epi 469- Siblings, Secrets and etiquettes - Page 2

When I saw a couple entering goenka mansion today i thought they've come to ask hands for akshara - some Mr rawat. Also a spoiler is floating of wedding alliance for akshara and that seems realistic too. Manish would want her to get married. Even in first season akshara was to marry someone else first. I wish they introduce something else- this Aarohi nonsense is way too much and I'm sure when someone else comes akshara will be able to realize how she can't love somebody else more than abhi. Just the way abhi sees only akshu as life partner, similarly she sees abhi only. This way they will give the story a base too. As February is still far when abhira reunion I believe will happen and whole month will go on drama I think. Just the way abhi is being forced into aarohi and it's painful for him, akshara will be in the same shoes as she will realize how difficult it is to marry someone else. That's where they will stand in same position. Remember a couple entered today and in precap abhimanyu received a call- I think the call says about this alliance of Akshu.

I want Abhimanyu to question her or find out reason for her refusal but that's not happening

I don't know why but I didn't feel like he is doing wrong ignoring her coz when she slipped he caught her again but he did it like he would do for any of her colleague ot staff.

It's Akshara who was pushing him yesterday now that he is trying to control himself she wants him to look at her. Sorry But I pity on him if he is trying to control himself then give him some space and even normally we are not ready to face people the next day after all happening. He knows she loves him but he didn't try to find reason and went ahead with a proposal for Aarohi and that's where he did a blunder. He had reason for his mother's health issue but still he should have atleast tried talking to her and he called her to tell that she is sending proposal so why he didn't called her to ask reason for refusal and even Akshara didn't gave him a proper reason for rejecting him and last time she gave reason was she is a mismatch for him.

I am waiting to see how things will unfold in future

Nice analysis ❤

I can justify everything abhimanyu has done so far..he has really gone out of his way to make akshara come to him..he is a go getter and he has proved it..

But the only thing which irked me and made me against abhimanyu is when he proposed arohi for marriage..please its just wrong on so many levels..abhimanyu doesn't know a single about akshara and arohi's equation..he doesn't know that they're step sisters and not real sisters..he doesn't know about sirat and akshara's guilt..for him they are normal sisters.

He claims to love akshara , proposes to her for marriage and when she refuses , he madly goes and proposes arohi..and then he expects akshara to confess her love to him and fight for him & stop the marriage ..is it even possible?? Any normal sister won't be able to do that and here we have akshara who has Harboured a guilt towards arohi for years..

In his impulsive actions abhimanyu has made a mockery of sanctity of relationships..he rejects arohi in Tilak declaring his love for her sister akshara..that was IT..arohi's chapter should have ended in his life then and there ..what was the NEED to open it again..he doesn't love arohi & doesn't want her..for arranged marriage he could've gone to any other girl in town ..arohi isn't the only doctor and the only girl available to marry..but he chose to go for arohi and claims he isn't able to move on from akshara .

No matter how much abhimanyu tries to justify his proposal for arohi stating his mother's health reasons..I can't support it. Its bullshit..

I know abhira is the endgame..but its gonna be so awkward that he was about to marry his wife's sister ..and when arohi marries neil its gonna be even more awkward as both sisters will be in the same household..I blame abhimanyu for this mess and I'll keep doing it even after he rejects arohi..he has destroyed the sanctity and essence of pure relationships for me..

WOW WALA 🤗

I keep remembering JIJA ka dialogue that being a great doctor is controlling emotions 🤣

I am ok with the way Abhimanyu's behavior not because other's are "tashan" and all that but it's a much needed track to show a build up towards akshara's complete rebellion against Aarohi. Abhimanyu is being a jerk yes but I can understand his behavior, he's volatile in nature like you said hot or cold and yes he didn't ask the right questions, "wo ek baar ha karde, mein zameen aur asmaan ek kar dunga" he should have said that to Akshara. But I don't blame him I wouldn't want to friends with the person who affect me this much and according to him he tried everything but nothing worked yes he made the biggest mistake agreeing to marry Aarohi in his anger, how can akshu accept him when he agreed to marry her sister. Someone needs to make him see that not akshu cause everything she says he thinks is an excuse.

Akshu it's a loose loose situation for her, I like her would never go against my family for a guy. So I completely understand her rejection cause she never be happy if she go against her family but her love for Abhi is also hurting her. It's so sad that she gave up hope of being happy ever again her only solace is that Abhi might move on and be happy. Now her resolve is weakening, it's new for her this longing and not being able to control her emotions.

Let's see where this goes.

I feel the writing is so much flawed. Instead of showing silly dream sequences if they show what is going deep inside their thought processes and even make the stupid storyline loook a bit convincing it will be fine. Abhira are mostly silent, crying, thinking dream sequences. Storyline is not well developed in S3 as compared to previous two seasons

This is what is going on in my head since morning!

Why do they think Abhimanyu’s actions are okay and blame Akshara always?

Like you mentioned even I would do the same if I was in that situation!

Akshara was respectful towards him even after the rejection! Why cant he do that?
I’m really frustrated with all the backlash Akshara is facing!

Originally posted by: borntorule12

When I saw a couple entering goenka mansion today i thought they've come to ask hands for akshara - some Mr rawat. Also a spoiler is floating of wedding alliance for akshara and that seems realistic too. Manish would want her to get married. Even in first season akshara was to marry someone else first. I wish they introduce something else- this Aarohi nonsense is way too much and I'm sure when someone else comes akshara will be able to realize how she can't love somebody else more than abhi. Just the way abhi sees only akshu as life partner, similarly she sees abhi only. This way they will give the story a base too. As February is still far when abhira reunion I believe will happen and whole month will go on drama I think. Just the way abhi is being forced into aarohi and it's painful for him, akshara will be in the same shoes as she will realize how difficult it is to marry someone else. That's where they will stand in same position. Remember a couple entered today and in precap abhimanyu received a call- I think the call says about this alliance of Akshu.

For the first time I'm disagree with you. If he again see her interact with her he can't control. As she said he is respecting the ring by avoiding her. He know he can't be in a relationship with Aarohi but for her he is respecting it. He just accept that Akshara ke saath ab kuch nahi hoga. Eventhough he want only her . Can't you see he gone back to the old abhi who just take care of his own self not bothering others. The first time Aarohi met abhi at hospital and bike accident he never spare a look at her or listen to her. He is back to that. It takes a lot of control in him to do that not to notice his zindagi standing right infront of him. As you have described Akshara's strategy is to smile and endure pain it's his strategy to avoid her. Not everyone is similar. Everyone have their on techniques to tacke situation. It may be seen wrong to us but it is right to them they feel solace in that. They feel satisfied.

How many times he showed her his heart. Don't he have the right to know the reason for rejection. Can't she be civil and tell him the reason. Why should every time Abhi should behave properly??? Can't she be little matured and tell him the reason. If she can't do that stay away from him. Let him move on with his issue rather than torturing him by interfering in his life.

And proposing Aarohi was a mistake he took that decision in hastle and out of mind time. It's because he always told jo dil maim hai wo zuban pe. He promised his father whomever he chose he will agree and he also heard the concession of the trio at the therapy session where Akshara clearly said she thought she loved him but no it was her mis consept with status and all Arohi is the perfect match. From the time Abhi met Akshu he always does what she told him to do. So he just followed that.

I agree it was a big blunder may be he never thought that the rishta will go this far and it will be this difficult. As we know we all make decision hastle and suffer like hell. It's what is he doing. Suffering. For his decision and for Akshara's in difference.

He is a human. He is not mahan like Akshu so he is living in a hope that one day everything will be alright. She will reciprocate. He know it won't happen but it's his wish hope that make him live through each day every sec. My heart ache for Abhi more than Akshu. She not even considered him as a human. When she decided to give it to Aarohi.

Hope ki jaldi se ye track khatham ho. I don't want Abhira to get married now. They need to know each other, so take time and romance little bit then get married. First of all trust each other and talk.

Or yeh CVs ithne saare raaz chipak rakthahi kyu hai yaar atleast vo drunken convo tho yaad dilavoa full nahi vo shaadi part tho ya phi fire in ident and ILU. Pleasee beggiinnngggggg you.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Abhi ko aur rotha hua nahi dekh sakta.......😭😭😭😭

Beautiful review. How much you dig the given 20 mins story and write to make us understand is the beauty of your review. Abhimanyu said Ak accepted the defeat and stepped back whom to fight for then? Her one yes will turn the tables as we expected. So answer is before him. Why Arohi thought he loved Arohi and sat for first tilak even if Manjari is confused? Did he ever gave signals to her.Then she can't say anything. Answer lies there only for him.why Ak kept on rejecting him in the name of lame excuses and why Arohi agreed in a second knowing he loves Ak. The dumb hero has no brain to use. He is a man believes what he sees and listens that's clear. His mom told Arohi has convinced Ak to say truth when Arohi has threatened her in hospital after ruby case cant he connect there. He went on his mom's words. Next is his own eyes in mandir just saw her holding plate. So this man is right what he sees and listens is truth for him. He has seen Ak rejecting him inspite of her love but can't guess what it is. He used saam daan bhed dandopaya to break confess Ak for what to break Arohis alliance by Ak. Will any sister do it even hatred is not there between them never and big no.We love family so we go ahead with marriage that way it's our tradition ek baar shadi hojaye sab thik hoga. His answer for Neil is right according to him when she is a step back how will he fight. Neil abhi convo was good as he is caring Abhira much.The dream sequence is symbolic. Both are near to each other wants to hold but they are unable to touch each other. This is due to importance to the relationship as emphasised. In last Abhi is taken away so it's Abhis dream coming that way as she is near but he can't take her hand. He removed the ring in anger and kept on table. His pain is unbearable. Ak on other hand is getting like abhi and kv got it on head today after Ak. Though Neil kv can't do anything they go ahead with mus and functions simultaneously till Arohi is exposed. Arohis deeds to get MD seat is like a mad dog. Cant she do one after the another. She makes mistakes more in confidence to be caught .Abhi ignoring Ak is his next step to.push Ak to him.she is feeling hurt and pain in heart for his behaviour but he can't be normal with her anytime unless she says something. So he has to do that so as to save himself from more hurt . It's his way of dealing things . Like how Ak ignored him and didn't respond to his calls and warnings it's his turn to be quiet. On the tilak, abhi ate full of sweets in anger pain and hurt when Ak rejected ignored him. Now it's her turn to take sweets showing all that. Then he gave methi dana to her and she ate it now he drank methi dana water. You are right Ak life is Methidana useful but kadwa. She has bitter life throughout so nothing can change her . If he ignores Ak and moves close to Arohi there will be no redemption for hero if Abhira are united.