Punishing akshara is wrong - Page 4

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Dead or disowned? Seriously?

So none of the lies etc count. Arohi lied her way into getting a marriage proposal - because Manjiri would not have asked Abhi to focus on Arohi as a bride had it not been for her lies. But Akshu saying she loves Abhi is a crime worthy of death?

This happens in real life in India? No wonder women remain silent and suffer.

I want to write a long post on the does n dont. LoNGER than WHAT I have Done here..

but Ak is so wrong in this whole fiasco. Its the worst and still the man agrees to love her, my guess is that coz he hung himself upside down n all the blood rushed to his head so he may already be braindead.

If in reality a girl had been caught eloping with the groom the consequences will be dire. Not just the family the couple should feel just as ashamed.

At a very young age I had heard/read an article on this kind of thing. Where the man had proposed the girl and she refused. I think he kept asking her a few times till he just lost hope. maybe kept looking at her from far or whatever dont remember so much.

but afterwards she had a change of heart and she went up to him and said that she loves him.

But by then it had been months and he had agreed to marry another girl due to family pressure.

The man asked the girl to meet him someplace and when she came he poured acid on her and killed himself also right there. It was the day of his wedding.

This kind of stories have had a hard impression on me.

How much pain that fellow had been was my first thought that he took such an extreme step.

How do you judge till you are not in that insane position.

What Akshara did was worse than Arohi has ever done.

Abhimanyu a heart surgeon is reduced to being a nothing being thrown out of the house and she is standing watching. Its all good in serial now place a loved one in that position would you bring yourself to love a shy, caring considerate girl like her whom you have to threaten to accept her feelings? when she knows that the person in her sister's groom?

She should have spoken to KV and manish. Kv had already offered his help. This drama was not necessary and No one should have to face this kind of thing in their life.

I cannot justify these actions.

I love #AbhiRa and rooting for them because I am clear that they are reel characters not real.

I keep telling myself if this was real then I know what I would think of such a girl.

All my support will be with someone like Arohi.

And so someone in Abhimanyu's position I clearly tell them this girl is not in love with you if she is pushing you to leave your self respect.

sorry for the typos.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

I want to write a long post on the does n dont. LoNGER than WHAT I have Done here..

but Ak is so wrong in this whole fiasco. Its the worst and still the man agrees to love her, my guess is that coz he hung himself upside down n all the blood rushed to his head so he may already be braindead.

If in reality a girl had been caught eloping with the groom the consequences will be dire. Not just the family the couple should feel just as ashamed.

At a very young age I had heard/read an article on this kind of thing. Where the man had proposed the girl and she refused. I think he kept asking her a few times till he just lost hope. maybe kept looking at her from far or whatever dont remember so much.

but afterwards she had a change of heart and she went up to him and said that she loves him.

But by then it had been months and he had agreed to marry another girl due to family pressure.

The man asked the girl to meet him someplace and when she came he poured acid on her and killed himself also right there. It was the day of his wedding.

This kind of stories have had a hard impression on me.

How much pain that fellow had been was my first thought that he took such an extreme step.

How do you judge till you are not in that insane position.

What Akshara did was worse than Arohi has ever done.

Abhimanyu a heart surgeon is reduced to being a nothing being thrown out of the house and she is standing watching. Its all good in serial now place a loved one in that position would you bring yourself to love a shy, caring considerate girl like her whom you have to threaten to accept her feelings? when she knows that the person in her sister's groom?

She should have spoken to KV and manish. Kv had already offered his help. This drama was not necessary and No one should have to face this kind of thing in their life.

I cannot justify these actions.

I love #AbhiRa and rooting for them because I am clear that they are reel characters not real.

I keep telling myself if this was real then I know what I would think of such a girl.

All my support will be with someone like Arohi.

And so someone in Abhimanyu's position I clearly tell them this girl is not in love with you if she is pushing you to leave your self respect.

sorry for the typos.

In general this is what i fell.

If you know a person from very long time. And still family keeps on rejecting him for invalid reasons. If both are earning well and if nothing works out. Then yoh can think about this.

But since abhi is a character and he is a positive lead and this yrkkh i might be biased that they can get married. But if it was real i would have asked the girl self assess how much she knows about the guy to take that extreme step😊

Originally posted by: apra

yes they wont be on roads but will never be happy, no matter what goenkas love akshu more than aarohi because she is very soft spoken and obedient.

when a parent experiences the distress due to an obedient child and purely because she has never given any trouble they get hurt and betrayed, where as aarohi ka toh roz ka hai bomb phodna she has never been in anybodys good books, they are simply sick and tired of her and to avoid any kind of tamasha that she will do

Who won't be happy? AbhiRa? Well... Noone is happy without family, yes. But they'll find happiness and peace in their own world. But that doesn't mean ki kuch bhi sehte jao. Plus, if the family does love them, they'll accept. Abhi will always have ma ka support. And Neil will be there, so will the other younger peeps. If Mimi and Swarna are wise, they'll be there too.

Sirf jhooti shaan Wale Harsh, Manish and Akhilesh will be missing. So if izzat is more imp than there child, so be it.

And just because Goenkas ko discomfort hoga, and they'll miss Akshu's submissive nature, that does not mean she goes on making sacrifices. No

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

But should they also save akshara from arohi if they love her so much. If they cant save her from arohi then they are nobody to question her as first of all they never tried to listen nor tried to stop this harassment and mental torture.

No body can put a stop to the venom that aarohi spews anyone mind you anyone who supports akshu will face the same thing didnt she do that to kairav by saying "aapko humesha mein hi galat lagti hoon, aap ko akshu ko support karoge kyunki she is your laadli... if it goes a little further she will say mein sauteli hoon na issiliye" after this no one wants to argue because that is a ace card, precisely the reason the family avoids any arguments. Aarohi is simply selfish and that is her nature she wants everything for herself and doesn't believe in sharing, voh kisi ki sagi nahi hai she uses everybody for her goals.

The goenkas also put up with any tantrum that aarohi throws and have multiple times advised akshu to just ignore her and stop running behind her, but akshu ko toh shauk hai "meri aaru" ka ab bhugto

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

I want to write a long post on the does n dont. LoNGER than WHAT I have Done here..

but Ak is so wrong in this whole fiasco. Its the worst and still the man agrees to love her, my guess is that coz he hung himself upside down n all the blood rushed to his head so he may already be braindead.

If in reality a girl had been caught eloping with the groom the consequences will be dire. Not just the family the couple should feel just as ashamed.

At a very young age I had heard/read an article on this kind of thing. Where the man had proposed the girl and she refused. I think he kept asking her a few times till he just lost hope. maybe kept looking at her from far or whatever dont remember so much.

but afterwards she had a change of heart and she went up to him and said that she loves him.

But by then it had been months and he had agreed to marry another girl due to family pressure.

The man asked the girl to meet him someplace and when she came he poured acid on her and killed himself also right there. It was the day of his wedding.

This kind of stories have had a hard impression on me.

How much pain that fellow had been was my first thought that he took such an extreme step.

How do you judge till you are not in that insane position.

What Akshara did was worse than Arohi has ever done.

Abhimanyu a heart surgeon is reduced to being a nothing being thrown out of the house and she is standing watching. Its all good in serial now place a loved one in that position would you bring yourself to love a shy, caring considerate girl like her whom you have to threaten to accept her feelings? when she knows that the person in her sister's groom?

She should have spoken to KV and manish. Kv had already offered his help. This drama was not necessary and No one should have to face this kind of thing in their life.

I cannot justify these actions.

I love #AbhiRa and rooting for them because I am clear that they are reel characters not real.

I keep telling myself if this was real then I know what I would think of such a girl.

All my support will be with someone like Arohi.

And so someone in Abhimanyu's position I clearly tell them this girl is not in love with you if she is pushing you to leave your self respect.

sorry for the typos.

But does that woman in your story have a sister who likes snatching and being a bully? I must've watched the wrong show because until the very last moment akshu tried calling her sister. The only reason this whole fiasco happened on the wedding day is because harsh decided to rush the wedding date forward! He knew he can't control his son!

What akshu did sounds wrong when you say it but you can't just ignore the build up to this point! She still had sense not to get married without family although I think that was a mistake! That family is a joke!

Manish is harping on about izat when his brother had an affair with a girl of his daughters age, his twin nephews molested a maid, his niece killed og akshara, kartik stole his own sisters newborn and presented it as his own! And that's just the tip of the iceberg!

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

i agree for all points except bold😆 and here they are not even ran away they were in temple and were planning to go back. So they have not taken extreme steps.

In general this is what i fell.

If you know a person from very long time. And still family keeps on rejecting him for invalid reasons. If both are earning well and if nothing works out. Then yoh can think about this.

But since abhi is a character and he is a positive lead and this yrkkh i might be biased that they can get married. But if it was real i would have asked the girl self assess how much she knows about the guy to take that extreme step😊

Its wedding. Baraat khadi hai. so what if they are chatting in the temple. It would have been better if they had got married.

this looks so superficial. Manish is right. its like AK has slapped him then crying n saying sorry.

as I said. its a serial so all good.

Its a conditioning I am rooting for the very cute and handsome lead couple.

Originally posted by: Choco_orange

But does that woman in your story have a sister who likes snatching and being a bully? I must've watched the wrong show because until the very last moment akshu tried calling her sister. The only reason this whole fiasco happened on the wedding day is because harsh decided to rush the wedding date forward! He knew he can't control his son!

What akshu did sounds wrong when you say it but you can't just ignore the build up to this point! She still had sense not to get married without family although I think that was a mistake! That family is a joke!

Manish is harping on about izat when his brother had an affair with a girl of his daughters age, his twin nephews molested a maid, his niece killed og akshara, kartik stole his own sisters newborn and presented it as his own! And that's just the tip of the iceberg!

Its a series I am watching. I am not judging. I have stopped reviewing.

Please dont mind my words.

I just wrote of a real time incident vs a reel story. there is nothing to judge or discuss in my post.

Originally posted by: sheet_leher

Who won't be happy? AbhiRa? Well... Noone is happy without family, yes. But they'll find happiness and peace in their own world. But that doesn't mean ki kuch bhi sehte jao. Plus, if the family does love them, they'll accept. Abhi will always have ma ka support. And Neil will be there, so will the other younger peeps. If Mimi and Swarna are wise, they'll be there too.

Sirf jhooti shaan Wale Harsh, Manish and Akhilesh will be missing. So if izzat is more imp than there child, so be it.

And just because Goenkas ko discomfort hoga, and they'll miss Akshu's submissive nature, that does not mean she goes on making sacrifices. No

Akshu has to learn her lesson "never support aaohi.. meri aaru meri aaru" is just too much and for that a jolt is required and the jolt come in the form of punishment then why not.

Kairav, vansh, swarna, dadi and mostly all birlas agree with this alliance now no one in their right mind would want aaru madam as their DIL after seeing her swaroop and what all she can do now will they??

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Its a series I am watching. I am not judging. I have stopped reviewing.

Please dont mind my words.

I just wrote of a real time incident vs a reel story. there is nothing to judge or discuss in my post.

Im sorry I didn't mean to sound insensitive about the real event. I'm sure there are loads of horror stories out there in regards to running away. In terms of what they are showing I wished they did it in better taste..I think Manish being ass is somewhat justified but wish they would stop with toxic arhu! Family drama is all good fun!