Originally posted by: ayushisingh29
Abhimanyu is such a rare kind of male lead..he values very few people in his life and for them he tolerates the others..
He stays in birla house because he values manjari and can't leave her..he tolerates harsh for manjari's sake..
In today's precap ..he clearly said to kairav that he's tolerating him because he is akshara's brother..otherwise he would have thrashed him for making his sister cry..
Abhimanyu is a man with one track mind..he doesn't try to look too deep into things..after having such a mature conversation with kairav where kairav clearly told him the reasons for breaking up with anisha..I did not expect abhimanyu to manhandle him..
Yes abhimanyu doesn't agree with kairav's ideology and sympathizes with his sister anisha..but he still knew about kairav's dilemma and kairav was so honest with him in that conversation..
But abhimanyu was back to his aggressive mode in the precap..even akshara was shocked when he held kairav's collar and started threatening him..
My point is that even after listening to kairav's justifications and reasoning if abhimanyu can get so violent with him then what he's gonna do in future if he ends up misunderstanding a particular situation..
Akshara is really playing with fire..she's in love with a man who can be quite dangerous..living with a man like abhimanyu is going to be very difficult for her..till now she has only seen abhimanyu's soft side or vulnerable state when she rejected him..
She doesn't know anything about abhimanyu's severe anger issues and to what extent he can go in his anger..yes abhimanyu was quite rude to her sometimes when he was getting married to arohi but akshara might have thought that he is behaving this way because he is hurting..what she doesn't know is that this is abhimanyu's usual behavior..In future after marriage I'm sure akshara will have a hard time dealing with his passive aggressive behavior and over possessiveness for her..
I hope abhimanyu doesn't resort to violence against akshara or tries to hit her ( though he'll definitely regret it later) in future when he's angry..because he is very much capable of doing that.
I think it depends on the writers and if they want to go down that route of exploring an abusive relationship with Abhimanyu accidentally hitting Akshara. But considering he is the male lead of the show. I don't think he would do that. The makers won't have him go down that route. They may make other characters do that to teach Abhimanyu lessons.
I think Akshara has seen his nature. I mean this man was breaking chairs in front of her, he's hurt his finger for her, and he's broke that glass water bowl too. Akshara has been shown to understand people's emotions and sometimes nature. She isn't that much of a duffer that she wouldn't have figured out he has anger issues. Though she still hasn't seen the spoon tapping at dinner yet with Harshvardhan (I dont know why I enjoy those scenes 😆) Most of the time the looks Akshara gives are one of disappointment and oh gosh there goes his anger.
Its been made clear Abhi has anger issues and a lot of it stems from his relationship with his father. Abhi still despite his anger never lays a hit on his father because he still see him as his father and he won't cross that line. As much as the forum dogs on Manjari this is her teachings to Abhi. Also as much as Abhi can get mad at Neil or Manjari he never gets violent with them. Manjari usually has a way to calm him. One word and he stops himself as he is brought back to reality from his anger. We saw this when he was ready to just leave when Akshara fainted and everyone was telling him to stop and asking him where he was going. Manjari just called out his name and he stopped.
We see this behavior too with Akshara. The mintue she intervens Abhi stops and listens to what she has to say. The precap sort of showed that. In his anger he grabbed Kairav (how many times have we seen in other TV shows or movies when the brother tries to defend their sister they go and grab the guy who they think is in the wrong?) Abhi is acting the same way. He believes Kairav is giving up before even fighting. For him the way he has tackled things his whole life is to shout and demand because in the Birla household that is what you have to do to get what you want otherwise the parents pressuer you into doing what they want. This is why we see Parth although a doctor is staying at home in defiance. And it seems Anisha as well did something that she got no support from so she just left.
Abhi is impulsive and his emotions run high on people he cares about. He would do the same for Akshara, Manjari, Neil, and I believe for Nishtha since she is the youngest. In fact in the 1st tilak fisaco I wouldn't have blamed Kairav for grabbing Abhi's collar for the way things went down. He thought Abhi was two timing the sisters.
It is going to take time for Abhi and Anisha to learn running head on into things barking about this and that isn't the right way to communicate. Hence their partners are there to teach them that and in turn Abhi will support Akshara in being more vocal and doing something for youself from time to time and Anisha the same for Kairav.
The point is to balance each other out. It is not good to constantly sacrifice for you family or someone nor is it good to constantly think only about yourself. No one is going to change overnight. This is the journey to becoming a more balanced self where you respect your family but know when to do/ask things for yourself and when to do things for your family.
I personally feel once the issue between father and son is dealt with Abhi won't be as dangerously raging. He will mellow a little but his anger will come up every now and then because that is something that is part of his character sketched.
Edited by iheartChai - 3 years ago
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