Glorification of Abhinav - Page 2

Maybe it's the fan in me talking nd maybe I'm biased i wanted a closer bond between abhir nd AK...even I feel that some moments belonged to AK as the mom...aside from that I'm kinda bored of the things Nav being praised about getting repetitive but so is everything else in the show repetitive so won't say much on that...i genuinely would relate to the character more if they had spend some time sketching him his quirks, his background ...why is he the way he's ... he's simply a good man...i wish there was more to this character

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Glorification of AA: Naav 🐷 backed ak during storm 🌙 providing ❤️ warmth to a neonate(mom's only does that) they replaced every possible nice things of a mom and biological dad to one stranger and made him the best papa, it's ridiculous IMO.

I couldn't even let my DH hold my daughter first despite myself having severe blood loss then, because I had her after a miscarriage and I know the longing to hold my child after going through such a trauma. We never got to see AK embracing her child that way to overvome her trauma. It's always ak not getting tired of praising AA. Marriage should be between equals. Ak is always indebted to AA for all his favors, then what kind of a marriage is theirs.

Abhi isn't toxic, he's self centered and human ie with his own imperfections. Ak is not perfect either, but AA is glorified with no flaws at all. What kind of a utopic world are the makers hinting at.

Realistically speaking, relationships survive because of desire to exist and survive in them.

My mom once told me, arguments happening between a couple is a good thing because there's a struggle for something, and with resolve, that can be changed into something good. Real trouble is only when there's nothing, and Akshnav looks that couple for me they have nothing going between them except wah-wahs.

IMO, people in relationships aren't variables they are the constants, and the way Ak left her husband just because he deserted her makes them both not deserving love and harmony together.

Remember, eye for an eye leaves the entire world totally blind.

Only sensible and strong people can endure pain and survive the pressures of relationships.

Probably reason why our grandparents had excellent marriages because they never thought themselves greater than their relationships and never hesitated to sacrifice or give up on something dear to them for the relarionship and all this used to happen without deliberations or discussions.

What!?

Okay

I'm not gonna waste my & your time debating this bcos clearly we've very different views on how relationships should be & what attributes are required to sustain it.

I would just like to say that tho I don't agree with anything in the post, this disagreement doesn't come with any judgement bcos we're different people with different perspectives.

I mostly agree to the first half of this till u say that marriage should be between equals nd AK is indebted to Nav....i thing my opinion would differ from the next para on....i don't blame AK for leaving... it's not right to divorce ur wife like that...what u said about arguments existing between people when there's something between them is true but then resolution of those arguments nd coming to mutual understanding is also important....piling up arguments leads people nowhere... it's a good thing to want to make a relationship work....but then there should be someplace where u draw the line...i mostly think our grandparents had less divorces due to stigma associated with it

My respect to you for conveying your disagreement in a respectful way. Sadly I had some unpleasant people arguing with me disrespectfully for having a different POV from them. Such behaviour can close the channel for dialogue and room for discussion.

Similarly current yrkkh relationship dynamics is problematic.

We do not live on a flat, monochromatic earth. Respecting disagreements is a good thing, unfortunately that's shown nowhere in yrkkh.

Hiding big truth like paternity and then making some random stranger a father that too getting into a marital relationship where indebtedness is the only connect is ridiculous on many levels. because I hate to live in debt.

I don't support abhi deserting ak when she had a miscarriage either.

Again like I said eye for eye makes the whole world blind.

Donon galati karein tho baat karke suljha sakthe hai, lekin kisike achayi ka faide mein ehsaan thale rehna, self-respect naam ki koi cheez hothi hai.

Originally posted by: verve

What!?

Okay

I'm not gonna waste my & your time debating this bcos clearly we've very different views on how relationships should be & what attributes are required to sustain it.

I would just like to say that tho I don't agree with anything in the post, this disagreement doesn't come with any judgement bcos we're different people with different perspectives.

Originally posted by: Vismaya03

In Zee tv kundali bhagya they overnight changed the fun-loving male lead into a toxic double standard character who change fiancees in year...But still the heroine after getting insulted repeated,again came to his life...All bhagya series is like this...Most shows in Itv is running like this ...And somewhere audience were being manipulated to believe in that lead is the endgame whatever will happen.... Because of leads chemistry,makers will continue to glorify toxic relationship...

And that's exactly I don't. ITV needs to show progress. Just to unite leads accept toxic love. After long time in some serial I saw some progressive thinking. Otherwise every serial sucks.

What will happen if leads will get united here. 2 days of romance then fight and divorce again. Instead show something new. Otherwise from the beginning they should have kept that characters consistency like season 1.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

He has anger issues true. But he wasn't that bad jitna ab krte jaa rhe hain.

I really like Abhinav as a character. He should be cherished. He is more mature than all of them combined and have the sanskaars that these so called big family k bachon mein nahi hai hai.

What i mean is k at the end of the day lead is lead and whatever example we are presenting uske through hona chahiye. Jab eventually story lead k hai toh

That makes the story less interesting honestly unless your watching only for leads. Even in season 1 every character got their own graph.

Abhi bhi he has good and bad moments. Odd days he is angry, even days he regrets. If you see previous episodes in every episode he used to be angry and once he almost was about to slap his father.

And end of the day its producers call. We can write big essays defending or blaming character but all they need is TRPs and money. Even actors need money. So who knows what they are thinking.

In bold I don't support abhi for this, IMO, infact for all his wrong deeds he should be called SIR by abhir similar to how abhi used to address PB, abhi should redeem his wrong actions only by correcting his mistakes, but instead what AK did was galti pe galti.

Apni shaadi rachaana kisi aira gaire ke saath, unke ehsaan thale zindagi gujarna its shameless.

I'm talking about the happy and fruitful marriages they had back then, when having a hearty meal is the biggest festive gift, what made their marriages work is thinking less about self and more about the combined entity called relationship.

My question is why can't a relationship be repaired like a hole in the heart.

I think we should erase lines and barriers for communication, instead of drawing lines saying ⚠️ do not cross.

Originally posted by: DevilHere

I mostly agree to the first half of this till u say that marriage should be between equals nd AK is indebted to Nav....i thing my opinion would differ from the next para on....i don't blame AK for leaving... it's not right to divorce ur wife like that...what u said about arguments existing between people when there's something between them is true but then resolution of those arguments nd coming to mutual understanding is also important....piling up arguments leads people nowhere... it's a good thing to want to make a relationship work....but then there should be someplace where u draw the line...i mostly think our grandparents had less divorces due to stigma associated with it

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Glorification of AA: Naav 🐷 backed ak during storm 🌙 providing ❤️ warmth to a neonate(mom's only does that) they replaced every possible nice things of a mom and biological dad to one stranger and made him the best papa, it's ridiculous IMO.

I couldn't even let my DH hold my daughter first despite myself having severe blood loss then, because I had her after a miscarriage and I know the longing to hold my child after going through such a trauma. We never got to see AK embracing her child that way to overvome her trauma. It's always ak not getting tired of praising AA. Marriage should be between equals. Ak is always indebted to AA for all his favors, then what kind of a marriage is theirs.

Abhi isn't toxic, he's self centered and human ie with his own imperfections. Ak is not perfect either, but AA is glorified with no flaws at all. What kind of a utopic world are the makers hinting at.

Realistically speaking, relationships survive because of desire to exist and survive in them.

My mom once told me, arguments happening between a couple is a good thing because there's a struggle for something, and with resolve, that can be changed into something good. Real trouble is only when there's nothing, and Akshnav looks that couple for me they have nothing going between them except wah-wahs.

IMO, people in relationships aren't variables they are the constants, and the way Ak left her husband just because he deserted her makes them both not deserving love and harmony together.

Remember, eye for an eye leaves the entire world totally blind.

Only sensible and strong people can endure pain and survive the pressures of relationships.

Probably reason why our grandparents had excellent marriages because they never thought themselves greater than their relationships and never hesitated to sacrifice or give up on something dear to them for the relarionship and all this used to happen without deliberations or discussions.

Thanks for the tag Rajiji but whatever I wanted to say couple of users here said it.

@verve and @devilhere.

My response is same :)

Nisha dear🤗 I respect you and not having any problem with your disagreement.

IMHO, for TRPs, S3 was made unnecessarily toxic, and abhira track could have been dealt in a better way.

I'd neither support what abhi has done back then and nor can I glorify what AK has done with Naav. Because she's taken undue advantage of Naav yearning for family and making AA a father overnight is a ridiculous idea.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Thanks for the tag Rajiji but whatever I wanted to say couple of users here said it.

@verve and @devilhere.

My response is same :)

Originally posted by: chaipaani

He has anger issues true. But he wasn't that bad jitna ab krte jaa rhe hain.

I really like Abhinav as a character. He should be cherished. He is more mature than all of them combined and have the sanskaars that these so called big family k bachon mein nahi hai hai.

What i mean is k at the end of the day lead is lead and whatever example we are presenting uske through hona chahiye. Jab eventually story lead k hai toh

Any Serial/show is not just about leads. It is about the story and journey of characters. If lead have same characters like abhinav then he would be praised like gentle man, hero and what not.Since it is abhinav , it is glorification