Gaslighting- thy name is AbhiM- Epi 920

Abhir is just a copy of AK and Ruhi of AR. The little kid went all the way to pacify Ruhi and Ruhi turned him away. However, I was happy that he did not go to meet docman. I feel the AbhiM and Abhir bond so forced sometimes. Yes, Abhir went to meet Docman in the hospital as he was returning the favor he had done for his papa. That sounded logical but anything more than that sounds OTT.

Yesterday, I was happy about sensible talk from AbhiM but as I had mentioned AbhiM has a odd/ even formula on logic. Today, the impulsive, obsessive AbhiM was back. Just yesterday, he was talking about Akshu not moving on and future of their relationship, today AK became Mrs.Sharma.' Why you did not text me?'..like what? He definitely has god complex. What does he expect? AK to be his slave or subordinate? He will kick her any number of time and she should still come begging to him to hear her out.

Gaslighters are very smart. Their talk sounds logical but the aim is to make the opposite person feel guilty. We should not consider AK efforts alone for reconciliation at that time. Multiple people including BP, Bhabhi, AbhiN made efforts to reach out to him and try reconciliation with AK. All the requests fell on deaf ears. Now, he is gaslighting AK.

AbhiM gives hints of narcicistic traits. I, me, mine is all that matters. They have charismatic personality so people fall for it. They are smart and talk superlogic hence people may find them to be supercool ( just like AbhiN) untill you enter a very close relationship with them where the psychological manipulation starts. People of narcicistic abuse sometimes takes years to find themselves back as they develop many complexes in the company of narcicistic person. In itv it can happen, but in reality narcicistic people rarely change. Kairav knows this reality hence tries to save his sisters. His ways may be wrong but he is only person who does not get carried away with AbhiM's civil behavior on even days. Even AK is still completely not out of his influence. AK still can fall for his even days only to be tortured when his odd days are back.

AK, it is fine in the future you don't stay with AbhiN. But do not stay with AbhiM.

I totally love how u write everything so well. I just wrote the same points in other thread. Kairav is the only sensible person who knows AbM inside out so well. He is trying to self victimise again blaming Ak talking about texting and calling Rohan? Seriously? He wants Ak to call Rohan and say exactly what ?that she is still pregnant with one child and trying to call her mahan pathi who said he doesn’t have anything to do with her or bacha but still she wants to beg him to come see her ?? Why should she text him when he said he doesn’t bother abt her or bacha and will take care of his family? Dude r u for real Mr me myself Birla . He was not celebrating Diwali but celebrating mumma’s birthday.

Even today when Ak pleading him to listen to her and trying to make him understand that it was just a misunderstanding we can sit and talk and settle the things he is not even listening to her. You rightly said Gaslighting -AbM

My thoughts :)

Abhir going away on his own again and again is problematic. Inform Mimi or BM atleast.

Kairav overstepped his authority. It was Akshara and Abhinav's decision to take legal course of action or not. Kairav forgot that Abhir is still having a very serious health condition. All this will affect him negatively since the Birlas are almost sure to counter whatever Kairav did legally. Kairav should trust Akshara as she has lived with the Birlas and knows the best step forward with them.

I am still surprised that Abhimanyu choose not to listen inspite of facing the consequences for that for 6 years. Is Akshara supposed to reach out to him through messaging or BP this time around too? How does he see himself in a relationship when he is unwilling to listen when he gets angry?

Some of the dialogues AbhiRa got seemed straight out of 🐦.

From precap, it appears that all the fight will be created by Kairav and Manjiri with Akshara and Abhimanyu misunderstanding each other.

Yaar I am missing abhinav. He is equally important in this fight. It’s boring now, it’s the same clash of egos and MUs

Gaslighting is the very right word. I too used same thing for my short comment and noticed you did here too :).. Abhimanyu gets gaslighted by his mom and behaves exactly as she want. But I must agree he did ask some valid questions on messaging and saying even he was not at very good phase too. But he still didn't listen.

Other than that thoughts everything else your review is nicely written. Agree on all points.

Originally posted by: focus7

Yaar I am missing abhinav. He is equally important in this fight. It’s boring now, it’s the same clash of egos and MUs

I feel, he is getting better ss this week compared to previous 2 weeks but the day he doesn't get good scenes, it's like the positivity is missing. All toxic drama only with no balance.

@ bold - So true! I am somehow feeling that when the MUs clear, it will be AbhiRa reunion. Call me pessimistic but my view has changed again. So maybe it is better to start cutting off from this show little by little. 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Snowfally

I feel, he is getting better ss this week compared to previous 2 weeks but the day he doesn't get good scenes, it's like the positivity is missing. All toxic drama only with no balance.

@ bold - So true! I am somehow feeling that when the MUs clear, it will be AbhiRa reunion. Call me pessimistic but my view has changed again. So maybe it is better to start cutting off from this show little by little. 🤷‍♀️

It’s abhira reunion for sure. In all this abhinav also has a say in how things proceed. Someone to talk from abhir POV.
There are no MUs, everything is already laid open. Aksharas heart will melt once abhiM gives up on custody. After which she will start being more open to letting abhir meet AbhiM. That’s where we have to see how nav fares.

In kasuali he was independent and in Udaipur he is dependednt, somewhere someone will point this out . We should see how they handle the char abhinav then.
he looks so helpless in precap.

Originally posted by: focus7

Yaar I am missing abhinav. He is equally important in this fight. It’s boring now, it’s the same clash of egos and MUs

YAAAY!!! Abhira milan time!!

Ak did not send the notice... it was Kairav

AbhiM misunderstands

AbhiM probably did not bring the financial situation of AbhiN. It was his mother

Ak misunderstands.

Both of them were never the reason for the custody battle.. It is easy to blame others on it. It is lazy plot device but convenient for Abhira. Making no one at fault...

They will clear the misunderstandings

They will regret everything. They will realize their mistakes

And then the love will come back

AbhiN the 'doodh mei pada hua makhkhi' will be discarded.

But come on!! we were so ready for it.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Gaslighting is the very right word. I too used same thing for my short comment and noticed you did here too :).. Abhimanyu gets gaslighted by his mom and behaves exactly as she want. But I must agree he did ask some valid questions on messaging and saying even he was not at very good phase too. But he still didn't listen.

Other than that thoughts everything else your review is nicely written. Agree on all points.

Originally posted by: umawanderer

YAAAY!!! Abhira milan time!!

Ak did not send the notice... it was Kairav

AbhiM misunderstands

AbhiM probably did not bring the financial situation of AbhiN. It was his mother

Ak misunderstands.

Both of them were never the reason for the custody battle.. It is easy to blame others on it. It is lazy plot device but convenient for Abhira. Making no one at fault...

They will clear the misunderstandings

They will regret everything. They will realize their mistakes

And then the love will come back

AbhiN the 'doodh mei pada hua makhkhi' will be discarded.

But come on!! we were so ready for it.

Dr Rohan will give character certificate for how broken abhiM was without Akshara. He wasn’t even one percent happy. Then the drama shifts to the OG triangle , Ruhi and abhir drama in between.