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@Krinya

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Posted: 2 years ago

#51

Yes , I also believe that akshus sukhi Sansar is not fake.

She went through immense trauma ..the trajectory of her life changed in a minute ..she was away from her loved ones , struggling to find a footing ..she wouldn't jump into another relationship when things r still so messy behind her back. She never cried for abhimanyu, she cried because of abhimanyu ...she may have stopped singing but it may be bec it connected him to abhimamyu..

She may not love abhinav in a conventional way but she loves him a lot , in a way that she feels secure with him, she totally trusts him, she can depend on him and expect full understanding from him. Bas intimacy nai hai na ? Imo it's not that a big deal..if she actually moved on and intimacy thing also grows between them, the only way forward is that abhinav dies..due to any illness or accident ..

All I want from her is to grow indifferent to abhimanyu ..at least for sometime..n with or without abhinav , she rejects abhimanyu. Even if they coparent abhir.

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Verve

@verve

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 2 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: neenzz

Absolutely. I too am one such, not so independent, person. Though I did take a stand when I was oppressed, I could have never really lived all alone in Pakistan like my sister is doing in the US. Also, it may have been different if I had any kids, but I don't, so we would never know. I opted to get married again, but cousin and sister who were divorced and had kids haven't yet. My sister, although independent, is open to the idea of marriage if she finds the right guy for herself and her children. My cousin is not because she fears the next guy may never accept her children the same. She is kinda old-school that way, but that's due to the lack of exposure. She got married pretty young and was not really allowed to go out much for all those years (probably 11 or more) she stayed married.
Regardless, every girl is different and is entitled to her own decisions.

Sharing some things so personal requires courage ✊ Hope you always find happiness, peace n strength. Ppl do go thru v.tough situations irl & that's y these serials need to get more socially aware and conscious of what they depict n what msgs/values they convey thru their characters.

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Verve

@verve

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 2 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: Krinya
Very true..plus how can we negate the fact that she made sure abhir has a father figure in his life ?

We saw in s2 , naira raised kairav alone , away from kartik, but the child was always craving for a father ...

Akshu wasn't ready for love / wifey role after the trauma she experienced , and abhinav was understanding enuf to not demand any such thing , inspite of loving her . For him aksharas wish is Supreme.. he has been a great father to abhir ..her decision to trust a stranger over her family was abs correct ...

Also we got the reply why she hid abhirs paternity ..if she stayed in Udaipur, she will be pressured to accept abhimanyu, he would have hovered around her Luke a satellite , ulta Latko from all Udaipur tress and come under every bus , just so that akshu says yes to remarry him . If he can do it in this position where he knows akshu has a husband and family, what will he do if he knows she is single and has a son with him ? I said this earlier n repeat it , her decision to hide abhir is totally justified .

😂 Gosh this made me laugh so hard idk if I'll be able to articulate my thoughts well 😁 Missed this pt. Yep you're right. A child requires both parents. Being a single parent isn't something ppl wish to be. It's only done in extreme situations n then too it always affects d child no matter how much one tries to pamper him. Ak lost her parents at a v.young age herself. She knows d pain of living without d love n protection of parents She automatically didn't want this for her child. Plus it's not like she asked any sadak chalta raahgir to be d father. She stayed with Nav, realized he's a decent, good-hearted man, saw him save her n her son's life, witnessed d child's attachment to him n then asked him to take d responsibility. Defo it was risky, n irl any girl would've returned to her mayka. But this is a fantasy world with fantasy pariwar that won't stop socializing with her ex-husband n his family, that won't do a thing to defend her against their anger n blames. So what reason she'd to return to them! Plus MM n MM jnr. wouldn't let her breathe d moment they came to know of her pregnancy. Under no circumstance would she be able to stand up to them n ask to just be limited to being co-parenting. Impossible. The constant hovering, unresolved anger, recurring blame games would've just made things worse.

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Kiran

@neenzz

Dazzler

Posted: 2 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: Sanju_9

Sharing some things so personal requires courage ✊ Hope you always find happiness, peace n strength. Ppl do go thru v.tough situations irl & that's y these serials need to get more socially aware and conscious of what they depict n what msgs/values they convey thru their characters.

Thank you. Hope the same for you. I absolutely agree. They need to be more responsible with what and how they choose to depict. It okay to have toxic characters. It's just not okay to pass problematic behavior off as normal and something desirable. Desi shows actually glorify that behavior.

Edited by neenzz - 2 years ago

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Pr1yanka

@Pr1yanka

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 2 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: sunshining

Did you watch todays episode Priyanka. I havent yet. I believe it was a good episode with Abhi's breakdown. I am going to watch just those bits.
I am back being positive and I am stick to Abhira being the end game and Arohi and Abhinav helping them get back together. Silly I know, but it is one way of keeping yourself sane.

I did on ff mode…as usual…loved harshad’s scene…rest ff’ed

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Pr1yanka

@Pr1yanka

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 2 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: sunshining

I tried watchin PI Priyanka, found it a bit too serious for me. Yes it is shown in a realistic way and also how the FL stays upbeat even in hopeless situation. It is on SAB Tv.
I have started watching Katha too on weekends, finding it engaging, love the FL and her dialogues. Actress is so good, wish HC does a show with her. Up to episode 33.

oh cool…she is really good…isn’t she…they actually are friends in real life too…both her husband n she with hc

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Pr1yanka

@Pr1yanka

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 2 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Not sure which channel but I watch on YouTube.. They upload week old episodes on daily basis..It showed up while I was watching something and then I continued..I am not sure if you have watched Dahleez but that series also I watched recently..loved it.. Catch up if you can.. It's on Hulu..

oh dahleez I’ve watched…loved it…although it kind of became a drag towards the end…but loved harshad Arora and Trisha