SELFISH LOVE AND INSECURITIES - Page 12

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

If this deal makes Abhi realize that how difficult it is to choose love over family??

Then I am fine..otherwise it will be still same for him and will create problems after marriage too

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I don't think she is a vamp...unless we are shown something else.❓ Not seen sign of intentional hatred or greyness in her.

I honestly think they way she has been shown, she is a battered wife ie abused. We have seen verbal abuse repeatedly, so doesn't take a stretch of imagination to think in the past she had been physically abused but now that Abhi is bigger, Harsh dares not raise his hand on her unless secretly.

But I think something had happened in her past to make her so jittery and unable to cope with stress hence making silly mistakes. Abhi knows, which is why he is so patient. And he has never once rebuked her for the mistakes even though the first one cost him Akshu. That is the biggest hold Manjari has over Abhi. Love and something else....?

Abhi will totally break when the day comes for Aksu v Manjari. They are the other half to his soul and make him complete. Without them he will be just a shattered man.

I think initially Harsh will use Manjari to make life uncomfortable for Akshu. Then Manjari for whatever reason will turn, but maybe for a phase.

If Abhi is the adopted son (I believe so) then Manjari may show what she is truly made of.

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Meherrrr I found a true friend who actually thinks the same as me... From Day1 Im telling Manjeri is not so seedha saadha gaay..[cow].. Nobody believed me and Meher you literally brought the nurse theory for my poor Papa Birla tainting his reputation and my emotions..🤣🤣🤣..We will get a Singer mom and nurse for Manjeri... Be prepared Meher..🥳 Jokes apart, Manjeri looks timid and docile but she is the one who runs the complete Birla family show.. She is one who actually pulls the threads of all the puppets and makes them play.. Nobody notices it cause we can only see the puppets dancing and shouting on the stage and the actual person pulling the thread is hidden behind the curtain..thats our Manjeri.. Her true colours will only come in forefront when her trump card of Abhi slips from her hand and loses it.. Harsh knows everything and that's the reason why he is upset with her most of the time.. i would not encourage his disrespect and chauvinistic attitude though..

You check each of her activities from day1.. She as a mother should communicate well with her son regarding his choice of girl instead of creating misunderstandings. She never tried even once to talk it out with Akshara but she did talk to Arohi several times. Even after the rejections, she still traumatised both Abhi and Akshara by making Akshara prepare the birthday party. Which mother does that to her son?

Abhis fire incident misunderstandings too she created it. and pushed each time towards Arohi when she very well knew that he doesnt love her and when all of a sudden in the temple Abhira confessed to each other, Manjeri turned her plates and accused Arohi for all the misdeeds which was actually ignited by her.

Manjeri never tries to bring father and son closer nor does she do anything by which their relationship can be improved for better cause she always wants to hold on to Abhi and play her game keeping him in the forefront as the whole Birlas are directly dependent on Abhi and so indirectly on Manjeri.. She though a simply housewife has that invisible power in that house filled with all the proficient career oriented members and has a strong but invisible hold on all of them due to Abhi.. Why would she want to let it go?? She is nothing without Abhi in that house. Harsh holds on to Manjeri for Abhi and Manjeri holds on to Abhi for Harsh.. The day Harsh and Abhi get close.. Manjeri as the interlink will not be required and hence will lose her importance..

Arohis marriage, Manjeri knew the decision of Abhira and their whereabouts but still instead of cancelling the marriage, went ahead with the baraath and caused complete humiliation to both the families..Which mother does that?? On top even subtly convinced Akshara not to get married without the acceptance of both the families whereby Abhis complete plan of getting married was thrown out of the window by Akshara..

Then those fishy adoption papers, the secrecy behind it, and many many such secret mysteries are all securely locked in her secret vault.. Who will get the key to this vault and when??? And God knows what all will tumble out of it...

These are just a few kaands that i could recollect.. There are much much more.. Be prepared guys for all the series of actions inaugurated by the auspicious hands of innocent looking Manjeri matha...

Seems I should make a khaand board for manjari as my old one has been very old that I wrote before aarohi engagement should I prepare new one for her too....

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Yes, his idhar udhar pyar has lost him some credibility in the Goenka elder men's eyes!

Harsh is clever...that is why he is in PR, he knows which way to turn things so his bread is always buttered😆. Plus he uses Manjari to make sure his aim is locked in.

I would love to see them living separately not because of a condition or anything but because that is the reality now and it's more practical in terms of work and lifestyle.

I hope BP actually insists on it, stands on it some more. I doubt DKP will make it the hill he dies on though...like you said, they need to do endless ghoomar and song and dances!😕

The real vamp is Mahima and occasionally Harsh and Arohi. Manjari will be one but something will make her and once that is sorted I think she will go back to her normal batty self.

If Kaisha relationship is developed Harsh and Mahima will cause endless problems for Goenka's and by association Abhira as well. I really hope they do not take sides but decided to keep apart...will be hard but the sensible thing to do. However, Akshu loves meddling...she really needs to stop that.

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Meherrrr I found a true friend who actually thinks the same as me... From Day1 Im telling Manjeri is not so seedha saadha gaay..[cow].. Nobody believed me and Meher you literally brought the nurse theory for my poor Papa Birla tainting his reputation and my emotions..🤣🤣🤣..We will get a Singer mom and nurse for Manjeri... Be prepared Meher..🥳 Jokes apart, Manjeri looks timid and docile but she is the one who runs the complete Birla family show.. She is one who actually pulls the threads of all the puppets and makes them play.. Nobody notices it cause we can only see the puppets dancing and shouting on the stage and the actual person pulling the thread is hidden behind the curtain..thats our Manjeri.. Her true colours will only come in forefront when her trump card of Abhi slips from her hand and loses it.. Harsh knows everything and that's the reason why he is upset with her most of the time.. i would not encourage his disrespect and chauvinistic attitude though..

You check each of her activities from day1.. She as a mother should communicate well with her son regarding his choice of girl instead of creating misunderstandings. She never tried even once to talk it out with Akshara but she did talk to Arohi several times. Even after the rejections, she still traumatised both Abhi and Akshara by making Akshara prepare the birthday party. Which mother does that to her son?

Abhis fire incident misunderstandings too she created it. and pushed each time towards Arohi when she very well knew that he doesnt love her and when all of a sudden in the temple Abhira confessed to each other, Manjeri turned her plates and accused Arohi for all the misdeeds which was actually ignited by her.

Manjeri never tries to bring father and son closer nor does she do anything by which their relationship can be improved for better cause she always wants to hold on to Abhi and play her game keeping him in the forefront as the whole Birlas are directly dependent on Abhi and so indirectly on Manjeri.. She though a simply housewife has that invisible power in that house filled with all the proficient career oriented members and has a strong but invisible hold on all of them due to Abhi.. Why would she want to let it go?? She is nothing without Abhi in that house. Harsh holds on to Manjeri for Abhi and Manjeri holds on to Abhi for Harsh.. The day Harsh and Abhi get close.. Manjeri as the interlink will not be required and hence will lose her importance..

Arohis marriage, Manjeri knew the decision of Abhira and their whereabouts but still instead of cancelling the marriage, went ahead with the baraath and caused complete humiliation to both the families..Which mother does that?? On top even subtly convinced Akshara not to get married without the acceptance of both the families whereby Abhis complete plan of getting married was thrown out of the window by Akshara..

Then those fishy adoption papers, the secrecy behind it, and many many such secret mysteries are all securely locked in her secret vault.. Who will get the key to this vault and when??? And God knows what all will tumble out of it...

These are just a few kaands that i could recollect.. There are much much more.. Be prepared guys for all the series of actions inaugurated by the auspicious hands of innocent looking Manjeri matha...

Deepti you got your soulmate in Bela. Congratulations 👏.

What you told everything I accept. But i want my nurse theory 😉😂

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

you brought a nice point of Abhi does not say anything to Manjari when she is wrong. He silently accepts it. And for Akshu too he said in silent words only where she went for Ar and accepted her immediately. Even in his emotional turmoil episode against her love for Abhi and family , he got anger but he was quiet in telling her where she said words insulting his love and stood for his love again. He was angry on her but still kept his cool throughout. Adoption is what many of us believe as per hints and it will stir his world there by leaving the house easily there won't be any barriers for him then..Manish will win the race..

Meher dont you know our Akshara??? She will always make the opponent win and only in extreme situations thinks about herself or Abhi..

Who reaches the finishing line successfully?? Is it Harsh or Manjeri or Manish or anybody else??? In this case Abhi would want to or might leave Birla home initially when the adoption truth is exposed but later she will convince Abhi somehow drag Abhi back to the Birla home..thereby making Papa Birla win the race...Manish will lose it Meher in the end and along with all his apprehensions too will come to reality!!!!

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Meher dont you know our Akshara??? She will always make the opponent win and only in extreme situations thinks about herself or Abhi..

Who reaches the finishing line successfully?? Is it Harsh or Manjeri or Manish or anybody else??? In this case Abhi would want to or might leave Birla home initially when the adoption truth is exposed but later she will convince Abhi somehow drag Abhi back to the Birla home..thereby making Papa Birla win the race...Manish will lose it Meher in the end and along with all his apprehensions too will come to reality!!!!

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

you brought a nice point of Abhi does not say anything to Manjari when she is wrong. He silently accepts it. And for Akshu too he said in silent words only where she went for Ar and accepted her immediately. Even in his emotional turmoil episode against her love for Abhi and family , he got anger but he was quiet in telling her where she said words insulting his love and stood for his love again. He was angry on her but still kept his cool throughout. Adoption is what many of us believe as per hints and it will stir his world there by leaving the house easily there won't be any barriers for him then..Manish will win the race..

Even if he does turn out to be adopted, he won't leave the Birla House. Maybe temporarily but he won't leave.

His love for Manjari goes beyond blood connection. It is a connection of heart as well. Look at this way, if you found out you were adopted today would you leave your parents tomorrow?...I'm betting no because love does not work like that. It will shake his foundation, he may look into his real parents (if they are necessary to the story then yes otherwise there will be no mention of them😆).

Yes, he is very loyal to those he loves.❤️

This is not a race but a show about family, with all the entangled loves, hopes and dreams that go with being a individual member in a large family. Everyone will win some and lose some. Just like life.

I think Manish has sown a seed in Abhi...it will grow...and we shall see what has reaped!😆 I think given this is S3 and unlikely we will see them living separately, Abhi may just impose a set of condition on his family before his marriage to Akshu...the best answer he can give to BP's shart...

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Even if he does turn out to be adopted, he won't leave the Birla House. Maybe temporarily but he won't leave.

His love for Manjari goes beyond blood connection. It is a connection of heart as well. Look at this way, if you found out you were adopted today would you leave your parents tomorrow?...I'm betting no because love does not work like that. It will shake his foundation, he may look into his real parents (if they are necessary to the story then yes otherwise there will be no mention of them😆).

Yes, he is very loyal to those he loves.❤️

This is not a race but a show about family, with all the entangled loves, hopes and dreams that go with being a individual member in a large family. Everyone will win some and lose some. Just like life.

I think Manish has sown a seed in Abhi...it will grow...and we shall see what has reaped!😆 I think given this is S3 and unlikely we will see them living separately, Abhi may just impose a set of condition on his family before his marriage to Akshu...the best answer he can give to BP's shart...

Originally posted by: hari15

She isn't a vamp. Situations had put her in that place and it will always be like that without any greyness in her she will become a villian in anyone life. Unknowingly she hurt her son feelings by choosing a wrong girl, then aarohi then so and so. Then she balanced herself and went to support them.

Harsh and manjari we can't talk anything about them because it has always been manipulation, shouts and fights in them.

Manjari can love all the kids and abhi alot but at the end of the day she surrenders to harsh. That is really so sad to see or think that she can't get her hold. And it is being put in a place of one sided love for almost half her life.

It's easy for harsh and mahima to use manjari and to do their work because that is how they have been doing things with her for years. Specially the trust manjari has on mahima she thinks she is her sister, mother and saas maa who was one of the reasons the mess her son is under. We sure will get a track where manjari gets controlled by harsh and in turn ak by manjari that will end only in a big tragedy.

If anything manjari life is the most complicated that we can make a special spin off to know lots of things like what was her childhood like. How can someone who is good at singing was not given a hand yet supressed by these many people and such hundreds of questions.

Don't think I am being idhar udhar i like being in neutral ground of all character and putting them in negative shade and positive shade too. And yrkkh characters have given me that best thing to think about two sides of them. 🤗🤗

and this is what is abhis fear that he wont get love like his mom..It will be an eye opener for him to see why is what i feel but precap her expressions were wierd

Manjari will be the cause for akshu and abhi ka first separation itna tho its clear