Destiny versus Karma

Jab Kismat kharab hoti hai tab class ka sabase intelligent bachhabhi galti kar deta hai...

Before writing the POV, I want put across that I am liking AbhiM's overall behavior in Kasauli. Rather the sync that three parents have developed is nice to watch.

What abhiM said today made me ask a question: can we blame destiny or it is karma? It is tough question to answer and everyone will take sides as per their understanding on the issue.

There is beautiful line: What we go through today and call destiny is actually result of our past karma and what karma we choose to do today will decide our future destiny. This is the law, which will apply to both the AK- AbhiM and AK- AbhiN ship in coming days.

AK- AbhiM: Yes, the situations that AbhiM and AK went through were not always their making and hence people do have POV that it was not them but the situation that failed their relationship. I respect this POV.

However, in my POV, the choices that they made (their Karma) in given situations, are to be blamed equally. They both made mistakes, and had trust issues in addition to having personal flaws.

AbhiN- AK: AbhiN and AK represent the contrast ( till now). I feel that the AbhiN and AK even as platonic pair has been through the toughest times. We do not feel the intesity of their situation and feel that 'you know this duo did not face what AbhiM- AK faced as a couple, because the way they have fought them out.'

AbhiN, a stranger lost his rented house just because AK was living with him. For a person with his socioeconomic status, house has huge importance but it did not stop AbhiN- AK from being together. Neither AK left him out of guilt nor AbhiN left AK to have a easy going life. Even though their 6 year journey has not being shown in detail, we know from Jhula scene that they have been fighting it out throughout. Abhir's illness, their socioeconomic status, AK's love for AbhiM (in accident track), each had the potential to become rift between them, but it did not due to the choices that they made in given situation ( destiny). Even now, AK and AbhiN are living with AbhiM. We feel at ease looking at them because AK and AbhiN make it LOOK easy. AbhiN is aware that AbhiM has not moved on, and is still aware that AK does have soft corner for AbhiM.

If AbhiM goes a genuine redemption track ( I want that), it is going to become difficult day by day to take side with one ship. Any ship will sound okay. If this happens, side should be picked not on the basis of who has done how much but whom you want to be with for rest of your life. I want AK to pick side which is straight from her heart. Her genuine choice may hurt one in short term, but in long term, that will be the best thing to happen to all.

AK- AbhiN hand- holding: In yesterday's scene, I liked how AK held AbhiN's hand after he motivated her, when AbhiM is living in the same house. I equally or rather more loved AbhiN's reaction to hand holding. He did not take the hand- hold more than friend's cordial handshake. After the ' Apaki nazaro ne..' song night, in the morning AK again emotionally backtracked and did not much respond to AbhiN's 'Love filled gaze'. He picked it up immediately and I do see him again going platonic with AK, being just her friend.

Abhir and excessive love: Kudos to the writers for the idea. I never ever had thought that AbhiN's excessive but genuine love would become the turning point of the game and I loved it. In ghum hai.. where Vinayak chose his foster mother over biological mother, I was wondering why Abhir who loves his foster father, would drift away from him.. so for right now, great job!

Last part went over my head🤔

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Last part went over my head🤔

+1

Abhinav's excessive love has any impact on Abhir's thinking. That is still not something I get...

Even in the scene where Akshu asks Abhinav to be careful with bowl and Abhir correlates is little overboard imho. Because pyaar toh I don't think would have been any different be it real or khoon wale...

In ghum it’s differnt, while it’s natural to choose the parent that has been raising them , it’s also how the truth wsss told to Vinayak, he was fed stories on how his bio mom was a witch, then the way it came out was such a way that, the choice was made even before he could think. He was traumatised and was caged inside his own house, not able to talk to his own sister. And he was used as tool for his foster mothers insecurity.

Abhinav and Pakhi are not the same. Not saying she didn’t love Binayak but her love was selfish it was not for vinayaks benefit. She wasn’t even happy when her son was free from the trauma.

I love how yrkkh is handling this sensitive matter. I am sure they will handle it even better in the upcoming track.

Yes, both serials have different context as you have wonderfully described and yes, Vinayak was made to choose over given freedom to choose.

With excessive love: AbhiM loves and pampers Ruhi more than what a biological parent would do. He is more like our Masa, Masi who pamper us with gifts, rarely descipline us. AbhiM's gesture towards Ruhi is combination of his own need for love, his promise to his brother and his genuine love for Ruhi.

AbhiN is different. He is born with a heart of a gold. That is how he is. AbhiN loves Abhir more than how a biological parent would, but that is part of his persona. But, Abhir is comparing AbhiN's pure, genuine, excessive love with AbhiM's pampering, extra love towards Ruhi which not 100% pure. Abhir is thinking that AbhiN loves him same as AbhiM loves his foster daughter which is not true. Abhir is getting a feeling that AbhiN is taking extra care of him because he is not his own, just pike the bowl that they he got from Nilamma with which AbhiN wants to be extra careful.

Thank you, for asking this Q. I shared my POV in the thread. Hope that helps. Would love to know your POV also...

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Yes, both serials have different context as you have wonderfully described and yes, Vinayak was made to choose over given freedom to choose.

With excessive love: AbhiM loves and pampers Ruhi more than what a biological parent would do. He is more like our Masa, Masi who pamper us with gifts, rarely descipline us. AbhiM's gesture towards Ruhi is combination of his own need for love, his promise to his brother and his genuine love for Ruhi.

AbhiN is different. He is born with a heart of a gold. That is how he is. AbhiN loves Abhir more than how a biological parent would, but that is part of his persona. But, Abhir is comparing AbhiN's pure, genuine, excessive love with AbhiM's pampering, extra love towards Ruhi which not 100% pure. Abhir is thinking that AbhiN loves him same as AbhiM loves his foster daughter which is not true. Abhir is getting a feeling that AbhiN is taking extra care of him because he is not his own, just pike the bowl that they he got from Nilamma with which AbhiN wants to be extra careful.

I get why his chotusa brain compares that. It’s logical. But love is love right, his papa loves him, Ismei problem kya hai? If Akshara right now is pregnant with Abhinav’s child, then insecurity ka angle will be fair enough?

Abhir is a kid shouldn’t he be happy his father loves him . I am not able to understand the problem here: he can be curious about his bio dad, he can wonder why his papa didn’t tell him! But wondering why his papa extra loves him and being sad about it is confusing. He is a 7 year old kid

I think he will go to BH before realization hits him how precious his relation was with AbN and then may come back if there is anyone left to come back to.

Regarding Ak and AbN, I do want Ak to make the decision who she wants to be with rather than others taking that decision for her ( AbN sacrificing himself for her).

If you ask me, she won’t leave AbN.

Yeah! It’s high time for Ak to look inwards and confront her own feelings and decide what she wants without any obligations to anyone, and then stick to it. My biggest fear is whether she will get an opportunity to do so in the first place.

Abhir is behaving much more matured than his age. May be that is his personality. But the questions looks a bit weired - my bias mind probably. Even if Akshara chose Abhinava it should be herown choice and wish. Not to pay off. Even if he choose AbhiM it shouldbe her own wish. Not because Abhir wants to be with him. That is all. But why every time Nav gets stuck. He should plan his time management properly.