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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

I feel this is more similar to season 1 then season 2. This feels like a modern take on season 1 as Akshu is akshara vibes. But this show feels like a brand new show and I really feel we shouldn’t compare seasons. Season 1 didn’t have single divorce either.

Yep. They keep saying Naira ki chotu sherni but Akshu is more like Akshara. Calm and sweet but not easily trampled over. Even Akshara stood up for what is right and the same will happen with Akshu. Naira was much more volatile.

And it does resonate with someone like me who has seen Season 1 and lost interest somewhere after the kids grew up. Akshara went from the comfort of the Maheshwaris to an austere Dadaji, silent Babuji, insecure Gayatri, naive Rashmi and differently abled Nandini. From a less conservative family to a more traditional one.

Akshu went from a problematic albeit still a little traditional family to a highly dysfunctional yet modern working family. The story is similar though - how a little sweetness mixed with a little strength can change family dynamics.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Actually Running away avoiding birlas is the best..this is what shefali does in the name of work. She can't handle the mad gang .Harsh is the one who is same from day1. So changing him is difficult unless manju switches sides. He feels he is king but Manju is his real queen who makes him win..the moment manju keeps him away his downfall starts and slow realisation. Manju encouraged his nonsense till now in the name of bearing wrath and being elder brother Anand never guided Harsh to be normal with manju. Today her status in that house is shown. She is the one giving everything in hand to all and they don't acknowledge it. Years of suppression in the name of love which none recognise..good 🦵 start for manjari . She prioritised her fav kheer over all today and made ak serve it to all.

red - 🤣🤣🤣 I want shefali to say that to parth when he complains next time 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

Abhi comes from the school of thought - you have to get your hands dirty if you have to wrestle the pig. Harsh doesn’t understand politeness. He misconstrues it as weakness and pushes the victim even more. If not for Abhi’s anger, he would already have thrown Neil out of the Birla house and probably physically abused Manjiri( if he isn’t already doing it). Abhi’s anger and point blank refusal to accept his abuse is the only thing protecting them both.

People keep chanting that Abhi’s anger is the reason behind PB’s behavior with Akshu-Manju. But it is the other way around.

Akshu is of the mind - Don’t wrestle with pigs. You both get filthy and the pig likes it. She’ll be a calming force that reins in Abhi’s anger.

Although at this point - do I even want Abhi to not berate PB? He deserves plates and jootas and chappals and much more. Not love and care and calm understanding.

@bold I think it's a circular pattern, which is how abuse works! Abhi has had the burden of protecting his mother since he was a child. We don't know the entire backstory, but Harsh and Manjari have been in a toxic marriage from the start it seems. And when there is constant yelling, you start feeling as if the only way to be heard is to reciprocate. Harsh doesn't understand politeness, but he doesn't understand Abhi's yelling either. Yes, Abhi's yelling is the only thing standing in between Harsh and so many kaands he could do, but it also riles him up more against Manjari, and now Akshu too. And, he always returns to the same abusive behavior. The truth is that Harsh doesn't understand any language at all, because his ego is too huge. He doesn't realize that the only thing standing in between him and his son is his own behavior and constant disrespect of the 2 people that mean the most to Abhi in the entire world.

Abhi and Akshu are at two opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to dealing with conflict, and with time, they will teach each other balance. I do think that Akshu will get deeply scared witnessing these fights, and Abhi will feel bad, so he will start to reel himself in that way.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: jollyismyname

You are right woman should be able to answer back and stand up for themselves…..but here,,.ak is still a new bride,,,giving answer back is not taught in our culture specially to elders and here knowing her character its totally against her…she will win them with her love…she is fully capable of standing up against all….remember ruby….

knowing her she will not keep quiet but not be extremely rude. I am actually looking forward for this track!
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: pbv3434

everything was perfect in today’s epi..for me abhira stole the show along with manju..what a perfect casting they have done..hats of to them for choosing such great actors..❤️

DKP’s casting never disappoints 😍
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

red - 🤣🤣🤣 I want shefali to say that to parth when he complains next time 😆

shefali gives him respect as hubby and balances her work..she never taunted or compared him with anyone. I liked her for that because she is understanding him and his inability to cross a barrier which he wants to chose so gave him space to settle. Very soon all pandora boxes burst out infront of Ak. And she will get the image of what these people are and what the hell abhi is staying in..there was never a discussion before them so it's live telecast of all municipal water tank jhagdaa soon. I am loving it. 😂
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: tptwi

@bold I think it's a circular pattern, which is how abuse works! Abhi has had the burden of protecting his mother since he was a child. We don't know the entire backstory, but Harsh and Manjari have been in a toxic marriage from the start it seems. And when there is constant yelling, you start feeling as if the only way to be heard is to reciprocate. Harsh doesn't understand politeness, but he doesn't understand Abhi's yelling either. Yes, Abhi's yelling is the only thing standing in between Harsh and so many kaands he could do, but it also riles him up more against Manjari, and now Akshu too. And, he always returns to the same abusive behavior. The truth is that Harsh doesn't understand any language at all, because his ego is too huge. He doesn't realize that the only thing standing in between him and his son is his own behavior and constant disrespect of the 2 people that mean the most to Abhi in the entire world.

Abhi and Akshu are at two opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to dealing with conflict, and with time, they will teach each other balance. I do think that Akshu will get deeply scared witnessing these fights, and Abhi will feel bad, so he will start to reel himself in that way.

Which is the whole conundrum. What would really be a kick in Harsh’s ego? Clearly it is not care and love, or anger, or the success of a non-doctor Akshara or Shefali. What is his poison? MCPs exist and do much worse than PB does, that is a fact. But IRL I would never advocate a Manjari to stick to a Harsh. Then again, Aarohi and her high handedness would be long buried by me too 😆

Sigh. Abuse is a tough topic to write on. iTV does a really bad job at it. In the end everyone is whitewashed. 20 years of Aarohi’s emotional abuse and 30+ years of PB’s verbal abuse are going to be brushed under the carpet with a meaningless hug and speech.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

Yep. They keep saying Naira ki chotu sherni but Akshu is more like Akshara. Calm and sweet but not easily trampled over. Even Akshara stood up for what is right and the same will happen with Akshu. Naira was much more volatile.

And it does resonate with someone like me who has seen Season 1 and lost interest somewhere after the kids grew up. Akshara went from the comfort of the Maheshwaris to an austere Dadaji, silent Babuji, insecure Gayatri, naive Rashmi and differently abled Nandini. From a less conservative family to a more traditional one.

Akshu went from a problematic albeit still a little traditional family to a highly dysfunctional yet modern working family. The story is similar though - how a little sweetness mixed with a little strength can change family dynamics.

bang on! I completely resonate with Akshu and Akshara ! I love season 1 vibes this this season has. I loved season 1 but couldn’t connect after naksh and Naira grew up and Kartik entered. 😂😂

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