Are Aarohi's lies so bad - Page 6

Originally posted by: hari15

It's not like aarohi stole a chocolate and told momma that she didn't right. This is not about just lies it's about the impact these lies created.

It's a matter about life and death. Let's just talk about fire incident.

Abhi felt akshu with him in fire but when he woke up he saw aarohi. It's a basic human instinct to believe what they see and hear specially when you don't know the other person true nature. He believed what he saw. Does it matter to him that akshu didn't jump for him in fire. An absolute no. He only wanted to know where she was and asked aarohi.

What did she tell akshu left. Can you believe the impact of this one lie. He wanted to see her first after his near death experience and everyone knew how much he loved her. Yet she lied. That one lie broke him to pieces.

Did aarohi stop their. Her own sister had an almost death experience and what did she do. She left her own sister their fending alone and went with a stranger. Before akshu can tell about this whole story of credits is over.

Now we all had seen what aarohi is capable of and it will be akshu words against aarohi. Akshu doesn't fight useless battles. If she wanted she could have told abhi didn't why. Because both knew this saving and not saving isn't what matters in their love. He wanted to hear a how are you from her that's all. But she didn't why because sister dear made akshu to go under illusion. And it is dragged till now.

Then about MD. Getting MD through donation isn't the issue. I am sure if she spoke to abhi and her family they would have understood but no she used under hand means. It's a fraud work.

She cheated her own family.

In all these aarohi's character will be questioned.

She will be labelled as a untrustworthy person who backstabbed her own sister and cheated her own family.

Even if akshu isn't in equation. No one is going to choose a girl like her. For Birla's might simply be afraid that this girl might sell the house and hospital and go on a vacation

Originally posted by: hari15

It's not like aarohi stole a chocolate and told momma that she didn't right. This is not about just lies it's about the impact these lies created.

It's a matter about life and death. Let's just talk about fire incident.

Abhi felt akshu with him in fire but when he woke up he saw aarohi. It's a basic human instinct to believe what they see and hear specially when you don't know the other person true nature. He believed what he saw. Does it matter to him that akshu didn't jump for him in fire. An absolute no. He only wanted to know where she was and asked aarohi.

What did she tell akshu left. Can you believe the impact of this one lie. He wanted to see her first after his near death experience and everyone knew how much he loved her. Yet she lied. That one lie broke him to pieces.

Did aarohi stop their. Her own sister had an almost death experience and what did she do. She left her own sister their fending alone and went with a stranger. Before akshu can tell about this whole story of credits is over.

Now we all had seen what aarohi is capable of and it will be akshu words against aarohi. Akshu doesn't fight useless battles. If she wanted she could have told abhi didn't why. Because both knew this saving and not saving isn't what matters in their love. He wanted to hear a how are you from her that's all. But she didn't why because sister dear made akshu to go under illusion. And it is dragged till now.

Then about MD. Getting MD through donation isn't the issue. I am sure if she spoke to abhi and her family they would have understood but no she used under hand means. It's a fraud work.

She cheated her own family.

In all these aarohi's character will be questioned.

She will be labelled as a untrustworthy person who backstabbed her own sister and cheated her own family.

Even if akshu isn't in equation. No one is going to choose a girl like her. For Birla's might simply be afraid that this girl might sell the house and hospital and go on a vacation

Yeah imo I find nothing wrong with her paying somebody to get position on MD course because we know she can actually get a place on it based on merit but only because she applied late she isn't getting the place easily, so somebody is taking advantage of her desperation to get on the course by asking for bribe.

What is wrong is how she is going about it. She's hiding the fact she's planning further studies by bribing her way on to it, especially by lying to her family to take money from them to pay for the bribe. IMO it's something that would cause a lot of embarrassment if it got out because if she is taking huge lump sum of cash from her family by lying what she is doing with it, and then it gets out in front of all the reason why she took the money from them and even lied to them then it would be embarrassing for her family and birla family ke doctors are snobs so they would definitely embarrass arohi and maybe even her family over her lies.

Also such seemingly smaller follies of arohi that aren't necessarily a crime, if they got out would still create a very negative impression of arohi as being somebody who is unethical, untrustworthy, selfish, a liar and manipulative to get whatever she wants. It isn't something that will make any person appear favourable in front of a family who are proposing marriage to want an alliance with such an untrustworthy person. Your own family are more forgiving of such things, not other people.

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

Yeah imo I find nothing wrong with her paying somebody to get position on MD course because we know she can actually get a place on it based on merit but only because she applied late she isn't getting the place easily, so somebody is taking advantage of her desperation to get on the course by asking for bribe.

What is wrong is how she is going about it. She's hiding the fact she's planning further studies by bribing her way on to it, especially by lying to her family to take money from them to pay for the bribe. IMO it's something that would cause a lot of embarrassment if it got out because if she is taking huge lump sum of cash from her family by lying what she is doing with it, and then it's gets out in front of all the reason why she took the money from them and even lied to them then it would be embarrassing for her family and birla family ke doctors are snobs so they would definitely embarrass arohi and maybe even her family over her lies.

Also such seemingly smaller follies of arohi that aren't necessarily a crime, if they got out would still create a very negative impression of arohi as being somebody who is unethical, untrustworthy, selfish, a liar and manipulative to get whatever she wants. It isn't something that will make any person appear favourable in front of a family who are proposing marriage to want an alliance with such an untrustworthy person. Your own family are more forgiving of such things, not other people.

the thing about it is ke, she is fully aware that he still loves akshu and abhi never hid anything from aru....so technically he is okay

Hehe nahi she is not bad but she is not good either. She feels like she can achieve everything by any means which makes her bad. Her obsession is making her bad.

The reason why everyone feels she is bad here is because she is not even looking at her family to take any decision..she betrayed her fam and took money. She betrayed her sister and trying to snatch abhi.

Agar bahar kisi ke sath bura kiya ho toh woh galath hai.. but apno ke saath galath karna usse bhi zyada galath hai 🥱

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Why not? It was Aarohi's choice to lie. How does Akshara's silence absolve Aarohi of her dishonesty? 🤔

I can drag Aristotle and Kant and every other moral and ethical philosopher here to argue the case. But logically, how is Aarohi absolved of her lies just because people are silent around her. It only makes Akshara also guilty. Doesn't reduce Aarohi's wrongs.

Agree with you.

Just because someone is suffering your atrocities without complain you are putting the blame of your cruelty on them that because they are not raising their voice so you are being meaner n meaner to them.

Such ppl have no moral compass and need moral police to keep telling them what is right or wrong.

That means Aarohi will manipulate patient's file to show that she did nothing wrong if anything happens on a case and put the onus on another person.

One's own ethics does not lie on what others are doing.

And arohi has done enough bad things to Akshara. I cant believe the creatives plan to pair her up with Neil. its a social psycho case.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Agree with you.

Just because someone is suffering your atrocities without complain you are putting the blame of your cruelty on them that because they are not raising their voice so you are being meaner n meaner to them.

Such ppl have no moral compass and need moral police to keep telling them what is right or wrong.

That means Aarohi will manipulate patient's file to show that she did nothing wrong if anything happens on a case and put the onus on another person.

One's own ethics does not lie on what others are doing.

And arohi has done enough bad things to Akshara. I cant believe the creatives plan to pair her up with Neil. its a social psycho case.

That's so true! The girl's actions may not seem so grave but they do paint a bigger picture of the kind of person she is and what she can be capable of for achieving her aspirations or to hide mistakes.

Originally posted by: apra

Well agreed that her attitude towards akshara has been awful and she been nothing but a selfish girl all the time along since childhood, but question of the day are her lies really that big...

She just took credits of her sister's doing but akshara knows about it and she is not doing anything so she can hardly be blamed

if its anybody's fault its akshara (who refuses to see Aarohi is doing all this for her obsession's) and abhi who never saw the sisters rapo in-spite of the fact that he saw Aarohi charging on akshara on two occasions

so should we actually blame aarohi???

Originally posted by: apra

Well agreed that her attitude towards akshara has been awful and she been nothing but a selfish girl all the time along since childhood, but question of the day are her lies really that big...

She just took credits of her sister's doing but akshara knows about it and she is not doing anything so she can hardly be blamed

if its anybody's fault its akshara (who refuses to see Aarohi is doing all this for her obsession's) and abhi who never saw the sisters rapo in-spite of the fact that he saw Aarohi charging on akshara on two occasions

so should we actually blame aarohi???

Wow, yeah it's an interesting question.
I think Arohi is an opportunist who lies by omission. She equivocates and looks for loopholes to skirt the rules even when she doesn't outright lie. She did lie though that Akshara had left the campsite and also about deleting the texts Abhi had sent (maybe about other things too, I forget). She's an unethical person with a huge ego - her moral code is if something benefits her, it's not wrong no matter how she achieves it. Her whole attitude is that even God wants her to succeed and that's why these misunderstandings are working out in her favor. At this point, she's pretty close to the textbook definition of psychopath (pathological egocentricity, incapacity for love, lack of remorse or shame) except we've seen she does occasionally show self-awareness and remorse. So yeah, I think she's not a good person and her bad behavior is being enabled by Akshara and the Goenkas. I will say that Arohi is one of the more realistic characters on this show. I've know a few pre-med students who are very much like her🤣

I agree. I just wrote a response to another post about this - Abhi should be a little more clued in about the toxic dynamic that Arohi brings to her sister based on what he's seen so far.