grace this is such a beautiful postOriginally posted by: iheartChai
With most domestic abuse victims they (the victim) have to choose to let go of the relationship. No amount of push or pulling is going to convince them otherwise. Manjari does not deserve the abuse she has faced with Harshvardhan. But because she is so traumatized she simply cannot let go. It was evident in that conversation that Akshu had with Manjari.
Abhimanyu seeing all of this escalating in a way that he is going to try and make the decision for her. And as we all predicted Manjari was not able to let go of Harshvardhan as she literally held onto both her husband and son's hands. The two people that mean the world to her.
I do wonder if there is any specifc incident that Abhimanyu saw that made him turn this bitter. Is it really just that anniversary incident? Or maybe just a series of little incidents over the years he saw that made him this way? Neil being younger may not have understand in the beginning but as he grew older I do not see how he would not be aware. I wonder why he isn't as protective about Manjari? Was it because of his "orphan" staus he just kept quiet because he felt he couldn't and didn't have a right to speak?
I am really not sure where the writers are going with all of this and how this track is going to resolve. In the pre-cap Akshu is probably just trying to cool things down because any decision done in anger can result in an unintented outcome that perhaps a cooler mind could contend with and resolve (I am specifically talking about the picture of Manjari being ripped in front of Abhimanyu) I am all for Manjari getting away from Harshvardhan. Maybe only through divorce Harshvardhan will get the reality kick he needs to mend his ways. That is probably the way the writers will whitewashed him. Because at this point there is no relationship to be salvaged. There is literally nothing I can see that makes sense for this marriage to continue. Both Abhimanyu and Neil are grown adults so they don't need Mom or Papa to take care of them.
So unless there is some big secret as to why both these people need to stay married. Like Manjari is secretly evil so she doesnt want to leave Birla household as it would ruin her plans whatever that may be 🤔 😆 Maybe something about the land? Oh, maybe Dr. Avani Rathod's dead body is buried on the hospital land 😲 Manjari actually killed her 😕 (sorry EK theory 😈😆)
Or maybe in some weird twisted way she hangs onto Harshvardhan to purposefully drive a wedge between the two sons from the father as punishment for the extra marital affair? Over the years she has just gotten use to the insults hurled at her and puts on fake crocodile tears? 😳 😈 😆
Akshu’s path of thinking is very different than Abhimanyu's but the shared/root concern is for Manjari’s well being. I am now sure that is probably the discussion they will have next. Abhimanyu is using force while Akshu is maybe trying to use reasoning and patience since so much has happened in probably the last 48 hours.
I am hopefully that Akshu can continue to provide positive words to help Neil cope with everything. At the end of the day it is up to Neil to decided if he wants to call Harshvardhan Papa and determine what kind of relationship he will have with the man. Just as Abhimanyu has his own right to distance himself from his father by calling him Sir.
I am actually liking this track a lot. The dynamics of the family are going to be changing and it is interesting to see how Harshvardhan and Manjari’s marriage issue is affecting the entire family. This track has brought to light all the abuse of the relationship, the extra marital affair, Neil's place in the house now, and Abhimanyu's own childhood trauma.
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