubt....but the fact that he is building his fatherhood by snatching away that of the real father casts a dark shadow over his fatherhood.

Maybe that's why fans are demanding his khoon now.

I am more like yes please forget the complications your wife had make a baby and give Abhir to Abhimanyu 😎

Originally posted by: AreYaar

He was deliberately kept unaware that he has a son and his existence as a father was also DELIBERATELY replaced by another man....so that is keeping his son away from him only.

They aren't even getting to the point of Abhir's questions....usse pehle hi logon ko topic divert karna hai baar baar from even letting Abhi be acknowledged as the dad.

Ok so a husband throws his wife out of the house in a vulnerable state when she just miscarried & also blames her for his brother’s death, gives divorce & tells her to never show her face.. when wife finds out she’s pregnant, she contacts him multiple times and tries to tell him what he of their baby is alive but he refuses to even listen or acknowledges her.. what is she supposed to do? Seriously. How come Abhimanyu isn’t at fault here. He’s 100% in the wrong here.. he wasn’t kept away. He was tried to told multiple times and he refused to even listen or acknowledge so it’s his fault for being so egoist and angry that he lost all his senses. Abhimanyu loosing his son is entirely his fault. No one else. Abhimanyu and Majari aren’t victims here.

All valid points.

One minute it's like nothing before six years happened, but she is traumatized. The next minute the past is all that motivates her, but she is happy. Honestly, I would be embarrassed if I was Abhinav after her speech. He was an afterthought. She was speaking as if she would immediately go back to Abhi if she got her idea of "trust" from him. So much for Abhinav's love healing her from all her pain lol.

@bold. This is the most horrible part about the track. All the characters are acting as if Abhi gave Abhir up for adoption then changed his mind six years later. His child was hidden from him. The entire leap two families are doing everything possible to keep away from his son with no shame or guilt. No ITV viewer is going to accept this,ever. A real and father son's relationship is being hindered to coddle a grown man.

The custody battle will be interesting if it's centered around the leads and their child. That's how ITV works. Last time the makers tried the custody track it was about Abhinav's situational poverty and insecurities. Let's hope they learned something from before.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: BINGO😆.....There is no logical correlation between these two things but that is what the makers are trying to force through😆

Akshara got a clear chance yesterday to talk about how she has moved on and very happy in her second marriage.....but instead she got busy recounting all her grudges against her old sasural again😆. Is she trying to say her present life only has meaning in comparison to her old one? LOL that's a shaky foundation for anything. No wonder they have to keep dragging Abhi into the topic because otherwise it's all just about how many liters of tears Nav can shed each day😆

And then yes, the child in question who should be front and center in these discussions is shunted to the side as his paternity continues to be held hostage to everyone feeling guilt-tripped over Abhinav's tears😆.....so Abhir and Abhimanyu don't deserve to interact as father-son cuz it will hurt Nav's (who also happened to hide son from real father for 6 years) feelings? Nav literally is living this life after getting it at the expense of real father being DELIBERATELY hidden from his son and we are still supposed to sympathize with ABHINAV? 😆.....Amazing writing👏😆

I don't know if Manjiri will manage to move the track along but I'm definitely enjoying how she's keeping the shameless Goenkas pressed😆. The attitude and arrogance with which they've challenged her that they will win the custody😆....would be nice to see them falling flat on their faces this time.