Does this happen in reality?

I’ve been an on and off viewer of YRKKH from Naksh days. Haven’t really been into ITV in a long time. but recently when a video of AbhiN, Akshara, and Abhir popped up on my TikTok, it peaked my interest in the show again. I watched a few episodes further back to how Abhira separated and Abhinav entered the show. And now I’m caught up with the story and have been watching it daily.

After watching, my curious mind is not able to understand why Akshara hasn’t been able to fall in love or even develop any romantic feelings for Abhinav in six years? How is she still stuck in her past? Does this happen in real life? I know..I know that this is fiction and i shouldn’t question it but unfortunately I still am. I honestly fail to understand how has she not developed feelings for a guy like Abhinav? Am I missing something about Abhira’s love story?
I also come from a broken marriage and with a child, but am definitely not dwelling in the past. My ex and I co-parent and are happy in our lives. I’m single, But if I were to find a person as close to Abhinav I don’t think I’ll not develop any romantic feelings for him, that too while living with him as his legal wife for six long years!

Does this really happen? That you can still be in love with your ex while being married to someone like Abhinav? I just cannot connect with Akshara on this! I feel She is being very selfish and unfair to Abhinav.

In real also no one asks a rah chalte insaan to become a fatherjee and in no hospital a person without knowing any relation is given to hold a baby for 4 days for which he has been praised, for that hospital is there

Originally posted by: Sana_a

I’ve been an on and off viewer of YRKKH from Naksh days. Haven’t really been into ITV in a long time. but recently when a video of AbhiN, Akshara, and Abhir popped up on my TikTok, it peaked my interest in the show again. I watched a few episodes further back to how Abhira separated and Abhinav entered the show. And now I’m caught up with the story and have been watching it daily.

After watching, my curious mind is not able to understand why Akshara hasn’t been able to fall in love or even develop any romantic feelings for Abhinav in six years? How is she still stuck in her past? Does this happen in real life? I know..I know that this is fiction and i shouldn’t question it but unfortunately I still am. I honestly fail to understand how has she not developed feelings for a guy like Abhinav? Am I missing something about Abhira’s love story?
I also come from a broken marriage and with a child, but am definitely not dwelling in the past. My ex and I co-parent and are happy in our lives. I’m single, But if I were to find a person as close to Abhinav I don’t think I’ll not develop any romantic feelings for him, that too while living with him as his legal wife for six long years!

Does this really happen? That you can still be in love with your ex while being married to someone like Abhinav? I just cannot connect with Akshara on this! I feel She is being very selfish and unfair to Abhinav.

Us, normal people can never understand soulmates love.

I agree with you, living with the person for over 6 years, and someone like abhinav and she is happy, it’s not like she was sad or unhappy, it’s impossible to not have feelings for the person.

see if she just married abhinav that’s fine, but it’s been 6 years. 6 years that your soulmate didn’t reach out to you to apologise or show any regret.

anyways abhinav also got something in return, he got the selfless love of abhir and a family, even if it’s not in the true sense of it. I think he is very grateful and happy for that.

It’s a win win for both. Abhinav went in eyes wide open.

All your questions are totally valid.

I think so many of us fell headlong into the trap of initial Kasauli tracks. Our fault

ITV or for that matter South Asian TV is disturbingly obsessed with jhol (read soul) love. I've no issues with fictional stories about fated lovers but then atleast have some substance in it.

Even if these shows demand us to turn our brains off, the kind of love n marriages that are served as the eternal godly kind are such horsesh*t, that I understand why one can't help questioning or disliking them.

Originally posted by: sweta2005

In real also no one asks a rah chalte insaan to become a fatherjee and in no hospital a person without knowing any relation is given to hold a baby for 4 days for which he has been praised, for that hospital is there

I don’t understand where this argument emerged that Ak married a stranger. They lived together for 8 months before she decided to marry him and give their relationship a name for the sake of her child. 7/8 months of companionship doesn’t count. 🙄

Wasn’t Akshara living with him throughout her whole pregnancy? So he wasn’t really a stranger for her at the time of birth? Not sure about holding the baby thing.

Originally posted by: sweta2005

In real also no one asks a rah chalte insaan to become a fatherjee and in no hospital a person without knowing any relation is given to hold a baby for 4 days for which he has been praised, for that hospital is there

Wasn’t Akshara living with him throughout her whole pregnancy? So he wasn’t really a stranger for her at the time of birth? Not sure about holding the baby thing.

It all depends on their choice. Even if a guy is 100 times better then if her heart is not agreeing to it we can't do much about it. Not talking about show but in general.

Every girl will have a set of expectations from her partner. In reality too if a person is really good but if the expectations she has from her partner is not met then she knows it will not work.

For eg : independent women wants to work post marriage if the good person do not want her wife to work then wife can not sacrifice her ambitions.

If a women wants man to be storng as she is very emotional and having one more emotional partner will not help in taking rational decisions for their life.

For Akshara's case. She herself is very emotional person. She would need some one who can hold her when she is emotional. But hospital scene showed that abhinav is strong when he is not affected but if he is affected he becomes weak and he does not even look at akshu.

Even court case drama showed abhinav was very insecure even after her insisting multiple times he still chose to gather money for his kid.

Which shows when he is emotional he does not think much. Due to which akshu has to become strong and started hiding her feelings and she hardly have any pov.

This is just my pov. Please don't quote or tag me if you want to counter it and argue over it. Ignore it if you feel it's wrong or incorrect. 🙏

I am no expert on love but I don’t think that you love someone because as a reward for what they’ve done for you. That is gratitude. So I do not understand the question of not being able to love someone like him! He should be loved because of his caring and selfless nature? Again that would be admiration and respect. That’s how I feel, you may have a different perspective.

One might not love someone for his qualities rather one loves another despite all their flaws and differences. There’s no easy way to explain this and how or whom we love is never in our control. You either do or you don’t.

I don’t know how the makers will show who helped her with the “khud se khud ka rishta” - they could make it either Abhinav or Abhir - all depends on which end game they choose.

The story and characterizations have zero continuity so it hardly matters - one or both the ships could sink later. We can only enjoy what we like as long as it lasts 😜

Originally posted by: Sana_a

I’ve been an on and off viewer of YRKKH from Naksh days. Haven’t really been into ITV in a long time. but recently when a video of AbhiN, Akshara, and Abhir popped up on my TikTok, it peaked my interest in the show again. I watched a few episodes further back to how Abhira separated and Abhinav entered the show. And now I’m caught up with the story and have been watching it daily.

After watching, my curious mind is not able to understand why Akshara hasn’t been able to fall in love or even develop any romantic feelings for Abhinav in six years? How is she still stuck in her past? Does this happen in real life? I know..I know that this is fiction and i shouldn’t question it but unfortunately I still am. I honestly fail to understand how has she not developed feelings for a guy like Abhinav? Am I missing something about Abhira’s love story?
I also come from a broken marriage and with a child, but am definitely not dwelling in the past. My ex and I co-parent and are happy in our lives. I’m single, But if I were to find a person as close to Abhinav I don’t think I’ll not develop any romantic feelings for him, that too while living with him as his legal wife for six long years!

Does this really happen? That you can still be in love with your ex while being married to someone like Abhinav? I just cannot connect with Akshara on this! I feel She is being very selfish and unfair to Abhinav.