Does this happen in reality? - Page 2

Abhinav has to open his eyes and try to understand beyond Akshus words , doesn't matter it is been 6 or 7 or 12 years if he couldn't understand akshu then he is a failure .. she is still not in love with him and it is clearly visible .. but he still believes her words ..

A marriage doesn’t function on love only. Otherwise SC wouldn’t have commented that majority of divorces occur in love marriages. For a marriage to be successful, there should be trust, respect and understanding for each other as well, which didn’t exist between Ak and AbM.

Tbh hated that comment by SC but even if I consider that was true this is hardly love vs arrange marriage debate

AkshNav were never a arranged marriage nd just coz there was no love before marriage it doesn't mean there can be no love after marriage

In an Indian arrange marriage setup we look for a prospective groom even if it was someone who was marrying again nd had a kid they would look for a partner who can be compatible with them nd be a good father figure to ur child... there's so much considered in arrange marriage family financial education background, class nd caste...how arrange marriage work these days with all the shaadi.com apps is people interested in arrange marriages also have some conversation before they ask parents to sent out biodata to families nd when all is decided most marriages don't happen instantly they do spend anywhere around 1-6 months talking to each other nd developing a bond

IRL u would always want to believe the person u r marrying is a good person but u won't just marry someone because they're good to you

With AK the first step for her would've been to see Nav as her husband nd not the father she chose for Abhir, she started doing that after first UD trip...now whether or not she can come to love her partner is what her next step in this progression be

Coming back to what the TM asked you'll find love if you look for love nd somehow her relationship with Nav as a couple was never her priority or in her mind at all for those 6 years so there's no love

I don't think she was unable to love Abhinav. I feel she was unable to open her heart to even entertain the idea of loving someone again. She was so traumatized by her previous relationship that she closed her heart. When she came back to Udaipur, she decided to open her heart and give her relationship a chance. It was not about Abhinav being a good man or a good partner, it wasn't about Abhinav at all. It all has to do with her being hesitant due to her previous experience.

Imo.

Ak didn’t marry AbN instantly. She got to know him during her pregnancy and when she saw how much he did for her newborn son when she was born indisposed, she took the fateful decision of making him her son’s father.

So you can’t say she married a stranger or impulsively took the decision of giving their relation a name.

Love does blossom in many arranged marriage ileith time and it shows in the form of caring and being there for their spouse in time of need. One can never define how one shows their love to another.
In a way Ak did love AbN as the father of her son but not as her husband. And only now she has started to open up to the idea of accepting and loving him as her husband.

And this is where unrealistic part of the story kicks in,. She shouldn’t have taken six years to have thi epiphany

Originally posted by: Sana_a

I’ve been an on and off viewer of YRKKH from Naksh days. Haven’t really been into ITV in a long time. but recently when a video of AbhiN, Akshara, and Abhir popped up on my TikTok, it peaked my interest in the show again. I watched a few episodes further back to how Abhira separated and Abhinav entered the show. And now I’m caught up with the story and have been watching it daily.

After watching, my curious mind is not able to understand why Akshara hasn’t been able to fall in love or even develop any romantic feelings for Abhinav in six years? How is she still stuck in her past? Does this happen in real life? I know..I know that this is fiction and i shouldn’t question it but unfortunately I still am. I honestly fail to understand how has she not developed feelings for a guy like Abhinav? Am I missing something about Abhira’s love story?
I also come from a broken marriage and with a child, but am definitely not dwelling in the past. My ex and I co-parent and are happy in our lives. I’m single, But if I were to find a person as close to Abhinav I don’t think I’ll not develop any romantic feelings for him, that too while living with him as his legal wife for six long years!

Does this really happen? That you can still be in love with your ex while being married to someone like Abhinav? I just cannot connect with Akshara on this! I feel She is being very selfish and unfair to Abhinav.

Never made the she married a stranger argument , on contrary i feel comparing AkshNav situation to an arrange marriage would rather suggest she married a stranger coz that's how arrange marriage usually work u don't know ur partner prior to the wedding...My point is that she doesn't love Nav as a husband coz she never looked at him from a wife's lens he was always Abhir father. You have to give urself a chance to love to fall in love.

So I'm totally onboard with you here when u say that her considering Nav a husband is only a latest development nd IRL someone would've have taken a chance way back

Also to add situations like these don't happen IRL , even if you seek to marry to provide ur child love of both mother and father people hardly keep a condition we can only ever be parents nd don't have any expectations from this relationship

If this was said to a real person they would probably reply I'm sorry but I'll pass...

Have you ever had a long term friend who is a guy, who you have not developed feelings for ? Even if they may have? I don't think people fall in love just cause someone is nice or they live with someone for long time.

They are friends so no romantic feelings. Also with Abhira, it was a great love story : you might have missed it but Ak literally gave up a year of her life for Abhi's hand. But more importantly, there are too many unresolved issues there. One cannot really move on, if they had no resolution, are still holding onto the anger.

Ak hid Abhir so she also hid her hate for Abhi within her for so many years. Now that things are out, she is slowly able to move on.