Is AbhiN turning selfish?

Writing this away from fandom war..

Going to talk about AbhiN today. His character is written as a selfless, benevolent from day 1. He helps anyone in needs..may it be AK when he met her or AbhiM later.. He is no different to either..

People are calling him saintly, perfect husband and father.. But is he perfect? Will anyone take AbhiN as husband in today's world?

The answer is 'very unlikely'. He is too good at heart to be materially successful. Most of the fights between AK and AbhiN are on this issue.... Even today, the issue that they are facing in Abhir's case is due to his selflessness. Another flaw in AbhiN's character is, he has tendancy to be stagnant.. Once a driver, always a driver kind of mentality as I see it.. He can work hard but not smart..That is why AK rightly told him, 'हुनर सिखा जा सकता है.. Degree ली जा सकती है..'

For the first time, I saw him turning selfish that too compared to his old self. He was in dilemma first if he should take money from Birlas. But, unlike before, he has something of his own that he needs to protect now than showing generosity to the world. He waited and did take the money... He returned 500 rs... But that is another story..

If one wants to serve the society, he/ she can become a social worke, not a husband/ father. For me, I always wanted character of AbhiN to turn a little selfish and learn to work smart if he wants to have a family...

Now that he no longer has the job, I wonder what he’s going to do. It’ll be interesting. I don’t see a problem taking loan from the Goenkas to start a business and return back the money. I mean people take loans from banks but since he can’t in this condition why can’t he take it and give it back? That would make him more realistic as well.

I m glad writer seriously taking this ckt. Pahle I was confirmed about that this custody battle will make Akshnav one step closer to eachother means it would be turning point for their relationship I had no idea that track could be use for the ckt development. Last week was all about Abhira Tashan but this week is all about improvement in every ckt. I am glad he is more assertive now & not going to loose his family at any cost. This rough & tough time will develop his ckt to the core. First he was ready to let it go now he want to hold everything which he had earned. I believe he will be able to gave back to every criticism.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Now that he no longer has the job, I wonder what he’s going to do. It’ll be interesting. I don’t see a problem taking loan from the Goenkas to start a business and return back the money. I mean people take loans from banks but since he can’t in this condition why can’t he take it and give it back? That would make him more realistic as well.

Yes, I wanted him to do that. Did he loose the job? The person said, 'आगे भी पैसे काटता रहुंगा...' Will get to know tomorrow..

I don't know why he returned that 500 rupees. I did not like that scene. I too feel there is no problem in taking money as loan but I also appreciate his honesty to work hard and try on his own first.

I liked how Akshara handled Abhir smartly but also feel bad on Abhinav. He is just taking it too much on himself which made him lose focus while driving. This might also go against him in custody battle.

No idea about today's episode but I feel abhinav is being overanalyzed for no reason ...people have their own perceptions of "this is acha" and "this is not acha" , and they are measuring abhinav with this yardstick ...disecting a simple charac with microscope 😆Trying to look for one fault in him..if they can't find any fault its his achai that's his fault 🤷 when he falls from grace , everyone will say "I told you say he was never acha admi" ..no..life is never constant it keeps changing from moment to moment , so do people..thy change with their circumstances and experiences but some change for good and some , for worse..

I think he's very normal and we must give him some leverage also , as we go to some crazy lengths lengths abhira..

Originally posted by: Krinya

No idea about today's episode but I feel abhinav is being overanalyzed for no reason ...people have their own perceptions of "this is acha" and "this is not acha" , and they are measuring abhinav with this yardstick ...disecting a simple charac with microscope 😆Trying to look for one fault in him..if they can't find any fault its his achai that's his fault 🤷 when he falls from grace , everyone will say "I told you say he was never acha admi" ..no..life is never constant it keeps changing from moment to moment , so do people..thy change with their circumstances and experiences but some change for good and some , for worse..

I think he's very normal and we must give him some leverage also , as we go to some crazy lengths lengths abhira..

I feel happy when you even read my post..

I agree.. He is not saint or something.. Just a good hearted person..

From my POV, I want his character growth with him becoming little more smart at working rather than hard working given the situation...

And I know I should not overanalyze.. Makers bhi itana sochate nahi honge.. 😛

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

I don't know why he returned that 500 rupees.

I read on 🐦 that he returned the note because of what Abhimanyu said regarding Abhir while giving it but the lucky coin was something Abhinav had himself asked for Abhir, so he did not return it.

Originally posted by: xavierm78600

I have had it with this crap - YRKKH.

They are over glorying Abhinav Sharma AKA Jay Soni. Thanks to this one Script writer - "Zama Habib" who wrote Sansural Genda Phool.

Today's episode they are showing Abhinav with those dialogues that poor guy has lots of will. They are showing Abhinav as very helpless so Audience can feel sorry for him, that he is not able to afford for his Son's rights.

In addition, Another step the writers took to portray Abhimanyu as negative because he is able to buy shoes for his son and that Abhinav is struggling. In fact their is more screen space given now to Abhinav and Akshara and Abhinav family.

I recently saw Pranali Rathod put a flashback video of her and Abhimanyu wedding.. Its interesting she did not add Jay Soni on Instagram and the so called writer "Zama Habib"

I just have a bad feeling Harshad might finally call it quits if this is the way the serial is going. We get it that the actors and actresses need money but the show writing is terrible.

Yes audience will feel sorry for Abhinav but it would not put someone else in bad light. I am not seeing Abhimanyu as a bad person. I am seeing him as a flawed person who just need to learn. Today he says sharma ji aap thode bure ho jaiye ladna asan ho jayega that means ki he is not bad person he can't hurt a person intentionally. Today he also put some efforts for Ruhi that's what called growth. Aur Abhimanyu ko villain bante hue koi dekhna chahata bhi nahi hai.

If u watch a show for the lead & believe ki the story belong to them only then u can't enjoy the journey.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

Yes audience will feel sorry for Abhinav but it would not put someone else in bad light. I am not seeing Abhimanyu as a bad person. I am seeing him as a flawed person who just need to learn. Today he says sharma ji aap thode bure ho jaiye ladna asan ho jayega that means ki he is not bad person he can't hurt a person intentionally. Today he also put some efforts for Ruhi that's what called growth. Aur Abhimanyu ko villain bante hue koi dekhna chahata bhi nahi hai.

If u watch a show for the lead & believe ki the story belong to them only then u can't enjoy the journey.

Wow! Best comment... ❤️

Yes, if you watch the show for the story, you wish that every character should grow. I am saying again and again that AbhiM is not monster.. He still has his conscience alive.. And hence has chance to redeem himself. I nowhere see AbhiN as a perfect person either. As per me, he needs to come out of his ' Mei ek chhota driver hun.. 'Mentality, become alittle world smart and the last thing I want for him to feel pitied.. May he end up with AK or not, I want him rise like a phoenix from ashes.. The AbhiN who fought against all odds to save Abhir and AK.