Is only love enough for a relationship?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I think unfortunately it isn't enough.

A relationship needs work, compassion, honesty, and a lot more but most people are not patient enough. They want it now. We live in a world that's fast, got to buy now, now...now and it's all around fear too.

Love isn't some adventure where you get bored of life so you go off creating drama. You don't test love. You don't play games with it. You nurture it. You build on it. You make the other person feel amazing instead of shit.

The grass isn't greener on other side.

It's on the side where you nurture the most.


Romantic love is, after all, just emotions and chemistry. It is a very important part of a solid relationship, but it can’t be the only thing the relationship is based on. Love can be stupid. You don’t always fall in love with people who are actually good for you or compatible with you.


In case of Abhira there is ample love and there is only love in there relationship. They fell in love, married , parted , their 2nd chance and divorce all was super fast.

They have place for each other in their heart but non in their brain. It’s typical heart vs brain scenario. Already their relationship has had 3 heart attacks- Anisha death, Khera track and Neil death. Love failed at all 3 instances. Love failed every time whenever it was tested. Abhi’s brain could not understand Akshara’s heart and Akshara’s heart could not understand Abhi’s brain.

With Abhira , I feel love will always be ,but it won’t be enough . Better they part their ways.
It will be a good chance to show that this filmy love is not just what we are made to think it is- enough for happily ever after.

You need honesty, compatibility, communication, compassion , respect ,trust ,commitment, courage, calmness and lot more to sustain a relationship . Love is just one ingredient of a successful relationship and not the only ingredient.

Sorry for long post but waiting to know more views about it

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Love is not enough. Abhira did have everything else as well. When they were together, they really tried to understand one another, be there for one another etc. But as Ak said in the last episode, they were strong, but the storm was too big. And even if we consider that they only had love in their relationship. Thing is, love is an essential part of the relationship, and it can't be forced. You can have everything else and still lack love, and the relationship won't be satisfying. You can have nothing but love and you may still get a few happy moments. But the best is to have everything. I hope Abhira are on the journey to mutual respect, empathy and love.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Those who're married very well know how it works out and why it doesn't. N this story is not a love story it's more abt relationship issues..love Is just an excuse to bring them together after separations.



Romantic love is something which vanishes in thin air pretty quick, like , it's the first thing that vanishes between the couple as the honeymoon period is over. what stays is compassion , the need to be with each other , the need to see each other after a tiring day at work , the need to share lives , the need to raise children together , to face all odds together .



The idea and concept of love is totally distorted by media , love stories and books ..even though it's unrealistic, at least we're presented with something that's ideal for a couple ....... love comes with loads of expectations and equal number of disappointments ..if you're still able to hold the fort , marriage is a success...if you're weighed down by it , you start feeling suffocated very soon.



Like I said earlier , i don't mind akshara giving chances to abhimanyu ......it's not easy to give up on an emotional relationship which holds so much value.......all of this happening between abhira was ok if they were not divorced..in anger a person can do anything but not break ties completely with someone who he claims to love so much ...in anger , confusion or just to please someone , no sane person would take chances at marriage like abhimanyu does to arohi...in anger a person wouldn't care to not take a distress call frm someone in love....they would apologize at least , feel the regret at least , pine for them at least.. ..abhimanyu did nothing of this sort ..this guy doesn't qualify to be a good human being forget a husband and lover.


N pray tell.me what's akshara made of that she still cares for this moron? Nav said a good thing right , a lot of hatred comes with pain but she can't feel anything , she's still at his doorstep , looking for the first.opportunity to go bk🤢

It's simply the worst love story I've ever seen , the worst couple.

Edited by Krinya - 2 years ago

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