Many parallels, answers and Ruhi insecurity track ends

Last few days, I thought they are showing Ruhi's behaviour is result of bad parenting but it wasn't the case, both kids behave in the same manner when they feel that their parents are ignoring them

Ruhi destroyed tent and Abhir started throwing things, the intensity is different.

Ruhi was insecure when she thought her father won't remain with her and so is Abhinav thinking about Abhir going away from him

It is not bad parenting but basic human nature, people feel insecure under these circumstances, people lash out when they are upset like Abhinav yelled at Abhir

Today, Abhimanyu handled Ruhi and Abhir, as opposed to everyone's suggestions that Ruhi will never come out of it, Abhimanyu explained importance of a sibling to Ruhi, he didn't have to choose anyone

Tomorrow, Akshara and Abhinav will make Abhir feel better

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

The difference was of intensity, Ruhi's insecurities were encouraged by Arohi and Akshara because both thought it was a way to keep Abhir away from Abhimanyu, it was a means to an end but Abhir's insecurities were curtailed at the right moment and none tried to make him go against his parents

Why are we bringing Akshara into it ? When Ruhi destroyed tent Akshara was nowhere in the picture .. just because she said Ruhi ki Jagan koi nahin legs she also be and responsible ? But Abhimanyu who over pampered her and gave unto every whim and fancy is not ?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

The difference was of intensity, Ruhi's insecurities were encouraged by Arohi and Akshara because both thought it was a way to keep Abhir away from Abhimanyu, it was a means to an end but Abhir's insecurities were curtailed at the right moment and none tried to make him go against his parents

Originally posted by: solembaum

Why are we bringing Akshara into it ? When Ruhi destroyed tent Akshara was nowhere in the picture .. just because she said Ruhi ki Jagan koi nahin legs she also be and responsible ? But Abhimanyu who over pampered her and gave unto every whim and fancy is not ?

She encouraged Ruhi's behaviour, she could have remained silent if she couldn't speak to Ruhi to not hit her son who was ill, instead of giving validation to her insecurities

I think the current rhetoric is that Ruhi is not brought up well and Abhi is a bad father cause Ruhi is spoilt. But honestly, they haven't shown a lot of scenes where Ruhi is "spoilt," except for her irrationally asking Poppy to marry Matashree, which seems like something fed to her by Manjari. Ruhi is definitely more mischievous, but she acts her age, and I don't see her throwing a lot of unreasonable tantrums. Whenever she does, Abhi consoles her and tries to explain things in a mature way so it gets resolved. Abhi's parenting style is very different from Akshnav's, but I don't think we can compare Ruhi and Abhir to figure out who is a better parent.