The true test of “Bade Papa” - Page 4

Goenkas are really senseless. Bade papa bolta hai... Betiya Mera guroor hai... N then again he doesn't even give a damn about Akshu's issues. I just hope her voice is heard unlike Everytime she's supressed. But I'm really excited to see how AbhiRa's acceptance will turn out with both families.

Someone is troubled that doesn't give them a reason to harass, mentally torture or constantly tell the other person she doesn't deserve any happiness in her life. Please help is needed for aarohi. That doesn't give her the right to treat akshu like this. Its like her pain is pain others are like nothing. What about akshu knowing sirat isn't her mother did she bash them no she accepted them. Even before sirat death aarohi started hating akshu so if sirat died or not aarohi would have been this way. Sirat death is a reason for her to hold on.

Originally posted by: hari15

Someone is troubled that doesn't give them a reason to harass, mentally torture or constantly tell the other person she doesn't deserve any happiness in her life. Please help is needed for aarohi. That doesn't give her the right to treat akshu like this. Its like her pain is pain others are like nothing. What about akshu knowing sirat isn't her mother did she bash them no she accepted them. Even before sirat death aarohi started hating akshu so if sirat died or not aarohi would have been this way. Sirat death is a reason for her to hold on.

This^^

Just because you have trauma, does not give you the right to cause other people trauma. Arohi does not have the right to disrespect, bully, belittle and insult Akshara, just because she has suffered from trauma.

Arohi literally calls Akshara an "average ladki". She belittled Akshara's profession, and thinks she's better than Akshara because she's a doctor. In my opinion, a modern woman would lift another woman up, not put her down.

Originally posted by: aaf311

This^^

Just because you have trauma, does not give you the right to cause other people trauma. Arohi does not have the right to disrespect, bully, belittle and insult Akshara, just because she has suffered from trauma.

Arohi literally calls Akshara an "average ladki". She belittled Akshara's profession, and thinks she's better than Akshara because she's a doctor. In my opinion, a modern woman would lift another woman up, not put her down.

Justifying once bad behavior as troubled young woman. Then what about akshu. Isn't she a troubled young woman. Lost her mother before she can even get used to her mother's smell. Lived a lie for 10 years thinking another woman as her mother yet accepted her. Then she too dies in front of her. Isn't all these trauma to her. Did she turn veil and venomous. Of course everyone take their trauma in different way but that can never justify aarohi behavior.

The whole family says Arohi lost her mom. What about Akshu???

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

The whole family says Arohi kist her mom. What about Akshu???

That's the problem yaar. No one openly talks about Naira as akshu mother. Manish said once i miss Naira that too like it's the biggest secret of his life that no one should hear. I really hope they speak about Naira openly instead of closing her talks.

agreed....askhu was giving up on abhi because the thought aru loved abhi, its then after her accident she realized he was just a trophy for her,,,its then she decided to take a stand for her love,,,yes wrong timing def yes but it was better to be done then after the marriage..it was just a wrong timing that marriage was happening,,,also its Harshs fault the most for bringing baarat without Dulha,,that could have saved so much humiliation,

Originally posted by: jolly_fl

agreed....askhu was giving up on abhi because the thought aru loved abhi, its then after her accident she realized he was just a trophy for her,,,its then she decided to take a stand for her love,,,yes wrong timing def yes but it was better to be done then after the marriage..it was just a wrong timing that marriage was happening,,,also its Harshs fault the most for bringing baarat without Dulha,,that could have saved so much humiliation,

Harsh is an elder considering other 3 people. He should have acted better than this. In the thought of planning for the future he messed things for his son. His plan maybe right but the person isn't that's the whole mess result. The elder who needs to be responsible was the reason for half the wrong. He tried to push aarohi in abhi throat even when he knew he doesn't want her. And to top it Harsh knows his son well yet he did it. Even if aarohi didn't lie their is a 50-50 chance abhi might do something crazy as his character is designed like that.

I guess Neil didn't tell about his father's involvement to don't start more trouble for the father - son duo.

yes everyone - each person I mean is at fault....yes arohi got humiliated the most but it wasn't one persons fault...everyone is to be blamed (well except my fav Neil 😉

Hey it's technically match draw. Everyone is at fault if I could I would write it page by page. What nonsense these three created for each other. None is greater than other. I will put a black mark on all three over this and talking about who is at fault will never give a result. If then I can start it from episode 1 with Manjari confusion, abhi not telling akshu name, mahima's hand, akshu rejecting, aarohi blackmailing so and so but it has become old news now.

We just need to look ahead in the story and enjoy it that is what I want toto do.