Abhir's health

Anyone else surprised how much downplaying of Abhir's health is going on? Like even if he is 'pretending' as he claims sometimes like it's so evident he's getting tired so quickly. Maybe I'm overthinking it as the omniscient viewer but I was hoping that Akshu would have been more cautious with her son's health. She just seems like she's not really noticing. Abhinav looks truly scared, like he's the only one noticing all the right signs and thinks he might be lying that he's okay. Then Akshu is telling him it's okay to delay care. I always ask myself how I would feel wasting time/effort going to the hospital to find out that nothing is wrong vs. how I would feel if I thought it might be serious and didn't get it checked quick enough. Especially with kids, the situation can change so quickly for the worse and they are so far from any real hospitals. She told Abhinav that there is nothing to worry about if he gets sick bc they both will be going with him but I don't understand how that matters if they can't get to a hospital in time, right? I mean they made a big deal of the labor story and how far Akshu had to be carried on Abhinav's back to make it there on time.

Okay sorry rant is over now....

Originally posted by: Fatima_Khan

Anyone else surprised how much downplaying of Abhir's health is going on? Like even if he is 'pretending' as he claims sometimes like it's so evident he's getting tired so quickly. Maybe I'm overthinking it as the omniscient viewer but I was hoping that Akshu would have been more cautious with her son's health. She just seems like she's not really noticing. Abhinav looks truly scared, like he's the only one noticing all the right signs and thinks he might be lying that he's okay. Then Akshu is telling him it's okay to delay care. I always ask myself how I would feel wasting time/effort going to the hospital to find out that nothing is wrong vs. how I would feel if I thought it might be serious and didn't get it checked quick enough. Especially with kids, the situation can change so quickly for the worse and they are so far from any real hospitals. She told Abhinav that there is nothing to worry about if he gets sick bc they both will be going with him but I don't understand how that matters if they can't get to a hospital in time, right? I mean they made a big deal of the labor story and how far Akshu had to be carried on Abhinav's back to make it there on time.

Okay sorry rant is over now....

Nothing makes sense with akshu! It's either rubbish writing or they wanted to give more dialogue to the new guy! Or maybe there is something major behind akshus aloofness which might get revealed later!

Truth be told without a pov anyone can make any theories regarding akshus character!

Most likely is just rubbish writing!

Originally posted by: Fatima_Khan

Anyone else surprised how much downplaying of Abhir's health is going on? Like even if he is 'pretending' as he claims sometimes like it's so evident he's getting tired so quickly. Maybe I'm overthinking it as the omniscient viewer but I was hoping that Akshu would have been more cautious with her son's health. She just seems like she's not really noticing. Abhinav looks truly scared, like he's the only one noticing all the right signs and thinks he might be lying that he's okay. Then Akshu is telling him it's okay to delay care. I always ask myself how I would feel wasting time/effort going to the hospital to find out that nothing is wrong vs. how I would feel if I thought it might be serious and didn't get it checked quick enough. Especially with kids, the situation can change so quickly for the worse and they are so far from any real hospitals. She told Abhinav that there is nothing to worry about if he gets sick bc they both will be going with him but I don't understand how that matters if they can't get to a hospital in time, right? I mean they made a big deal of the labor story and how far Akshu had to be carried on Abhinav's back to make it there on time.

Okay sorry rant is over now....

Originally posted by: Fatima_Khan

Anyone else surprised how much downplaying of Abhir's health is going on? Like even if he is 'pretending' as he claims sometimes like it's so evident he's getting tired so quickly. Maybe I'm overthinking it as the omniscient viewer but I was hoping that Akshu would have been more cautious with her son's health. She just seems like she's not really noticing. Abhinav looks truly scared, like he's the only one noticing all the right signs and thinks he might be lying that he's okay. Then Akshu is telling him it's okay to delay care. I always ask myself how I would feel wasting time/effort going to the hospital to find out that nothing is wrong vs. how I would feel if I thought it might be serious and didn't get it checked quick enough. Especially with kids, the situation can change so quickly for the worse and they are so far from any real hospitals. She told Abhinav that there is nothing to worry about if he gets sick bc they both will be going with him but I don't understand how that matters if they can't get to a hospital in time, right? I mean they made a big deal of the labor story and how far Akshu had to be carried on Abhinav's back to make it there on time.

Okay sorry rant is over now....

Overnight she became sad soul. Then she lost interest in her music and now the person who used care for child shown careless.

I feel this carelessness may cost her this time. As abhinav may blame her.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

they have butchered lot of characters for this leap. We believe it or not akshu is impacted more than anyone.

Overnight she became sad soul. Then she lost interest in her music and now the person who used care for child shown careless.

I feel this carelessness may cost her this time. As abhinav may blame her.

I also think that may be where this heads a little bit but I don't think Abhinav will get too mad at her. It's not in his personality. I dunno though, when it comes to Abhir he does seem to go overboard sometimes so I guess we will find out soon.

Let's be realistic. A parent always panics for their child's health.

90% of the parents, people in general , avoid taking medical help till they get some serious signs..also they totally rely on what the child is saying ...a toddler who can't speak, his body show the signs .... Akshu or abhinav are not antaryami to know there is something wrong with abhirs heart..it cud also be fever or simple tiredness due to excess physical activity, something wrong he's been eating , so on and so forth .

A parent can never be careless when it comes to child's health . Stop the blame games for miscarriages and ill health

Originally posted by: Krinya

Let's be realistic. A parent always panics for their child's health.

90% of the parents, people in general , avoid taking medical help till they get some serious signs..also they totally rely on what the child is saying ...a toddler who can't speak, his body show the signs .... Akshu or abhinav are not antaryami to know there is something wrong with abhirs heart..it cud also be fever or simple tiredness due to excess physical activity, someone wrong he's been eating , so on and so forth .

A parent can never be careless when it comes to child's health . Stop the blame games for miscarriages and ill health

Exactly. I don’t remember going to the doctors at all. My mom would give us medicine and we’d be fine in a few days so I’m not sure why it’s not normal for other people. I don’t think she ever thought we’d have a life threatening disease over some illness.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Let's be realistic. A parent always panics for their child's health.

90% of the parents, people in general , avoid taking medical help till they get some serious signs..also they totally rely on what the child is saying ...a toddler who can't speak, his body show the signs .... Akshu or abhinav are not antaryami to know there is something wrong with abhirs heart..it cud also be fever or simple tiredness due to excess physical activity, something wrong he's been eating , so on and so forth .

A parent can never be careless when it comes to child's health . Stop the blame games for miscarriages and ill health

Very well said ❤️. Miscarriage is biggest pain a woman goes through and that can be in any weeks. And childs ill health is also no parents wants to ignore. So blame game should not come here. I think both parents pain was really felt in yesterday's episode. Sorry not both but all 3 parents , somehow they are showing biological parents pain also through soul connection. In today's age of IVF where we have egg donors, sperm donors, surrogates and adoption. If this was true, science would have never made progress and people will think twice before going on that route if they watch such stupidity.

Instead they could have shown Abhi and Roohis connection same way. Showing Abhir and Abhis connection without them knowing the truth is insult to all the adopted parents and IVF patients who is going on donor route.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Very well said ❤️. Miscarriage is biggest pain a woman goes through and that can be in any weeks. And childs ill health is also no parents wants to ignore. So blame game should not come here. I think both parents pain was really felt in yesterday's episode. Sorry not both but all 3 parents , somehow they are showing biological parents pain also through soul connection. In today's age of IVF where we have egg donors, sperm donors, surrogates and adoption. If this was true, science would have never made progress and people will think twice before going on that route if they watch such stupidity.

Instead they could have shown Abhi and Roohis connection same way. Showing Abhir and Abhis connection without them knowing the truth is insult to all the adopted parents and IVF patients who is going on donor route.

@bold.... The treatment of foster parents love and real parents love in fiction really depends on who is the main lead. Here it is clearly established that Abhimanyu is the main lead, hence the soul connection.... If Abinav was the lead then there would not have been any sort of connection...

Even though abhir fainted in Udaipur... The writers forgot to add the soul connection from AK and Ab as they didn't know the limits of soul connection..🤪

In real life, real and foster parents can be both loving or uncaring depending on the individual.

And there is no guarantee that real blood related children will love you back.... But being parents we can only love them unconditionally

As Robert Downey Jr once said... "Being a parent is the most thankless rewarding job"

Originally posted by: umawanderer

@bold.... The treatment of foster parents love and real parents love in fiction really depends on who is the main lead. Here it is clearly established that Abhimanyu is the main lead, hence the soul connection.... If Abinav was the lead then there would not have been any sort of connection...

Even though abhir fainted in Udaipur... The writers forgot to add the soul connection from AK and Ab as they didn't know the limits of soul connection..🤪

In real life, real and foster parents can be both loving or uncaring depending on the individual.

And there is no guarantee that real blood related children will love you back.... But being parents we can only love them unconditionally

As Robert Downey Jr once said... "Being a parent is the most thankless rewarding job"

💯 Ageee. Very well written.