MyThought- Epi 951

Sorry for long post.. Hv highlighted the topics so you can read that interest you.

Something from previous episode

When AK was sobbing for not being allowed to gv exam, Abhir and AbhiN came there. It was beautiful scene. They both recognized the sob, Abhir felt the pain and AbhiN felt concern even without seeing AK. AK had to supress her sobbing so the duo does not hear her. The relationship this trio has need not be fitted in any wordly relationships.

Today's episode

Again a light episode... With little building blocks for upcoming twist...

AK: I did rant against AK, for talking about her wedding and showing nothing but surprise yesterday. But, the girl made me take back my words today and I am so happy even when I am doing that. The way she managed the the situation showed that she was sensitive towards AbhiN. Even AbhiN- AK interaction was supersweet. For the first time I saw a chulbuli AK even when interacting with AbhiN. I did not see her giving any attention to AbhiM. AbhiM was looking 'begani shadi mei..' in the scene. No one there would hv missed him if he was not there. Yes, I do give him credit because we got this scene due to his light manipulative act. The way AK had a talk with AbhiM at the end of the episode showed how righteous she is when it comes to her family. Even on first visit of AbhiM to her Kasauli home, she had said I am going to go through all the pain just for the happiness and self- respect of AbhiN. They were not even husband wife then.

AR: To be honest, I did not understand AR's POV regarding her hesitancy to visit Kasauli. It should have been AbhiM who should be hesitant to live with AK, but why AR? Was it because her relation went sour with AbhiM, when she acted as a mediator between AK- AbhiN and AbhiM and failed that is on her mind?

AbhiM: AbhiM does not understand his boundaries. He lives with a couple, overhears their private conversations (I know not intentionally), but instead of ignoring it, respecting their space, he acts on it. AbhiN surrenders only when no option is left with him, e.g., Abhir's 2nd surgery. Now even though he said it is difficult, he did take it as a challenge to manage the wedding expenses. When husband and wife fight, the wise elder person in the house says, they will handle it, leave them alone. Meddling between them only complicates the situation, even if it is with good intentions. AbhiM is almost acting as a partner of AK in many situations even when she has not asked for it, or completely denying it. e. g., help during the law exam (still I wll take it as it was situational) and today with the hotel.

A random thought unrelated to the episode-

AbhiM- Abhir soul connection: I always proposed that Abhir is AbhiN's soulmate. Abhir has a very strong soul connection with AbhiN, even stronger than his connection with AK. They are each other's protectors and healers.

But what is the soul- relation between AbhiM and Abhir? Even though Abhir enjoys company of AbhiM, their togetherness does not give the deep connection vibe that AbhiN- Abhir togetherness gives. Abhir is connected by pain with AbhiM even though he is not aware of it now. AbhiM, for right reasons, never wanted Abhir ( babies) to come into existence. When Abhir was conceived, AbhiM, again for right reasons wanted to end Abhir's existence. When AK convinced AbhiM, about keeping the babies, he became obsessive about AK's health almost to the extent of suffocating her. Nothing can be said about the white day. AbhiM gave so much pain to Abhir's mother on that day that it took years for the woman to heal. Each action of AbhiM has given pain to Abhir as a soul.

AbhiN was the first person, after AK who never thought of ending Abhir's life. AbhiN was a first person, who just thought of well being of Abhir when he was still not born. AK was is not right frame of mind then. It was AbhiN who kept on reminding her to eat, took care that she remains happy, without stress, loving Abhir as he saw him in the sonography image.

Abhir's relationship with AbhiM is highly dependant on AbhiM's relationship with AbhiN. He never liked AbhiM except for his looks in the start. What made him like AbhiM was him saving his Papa and when AbhiM helped AbhiN dance. Abhir has cautioned AbhiM not to hurt his Papa on so many occaisions.

Inspite of AbhiM ( unintentionally) hurting abhir, Abhir as soul has healed due to boundless love from AbhiN and AK's love. Hence, he is the most healthy soul among all. Abhir not only will go against AbhiM, but to some extent even against AK in long term if he feels AbhiN is getting hurt due to them. Abhir said to AbhiN, ' Agar mamma apako dante to muzhe bula lena...'

AbhiM inspite of knowing how much Abhir loves his Papa from day 1, decided to fight the custody battle, only creating an additonal situation where he will again hurt Abhir's soul enormously.

Please keep on giving your views. We enjoy it more than the boring show. Just want some story the shaadi drama is almost over a week.

I cannot express my thoughts as precisely as you, please excuse me for that. But since you have mentioned about Abhimanyu-Abhir bond. Wanted to express my opinion.

Abhimanyu was not aware of Abhir's existence. So, the bond they share is definitely is not strong as Abhinav-Abhir.

But I disagree with the point that Abhimanyu didn't wanted children. he tried really hard to find a solution when he got to know Akshara's health condition and that she cannot conceive. The only reason he was adamant about termination of the pregnancy was because of Akshara's health. Not that he didn't wanted to have babies. There's a lot of difference in this. After they decided to continue with the pregnancy and after Akshara's promise, Abhimanyu took care of her like a kid. He was there for all the time. It was Akshara who risked her babies lives not once, but twice. Neil's and the death of one of her baby was unfortunate and whatever happened on white day was disastrous and Abhimanyu made the worst decision and treated her badly.

But this doesn't make him a bad father or less connected to Abhir. Abhir loves him equally and confides to him. Abhimanyu never thught of snatching Abhir from his parents. He was always thankful to Abhinav for raising Abhir. He just wants a place in Abhir's life as father. It was Akshara and Kairav who started talking about taking legal actions. And more than Abhir's parents its Abhimanyu who cared for Abhir's health. Be it pre-surgery or post surgery. Abhir's parents were playing ping-pong with with Abhir, kabhi yahan, kabhi wahan, just to hide his truth from Abhimanyu.

So, all in all, A mother's and father's bond with their kids shouldn't be compared.