Abhimanyu is not consulting or asking Akshara about her major life decisions like joining the hospital back again, or her opinion whether she wants to stay in joint family or okay staying in nuclear one. He hid this major primary thing of a relationship with her although it's the couple's decision where they are going to stay after marriage. Yet he thought, him and bade papa deciding would be enough. It's showing that he isn't considering akshara as his equal or her opinion is not important in the relationship. The fact that he hid Anisha matter from her, not trusting that she would be okay with it also proves the same. Why do abhira want to be even together if they can't solve problems together and hiding these major things and can't trust the other that together they can come up with a good decision?
Akshara is just considering abhimanyu as *her pyaar* Not valuing the guy and the efforts he is trying to put up to make her feel special. She is considering him just as her pyaar although he is her fiancee and after marriage he is going to be her parivaar. I get that family attachment is deep but saying that he is just her pyaar, she didn't want him blah blah shows what kind of irritating person she is. Even after marriage she won't give abhimanyu importance and would continue to meddle in birla house problems like typical itv bahu. There is no unique factor about her like original akshara and naira had. Trying to make akshara look like chotu sherni is so stupid whereas both at the core are different persons. Akshara doesn't have any unique identity or anything special about her, apart from her love for family or family jaap. She isn't even shown to be singing nowadays.
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