Can I just add one more clarification to your list?! I saw some posts saying that abhimanyu has problem if she helps her family (specifically referring to kairav issue) but he himself chooses family over her. I just wanted to say that IMO- abhi never had problem with her supporting kairav in anisha death issue.. yes, abhi was angry because he thought that she is supporting kairav because he is her brother and wants to avoid punishment for him, but he was still standing up for akshara as well and didn’t leave her high and dry. Even on anisha shok sabha day he said, “we both have chosen different sides- now let’s deal with it”… he even offered her shoulder to cry on outside police station.. so IMO, he didn’t have problem with ak supporting or helping kairav. He wanted to work this issue along with her. His problem, his anger, his tandav was because he thought akshu LEFT him for kairav.. had akshu kept supporting kairav but stayed with him (as in if she hadn’t disappeared for a year without note), then they still would have found a way to deal with this. And later, I feel he was already blinded by rage and disappointment that akshu didn’t contact him, didn’t show up after that 24 hour timeline (he didn’t know trust then), lied about kairav innocence proof- all this just went spiraling down and he didn’t even realize the value of her sacrifice.
And I really hope that atleast now, makers give abhi a chance to appreciate her sacrifice, realize that he needs to control his anger and give akshu a chance to think/acknowledge where she went wrong as well..
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