Birlas and their life without Goenkas - Page 2

Birla siblings' bond was my favorite But makers destroyed it and I really don't know why

If they hadn't killed off Anisha and then Neil

this season would have been on the top

so what if kashish wanted to quit the show

they could have easily replaced her but no they decided to just end her character and bring that khera track but that track too turned out to be a flop as the actor who was playing Maya was having health problems

there were so many interesting tracks that they chose to end abruptly

and the main thing which destroyed this season is the whitewashing of arohi, whenever we thought yeah now she'll be exposed, makers would be like aise kaise she's our pyaari arru ise toh 7 khoon bhi maaf

so many missed opportunities seriously

Anyhow,

Anisha, a cheather.

Parth, a wifebeater,

Neil, a neglected mistreated child

Abhimanyu, a gaslighter

But the Goenka sisters ruined their bond lol

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Anyhow,

Anisha, a cheather.

Parth, a wifebeater,

Neil, a neglected mistreated child

Abhimanyu, a gaslighter

But the Goenka sisters ruined their bond lol

Parth wasn't a wife beater pre leap

Anisha wasn't mentioned in the start of the show and when she was introduced it wasn't mentioned that she is a cheater but Kairav was breaking up with her coz of the issues between the family.

Neil was a neglected child from adults but younger generation loved him like their own.

However weird their family dimensions were the siblings bond wasn't as bad as leaving your half sister to die after a road accident.

Aarohi did intervene subtly in their house issues and manipulated and instigated Neil why coz she was mad at abhimanyu and akshara.

Aarohi and Akshara were having too much and look at them now some 6-7 years later being all mature and playing besties with eachother.

Kairav finally decided to not talk between a married couple and actually take stand for his sisters when needed.

Good growth but the cost of it-

a) Neil is no more

b) Anisha is no more

c) the family dimensions which were weird are now 50 X times more toxic.

What would have happened if Abhimanyu got married with a mature nice practical girl with no siblings rivalry let us say the now Akshara.

His relationship with his father may or may not remain the same.

They would have focused more into their relationship contrary to the popular discussion Abhimanyu wasn't forcing Akshu to do what he likes but more wanted her to focus on them as a couple instead of his dysfunctional family.

Abhimanyu will be in a happy marriage with Neil still alive by his side.

The way Abhimanyu was shown he might have started to work on his anger issues if talked about from someone he loved.

So yes Goenka Sisters did ruined their lives maybe unintentionally like I said Akshara didn't kill Neil but he died that day and we see no remorse from her end.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Abhira was truly a toxic relationship that was unnecessarily glorified. Such relationships don’t sustain, as there was lack of maturity in that relationship. But about the Birla household, it was already destroyed honestly. They were all toxic, Harsh was such a toxic character, Manjari ruined Neil’s childhood, Anisha was kind of disowned, Parth had to go through parental pressure and his passion was never supported, Abhim had childhood trauma and his hatred for his dad and the trauma ignited his anger issues and impulsive behavior. The Birla siblings were good but why nobody stood with Anisha or tried talking to her, pushing her so far that she thought running away was a better option? Specially Parth who was elder. How did Harsh get the courage of beating Neil? Did he do that earlier as well that became normal to do the same, and if so why nobody stood with him? Birla family was equally dysfunctional, but they got used to living a certain way and thought to continue the same way. That’s why Abhim used to get angry on Ak whenever she used to try bringing them together initially in their marriage.

I have recently retrospect on their relationship and felt Akshara should also have focused on her relationship with Abhimanyu instead of trying to bring his family together. Maybe a year or two later when you guys are finally doing fine.

I also feel more then AK trying to mend things the way Aarohi decided to not let them in peace coz hey she didn't like akshara ruined the things for worse.

It looks like that finally Goenkas siblings have grown up.

Like Kairav used to speak a lot between the just married couple but now he knows his boundaries.

AK AR are now understanding eachothers and everything. Which is growth.

But at whose cost these growth and bonding came

Birla Siblings 🫡

Originally posted by: janecastle

Harsh was a wife beater. Manjari was in an abusive marriage. Abhimanyu had anger issues. Neil was mistreated. Anand-Mahima and Parth-Shefali had a very fragile marriage with loads of ego clashes. Aneesha was a cheater who was in a relationship with a married man and quite unstable. All these would have exploded sooner or later. Entry of Goenka had nothing to do with that. Both set of families were quite unstable with loads of internal conflicts. There was no need for external forces to destroy them. They would have done that themselves. It was in everybody's well being to go separate ways as they were incapable of functioning like grown up adults.

So the thought of this conversation isn't how they were as a family and if they would have destroyed eachother or not.

It was about younger generation who were doing relatively better than goenka sisters.

There involved ruined their whatever peace they did have and now the mighty goenka sisters are behaving as if it was Abhimanyu or neil or say birlas jinke wjh se unke karan problem aaye like how mata ji asked aarohi to tell akshara to leave and she did. As if Aarohi was always a sister supporter but this family has ruined their bond and now she won't let that happen 😂

Originally posted by: chaipaani

So the thought of this conversation isn't how they were as a family and if they would have destroyed eachother or not.

It was about younger generation who were doing relatively better than goenka sisters.

There involved ruined their whatever peace they did have and now the mighty goenka sisters are behaving as if it was Abhimanyu or neil or say birlas jinke wjh se unke karan problem aaye like how mata ji asked aarohi to tell akshara to leave and she did. As if Aarohi was always a sister supporter but this family has ruined their bond and now she won't let that happen 😂

The younger gen Birlas had their own problems too. And if you have good bonds, no matter what others do, it won’t break that easily. Also no matter what problems Goenkas sisters had, it doesn't absolve the wrongs done by Abhimanyu and Manjari. But nice try to blame everything on Goenkas and prove how innocent Birlas are. 🤪

Originally posted by: janecastle

The younger gen Birlas had their own problems too. And if you have good bonds, no matter what others do, it won’t break that easily. Also no matter what problems Goenkas sisters had, it doesn't absolve the wrongs done by Abhimanyu and Manjari. But nice try to blame everything on Goenkas and prove how innocent Birlas are. 🤪

Bhai maine baat kahan ki abhimanyu ne kya kiya manjari ne kya kiya

And nice try toh aese bol rhe ho jaise main media hun aur ab meri hi chalegi sabka apna pov hai

Har generation ki problem hoti hai mere or mere siblings k beech hi hai par hum log kairav k jaise unke marital jhagdo mein nahi bolne jaate or baki sab time chup, na hi accident hogya toh road par chod k chale aao ka nature hai. Akshara mehendi time accident.

Na hi ek dusre k Ghar barbad kr rhe, aruhi ruining ak audition, blackmailing ak ka pati and alot more.

And now years laters nice try to blame everything on birlas while the love goenka siblings are showering on each other came at the cost of their whatever peace they ever had.

Originally posted by: janecastle

The younger gen Birlas had their own problems too. And if you have good bonds, no matter what others do, it won’t break that easily. Also no matter what problems Goenkas sisters had, it doesn't absolve the wrongs done by Abhimanyu and Manjari. But nice try to blame everything on Goenkas and prove how innocent Birlas are. 🤪

Just so that you know Goenka sisters were involved in hit and run case concerning Manjari. She could have died.

Also, i don't think the countless crime(actual crime) Aarohi commited and has been given clean chit not only by Birla family just coz their son loved her but suddenly by audience.

I just wanted to have a conversation other than the usual abhi ne yeh kiya woh but guess you have nothing else to say accept the white day issues #cute

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I have recently retrospect on their relationship and felt Akshara should also have focused on her relationship with Abhimanyu instead of trying to bring his family together. Maybe a year or two later when you guys are finally doing fine.

I also feel more then AK trying to mend things the way Aarohi decided to not let them in peace coz hey she didn't like akshara ruined the things for worse.

It looks like that finally Goenkas siblings have grown up.

Like Kairav used to speak a lot between the just married couple but now he knows his boundaries.

AK AR are now understanding eachothers and everything. Which is growth.

But at whose cost these growth and bonding came

Birla Siblings 🫡

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I agree Goenkas were toxic too, but my point is that Birlas were already dealing with internal issues, just that they got used to live a certain way and never cared about mending things. Though the Birla siblings seemed to have a better bond, because they did not have an Arohi plotting all the time, or a Kairav asking his one sister to leave for another, still the Birla siblings did not stand for each other in every moment, and the examples I have mentioned in the previous comment. So it was already dysfunctional for Birlas, if it was not Kairav for Anisha, would have been someone else, as she died because of her own mistakes. She was the unstable one who cheated and then emotionally blackmailed Kairav, so why should we blame Kairav of the fate that she finally ended up with. About Neil, if it was not Ak or Arohi, still his truth would have been hidden. If people think Ak did wrong with Abhi and Abhir for hiding the truth, then the same thing happened with Neil too. At least Abhir was not made to feel that he is adopted and out of place. So it was Manjari wronging him, not the Goenka siblings in the first place. Yes, later on Arohi manipulated and married him, all that I can count as her trying to destroy Neil, but that is a separate topic. My point is that despite all that he was already living a lie and was in that kind of position because of the Birlas themselves, but just got used to living that way. Nobody stood for Parth and his passion and he did not seem to talk it out with any of the siblings either. The family was dysfunctional way before the entrance of the Goenkas in their life. They did not need the Goenkas, rather any small incident or any other family/person could have easily destroyed this hoax of a good family or bond, as these issues were of their own making and no outsider was responsible for the same. The outsiders would have just acted as the catalyst, ab wo Goenkas hote ya koi aur does not matter.

Hey that's why i didn't mention Anisha. It was on her. But rest of the things were ignited by the dysfunctionality between goenka siblings.

Also Parth post leap was on Parth not on others so didn't mention it