AKSHU IS SO SELFISH !

She is a female lead why are they making her into a vamp! It’s getting on my nerves like what the hell! She can’t say this to Abhimanyu when she didn’t even tell him the truth and snatched his father rights and gave it to some stranger she met on a bus!!! She is literally so selfish right now!!! I loved her character and related with it but I am sorry this too much and don’t even start about white day and her trying to contact Abhimanyu! Let’s be honest if we really want to tell someone something we do more then just calling and if Akshara white day is affected and if she is going to use that as a reason to do revengeful towards Abhimanyu then imagine Abhimanyu did the same and abused Akshara like he saw his dad doing to mum!! No just because Akshara is a women doesn’t mean she can get away with anything! There is something called as gender equality!!!

hone mein seedhe bath karne ki bakair bla bla karke abhi ko temper kiya dhaa.isliye usne aisa kaha.abhi kii hakf bath sunke hi akshu ne imagine karliya ki he doesn't want her and her baby.akshu ki sufferings ke bare mein math hi bathavoo .tho behthar hoga ye sufferings usne khud choose kiya hai.goenka housne na jaake ek stranger ke sath rahkar ye sab suffer karne ki kyaa zaroorath dhi.akshu ko ye bath surf phone se nahim koi aur tharike se bhi abhi thak pahuncha saaktha dhaa.usne thoo apne family se bhi chupaya .kyum????akshu ki vajah se hi abhir ki aaj ye halath hai.akshu ziddhi number one hai.zidh ke karan hi usne abhi se ye sach chupaya

Originally posted by: Starwatcher01

She is a female lead why are they making her into a vamp! It’s getting on my nerves like what the hell! She can’t say this to Abhimanyu when she didn’t even tell him the truth and snatched his father rights and gave it to some stranger she met on a bus!!! She is literally so selfish right now!!! I loved her character and related with it but I am sorry this too much and don’t even start about white day and her trying to contact Abhimanyu! Let’s be honest if we really want to tell someone something we do more then just calling and if Akshara white day is affected and if she is going to use that as a reason to do revengeful towards Abhimanyu then imagine Abhimanyu did the same and abused Akshara like he saw his dad doing to mum!! No just because Akshara is a women doesn’t mean she can get away with anything! There is something called as gender equality!!!

hone mein seedhe bath karne ki bakair bla bla karke abhi ko temper kiya dhaa.isliye usne aisa kaha.abhi kii hakf bath sunke hi akshu ne imagine karliya ki he doesn't want her and her baby.akshu ki sufferings ke bare mein math hi bathavoo .tho behthar hoga ye sufferings usne khud choose kiya hai.goenka housne na jaake ek stranger ke sath rahkar ye sab suffer karne ki kyaa zaroorath dhi.akshu ko ye bath surf phone se nahim koi aur tharike se bhi abhi thak pahuncha saaktha dhaa.usne thoo apne family se bhi chupaya .kyum????akshu ki vajah se hi abhir ki aaj ye halath hai.akshu ziddhi number one hai.zidh ke karan hi usne abhi se ye sach chupaya

Some people will connect with Abhi and some with Akshu. To me honestly, both have hurt each other. I felt bad for Akshu on white day and post leap. I'm feeling bad for Abhi now.

@bold If we put ourselves in Akshara's place will we try calling them again?

PS: I'm not doing Abhi vs Akshu or taking anyone's side... just trying to understand both pov and what makers are trying to show.

Originally posted by: jyoshna_1989

As someone mentioned earlier in one of the threads, the story is about both ML and FL are wrong and they don't know what they are doing.

Some people will connect with Abhi and some with Akshu. To me honestly, both have hurt each other. I felt bad for Akshu on white day and post leap. I'm feeling bad for Abhi now.

@bold If we put ourselves in Akshara's place will we try calling them again?

PS: I'm not doing Abhi vs Akshu or taking anyone's side... just trying to understand both pov and what makers are trying to show.

I agree that Abhi was wrong to tell her to leave.

But phone call and Abhir wise, I don't blame Abhi simply because Akshara knew the state of Abhi - he had just lost his twins and his brother supposedly due to Aksharas negligence and his mother was getting hyper. Amidst all this chaos, I do not think a phone call was enough and Abhi did phone her back which people seem to forget. However, Nav picked up and instead of cutting to the chase, he went around in circles. Nobody wants to talk about dead babies and especially with a random person answering your ex's phone.

This situation would not occur in real life because people would honestly send a text message or pass information via third party like a family member. It's not Abhi hated the twins or was gonna murder them that I'd hide such information. The phone call was simply not enough when you weight it agaisnt the message.

But gotta say that this is karma for Abhi. I like him now but if your telling your wife to leave despite knowing about miscarriage then that is bad. So Akshara isn't right but neither was Abhi (in that scenario).

Everyone in this gen is selfish so why only Akshara is getting blamed for being selfish...She has seen throughout her life how her kindness was misused by Aarohi n she was blamed for a crime she never did ( Sirat's murder ).Whole birla house is full of criminals and abusers and are selfish to the core yet they get free pass but only Akshara is blamed.When everyone is selfish about themselves so why can't Akshara behave selfish and only think about herself n Abhir.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

I agree that Abhi was wrong to tell her to leave.

But phone call and Abhir wise, I don't blame Abhi simply because Akshara knew the state of Abhi - he had just lost his twins and his brother supposedly due to Aksharas negligence and his mother was getting hyper. Amidst all this chaos, I do not think a phone call was enough and Abhi did phone her back which people seem to forget. However, Nav picked up and instead of cutting to the chase, he went around in circles. Nobody wants to talk about dead babies and especially with a random person answering your ex's phone.

This situation would not occur in real life because people would honestly send a text message or pass information via third party like a family member. It's not Abhi hated the twins or was gonna murder them that I'd hide such information. The phone call was simply not enough when you weight it agaisnt the message.

But gotta say that this is karma for Abhi. I like him now but if your telling your wife to leave despite knowing about miscarriage then that is bad. So Akshara isn't right but neither was Abhi (in that scenario).

@bold There is difference between not informing and hiding. I definitely do not support her hiding the truth.

I hate Abhimanyu's role. But I hate how Akshara is going as well. Her hiding the truth can be exceptionally traumatic on her son when he finds it out.

Pehle we had major problem with her being selfless(apparently Neil died and one of her babies too coz she wasn't "selfish" ) . Now we have a problem when she is selfish. Decide.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Pehle we had major problem with her being selfless(apparently Neil died and one of her babies too coz she wasn't "selfish" ) . Now we have a problem when she is selfish. Decide.

She should selfless with Abhi only baki duniya Jaye bhaad main. She should not save those girls, should save a little child, must call again & again jub tak wo poori baat soon nahi leta.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

She should selfless with Abhi only baki duniya Jaye bhaad main. She should not save those girls, should save a little child, must call again & again jub tak wo poori baat soon nahi leta.

That's what Abhimanyu expected from her. That she should he loving caring and selfless only for him and his mummy, baaki duniya bhaad mei Jaye. It doesn't work that way. Before blaming akshu apni mummy ke kaand ek baar yaad kar le toh acha hoga.

His own mother.never let Neil know his paternity truth infact let him think that he was an orphan indebted to the Birla family ..the family including his father , except mummy and bachu , treated him like a servant . Mata never told anyone not even bachu.

It's not always about the "rights" of a father , if he doesn't put abhir first he is a useless father.

I love selfish akshu .

From my understanding, Ak never called for her child, she called hoping that Abhi would accept her back. She wanted him to hear about their child, forget everything and run back to her. Which, btw, he would have done had he listened. Second thing, she can't let him know she is pregnant through other means, cause for her, it was important for him to accept her back, not just her child. She also didn't want him only to accept her back because she is pregnant. It's complex, but at that point, she had hope that either he will come to check up on her or something during those seven months. When he didn't, she lost that hope and moved on with her life. She never wanted to be stuck to Abhi because of Abhir. She wanted their relationship to stand on its own, which it didn't, so it doesn't matter.

Is she being selfish? Yes. But it doesn't matter cause Abhi doesn't care about her anymore/ never cared/ never loved her ( in her mind). This whole thing has never been about Abhir for her. She feels like she is a good mother cause despite everything, she got Abhir a good father and raised him well. Nav, in a way, is her salvation in all of this.