Akshara is getting involved in Abhis family matters too quickly

Why is Akshara getting involved with Abhi's family matters and trying to force a relationship between the father and son? She has no idea of their past and she does not know what happened between them. If the relationship is so strained, it is obvious there is something big, it is not just ego issues. Why do ITV female leads become world problem solvers? and the weird thing is Abhi has told her a number of times to give her space which she should respect and have the patience to understand these issues.

She is really immature in handling relationships - either she sacrifices unnecessarily or the other extreme is she becomes completely oblivious to what is happening around her. Can some woman of that house knock some sense into her? Relationship problems are not solved overnight!

The mature thing for her right now is to understand Abhi better- she might not agree with him but she will have to support him irrespective. That's the job of the life partner- agar aisa nahin hota toh most of the marriages would end in divorce. You have to play the fine line between having your voice and letting it be.

Well said, she should work on Her and Abhi's relationship rather than being a busy body ninny.

Also if she is so keen on mending relationships start with her own relationships, like actually work on them rather then scarificing her life for her dear sister.

Originally posted by: svpg

Why is Akshara getting involved with Abhi's family matters and trying to force a relationship between the father and son? She has no idea of their past and she does not know what happened between them. If the relationship is so strained, it is obvious there is something big, it is not just ego issues. Why do ITV female leads become world problem solvers? and the weird thing is Abhi has told her a number of times to give her space which she should respect and have the patience to understand these issues.

She is really immature in handling relationships - either she sacrifices unnecessarily or the other extreme is she becomes completely oblivious to what is happening around her. Can some woman of that house knock some sense into her? Relationship problems are not solved overnight!

The mature thing for her right now is to understand Abhi better- she might not agree with him but she will have to support him irrespective. That's the job of the life partner- agar aisa nahin hota toh most of the marriages would end in divorce. You have to play the fine line between having your voice and letting it be.

Totally agree, she should not get involved without understanding why Abhi has a problem!

The thing is, Akshu is a family worshipper - sometimes more than a lover!😛 - and will do her best to mend relationships. I don't mind that but somehow Akshu comes across as a right bully and that is a big no no. I get it, in her own way she is strong and principled but honestly she should stop forcing her will on Abhi. Why has he changed so much? it's like he is scared to say no or hold his ground because he might lose her...? they still need to talk and understand one another.

I said it in another post, none of the ladies will like her coming in and pointing fingers. Wrong or right, they have lived with it and it's suits them and rather than trying to change things, Akshu should first of all try to understand!

Some weird indian tv show rule, a new bahu coming in must meddle into things she does not understand and get everyone's backs up. They will hate her, try to poison her, her hby will try to kick her out umpteen times and lo and behold suddenly everything will be ok!🤣

so true.

Akshara was the one we all sympathised with that no one is noticing her while she takes care of all her families needs and happiness.

Now coz of her same family jaap she comes across as a bully. The way she talks to Abhimanyu is wierd. thoda zyada hi haq in quite a short span.

She just knows the hold she has on her. but still I would ask her to give it time.

Jitni bhi aachi mehendi ho.. 2min mein dhodoge to rang nahi chadega.

I feel we shouldn’t judge anything based off the promo.

Also, I didn’t find anything wrong when bride asked for grooms fathers presence in the wedding. Specially when groom and his father live in the same house and bride would be living in the same house after marriage.

Ajeeb dastaan hai yeh

Kahan shuru Kahan khatam

Yeh manzile hain kaunsi

Na Akshu samajh saki na Abhi

Originally posted by: MimiLulu

Ajeeb dastaan hai yeh

Kahan shuru Kahan khatam

Yeh manzile hain kaunsi

Na Akshu samajh saki na Abhi

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

I feel we shouldn’t judge anything based off the promo.

Also, I didn’t find anything wrong when bride asked for grooms fathers presence in the wedding. Specially when groom and his father live in the same house and bride would be living in the same house after marriage.

Agree it's going to be her future family and PB clearly told AK it's only because of her, his son uninvited him from their marriage and AK has an iota of responsibility.

Also AK has experienced very little papa ka pyaar so she must be wanting to get that from her Sasur ji there's nothing wrong in that.

AK is acting sensibly, my 10 year old even felt bad when Abhi was calling his DAD SIR. No father deserves such treatment no matter however bad he is. Even Harsh was crying within to miss his eklauthe bete ki shaadi, marriage 💑 between 2 ppl should happen with elders blessings not their tears.

AK is doing something Manjiri hasn't done with Harsh, pointing her partner's mistakes and correcting them at the instant and not letting them build up and become unmanageable. So there won't be any jagda in future.

Usko family photo main sab chahiye ..remember..😆