Reality check: Platonic relationship Vs Fake Marriage - Page 2

Originally posted by: daffodil153

Coming to Akshara, I have never hated her decisions so much! Not even when she decided to sacrifice her love for her sister coz it was atleast justified by the promise that haunted her all her life. But making Abhir call Abhinav father is a next low. Hiding from everyone can be justified. But all this fake life was a conscious decision to shut her past life off completely. If it were the old Akshara she would know that truth never hides.

What other option did she have ? Abhimanyu may be abirs father but abir is alive today bec of abhinav ..he was the one who raised abir ..he was trying to help her in the best way possible , saved her life and abirs...tried to give them a comfortable life.

Abir is just 5 yrs old , not big enuf to understand why his father dumped his mom and abandoned her on streets ..I hope when he knows the complete truth he disown abhimanyu so that there is someone to show abhimanyu the mirror..... Akshara couldn't have told abir that abhinav is not his father..he would wanna meet abhimanyu won't he ? When she decided to leave her past behind , no point in looking bk again and again and plead the same people who treated her like trash. If abir would wanna go bk to abhimanyu coz he is a rich famous doctor , it means akshu failed in bringing him up....A child may demand a lot of things, but love , care and respect can't be equated to money . Akshu can take money from manish also if money is the issue

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

So its been more than a week of us watching Abhimanyu coparenting Roohi with Aru. Why Abhi has to pick sole responsibility of the child when they live in a joint family is not open to discussion at this juncture. I understand Abhimanyu made a promise to Neil on his death bed. And Abhimanyu's seriousness and intensity in any job that he picks is commendable and scary. Intensity and aggressive has a thin line in between.

while Akshara is living with Abhinav in a nuclear setup alone away from family. Their family equation with their son is adorable. While Nav is a friendly fellow who pampers and is playful with Abhir. Akshara is the driving force in the family. She manages the schedule of Abhir, the house, runs a jam canning business and is studying for law.

But in all this we cannot ignore the intimacy of the household. To bring up a baby is like a well oiled car and cannot be done with just anyone. Respect, trust are the main ingredients and if those are available love cannot be far away.

sometimes love is followed by trust n respect which strengthens Love and intimacy. And if not then love disappears in thin air.

Sometimes, trust and respect arrive before love. And when this happens love appears in a much stronger form for a couple. Especially when it comes with a baby project. Trust, respect, Love and intimacy are the four wheels of a proper happy family.

AKshara living with Nav for 6years bringing up Abhir while sharing a house and room with him and still showing they have no intimacy is as unrealistic as it can get.

Abhir is shown to be an intelligent child and his mother separates the bed at night and he never knew all his life? ITV drama can get unrealistic and illogical but don't we know how much an elastic can be stretched?

I would have preferred they had shown Ak living a married life not faking for the child. At least something in the kid's life would be real.

Abhir got fake father, fake name, fake family only because Akshara went into a shock after Abhi divorced her and she did not want to face her family.

But I guess this is what the writer want to mess with both the protagonists Abhi and Akshu.

Once the fake news comes out everyone will once again blame Ak for the trauma to the kid, to Nav, Abhi and complete clan of Gorillas. Noone can defend the magnitude of lie she has spread in 6yrs.

Abhimanyu's behavior was terrible and blamed on uncontrolled emotions, but Akshara's actions look well thought out, deliberate and aimed to hurt not just Abhimanyu but all of Birlas, even Goenkas who are kept away from loving and bonding with Abhir. Its a plan to hide her child from everyone but also deprive him of the love and his true legacy.

Its a crime worse than what Aarohi has ever done. And Abhimanyu Birla's aggression, madness, intensity, abuse, outburst seems minuscule in front of Akshara's camouflaged dollhouse family life which is a criminal activity since a child is involved.

It's scares the hell out of me to think how they are going to redeem both. Or one of them will have an upper hand and will be given a chance to roast the other.

Any thoughts?

Please indulge me here and post your comments.

Thanks so much for this post👍🏻. Finally a balanced post i saw - more than 90% of posts are only and only Abhimanyu bashing. Just like you I totally agree that Abhimanyu was entirely wrong that day and up until she told on call that she’s married. He should have been sensible enough to hear her out. He kept anger for months which was wrong. It was a massive loss for him but he should’ve remembered Akshara is his family his wife! I see his total fault until she declared shes married.

But as u said - what Akshara did was completely well thought out and downright nasty and cruel. She was very much well aware that Abhimanyu doesn’t know of his babys existence. And fake pretend marriage and giving away rights of father to Abhinav? Dont even get me started on it. If Abhimanyu had 100 ways to deal with the situation of Neil’s and babies death and after that for few months where he held on to anger, there were 100 ways in which Akshara could have managed after baby’s birth. Go back to Goenkas. Raise the kid alone if she didn’t want to come back. Take Abhinav’s help as a friend. As far as I see - no one knows them in Kasauli. She could have easily answered anyone’s questions saying I’m divorced and there was no need to stay with Abhinav. It’s 21st century for gods sake. If at all she wanted to really marry and move on for real - that was different. Now here - she’s done injustice with Abhinav, Abhir as well as Abhimanyu. To be honest when i read some posts im shocked - how easily viewers forget all good deeds of Abhimanyu in 300 episodes for the 3 episodes where he totally screwed up (sick crappy writers who did that to his character 😡). The blasting and hate he gets is unreal.

Im not at all justifying his wrong deed but this so called glorifying of female lead even when she’s wrong just irks me to no end. Knowing Abhimanyu, she really thought he doesn’t deserve to be abhirs father? She forgot how much he has done for her the second they came to know about pregnancy? - she’s always taken him granted in my view.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

abhimanyu is not solely responsible for roohi. Arohi,and manjeri take care of her and other family members also help out..and she sleeps with her mom,Arohi..which is an important thing in a child’s life. And if abhimanyu was not involved in her upbringing roohi will still be fine..as she has a financially independent mom and her moms family would have also helped. And Arohi and abhimanyu are not in any relationship..they are just family members.. I think abhimanyu needs roohi more than she needed him..roohi gave him a purpose to go on living after losing his babies, his brother and his wife.. she brought happiness into his life . But akshara needed abhinav to help her take care of abhir as she was alone and she was not financially independent..so the situations are different.abhir and akshara could not have coped with abhinav.. and now akshara and abhinav are living like husband and wife…apart from not having physical intimacy ..they are doing everything else like husband and wife.. social events, jointly taking care of the house and child, financial issues are shared..they are a family 🤷🏻‍♀️.. and the only way I see akshara reuniting with abhimanyu is if they kill off abhinav..to make him,negative will be horrible as he is a good decent man,..and now they’ve shown abhimanyu develop a bond with abhinav…so Abhimanyu is not going to take his son away from abhinav as he’s seen how much abhinav does for the child and for akshara..so it’s very tricky how the writers are going to take this forward..🤷🏻‍♀️

There could have been so many things they opted for this papa thing,it's just offending to all the abhira lovers to all the soulful love stuff,i mean he helped her so u made ur son call him father🤧🤧

I am sure there is much more than what meets the eye..we still don’t know how and why Akshara called Manish to tell she married..I m sure Manish misled her to believe that he asked Abhi to come along but he refused the kid too..Probably Manjiri is in this too…this can only justify Akshara’s actions and make ppl root for their milan..for now this looks a copy of another show currently running on the same channel..there too fans hoped there would be some logic behind ml’s actions but fans were taken on a ride and left high high and dry..I m keeping hopes on RS that he won’t stoop that low.

Thank you for writing this topic!!

What Abhimanyu did was 100% wrong.. and what Akshara is doing now is 200% reprehensible. living with a stranger for 6 years, giving him parenting rights, fake marriage, pretending before the child as a happy normal family but on the other hand still calling each other ji.. not being attracted to each other is very unrealistic. I mean who calls jee even after 6 years when there is a good level of friendship between them.

For me Abhira is a gone case long back.. never really liked Akshara’s character for her mahanta and stupidity during her real marriage and with this fake marriage I totally got disconnected to her.

I’m really fed up that people are still talking about Arohi’s mistakes, but where Akshara stands now is something that should not be encouraged or entertained as it gives wrong message to the viewers just like Aarohi‘s crimes.

I think makers deliberately showing this unrealistic track just to equate to both sides mistakes.. but Abhimanyu’s reaction is relatable as we see or hear about men doing such acts in the verge of anger but Akshara’s situation looks very awkward and not right. I don’t understand how they gonna clear up this mess and convince the audience like me to reconnect to the show again.

Akshara the girl who wanted to work at an NGO and help everyone! KOI BHI.

Gives birth to her premature son in obscurity with no family by her side and at the mercy of another helpless stranger who puts his own life at risk for her.

Can you even fathom how this sounds for the female protagonist of ITV?

Them walking around living life while keeping Abhir away from his rightful inheritance, concealing his legacy out of spite, insecurity and anger.

Abhimanyu's impatience, madness and divorce becomes such a big criminality for her that she decided to give his right of fatherhood to the person who helped her because she needed help.

Abhir has spent 6 years living a life that is not his. He is shown so much like his father and that itself should have made Ak think once if she should tell BP the truth.

But she still wants to run from the truth calling it past.

The more I think the more I feel for all three Abhis now.

Thanks so much for this post👍🏻. Finally a balanced post i saw - more than 90% of posts are only and only Abhimanyu bashing. Just like you I totally agree that Abhimanyu was entirely wrong that day and up until she told on call that she’s married. He should have been sensible enough to hear her out. He kept anger for months which was wrong. It was a massive loss for him but he should’ve remembered Akshara is his family his wife! I see his total fault until she declared shes married.

But as u said - what Akshara did was completely well thought out and downright nasty and cruel. She was very much well aware that Abhimanyu doesn’t know of his babys existence. And fake pretend marriage and giving away rights of father to Abhinav? Dont even get me started on it. If Abhimanyu had 100 ways to deal with the situation of Neil’s and babies death and after that for few months where he held on to anger, there were 100 ways in which Akshara could have managed after baby’s birth. Go back to Goenkas. Raise the kid alone if she didn’t want to come back. Take Abhinav’s help as a friend. As far as I see - no one knows them in Kasauli. She could have easily answered anyone’s questions saying I’m divorced and there was no need to stay with Abhinav. It’s 21st century for gods sake. If at all she wanted to really marry and move on for real - that was different. Now here - she’s done injustice with Abhinav, Abhir as well as Abhimanyu. To be honest when i read some posts im shocked - how easily viewers forget all good deeds of Abhimanyu in 300 episodes for the 3 episodes where he totally screwed up (sick crappy writers who did that to his character 😡). The blasting and hate he gets is unreal.

Im not at all justifying his wrong deed but this so called glorifying of female lead even when she’s wrong just irks me to no end. Knowing Abhimanyu, she really thought he doesn’t deserve to be abhirs father? She forgot how much he has done for her the second they came to know about pregnancy? - she’s always taken him granted in my view.

[/QUOTE thanks for writing this.. U r right... Agree with each word of u... Akshara is so stupid...